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 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 245
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A 1935 cream colored Auburn Boat Tail Speedster Convertible with Eight-cylinder L-head inline engine with supercharger, 3.062 x 4.75οΎ” bore and stroke, 279.9 cid, 150 horsepower, three-speed gearbox, semi-elliptic suspension, four-wheel hydraulic brakes; wheelbase: 127"?????????


Wow one of the men I dated once over the summer was looking for a woman with a live aboard.. He was so into scuba diving.. He ate, breathed and lived it.

If it were not for the buddy system I might have surfaced a whole lot faster?

thecatsmeoww
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 246
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/11/2009 1:11:48 PM

Men will easily forego intellect and sweet personality if a woman for the smokin hot physical stuff.


Yep from what I have heard some of them do not even like the ones they bed..

thecatsmeoww
 brown like honey
Joined: 8/13/2008
Msg: 247
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/11/2009 10:07:28 PM
I like what you said, and I totally agree.. I think loyalty and devation are a key to any realtionshop.. what a man you appear to be.. Chemisty is the key also.. Are you dating..?I think you must have been into some relationship and been places in dark and light so you get it.. NOt used to hearing that from a man point of view.. I love.. Relationship are hard, but if you find someone that has been though that stage.. It can work.. but it will be hard.. so.. My next relationsiip;; I know what to do now..
 brown like honey
Joined: 8/13/2008
Msg: 248
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/11/2009 10:09:46 PM
girl, that is right.. dont go to bed with men you like.. what do you think men.. dont like easyl. as well as some women..
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 249
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 2:40:17 AM

girl, that is right.. dont go to bed with men you like


Indeed your liable to get involved..

thecatsmeoww
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 250
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What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 6:29:58 AM
Same as any other age: Someone who I find attractive, who gets my penis hard to look at and touch, someone who shares the same interests outside of the bedroom as me (movies, exercise, photography, etc.) and someone who is kind and giving.

A gardener is always appealing! I'm talking about my mother of course lol. A bit of an oedipus complex-? Someone who enjoys giving life and watching it grow and flourish.
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 252
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 7:53:56 AM

A smile, a genuine smile.


They come from the eyes :P
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 255
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 12:33:21 PM

girl, that is right.. dont go to bed with men you like.. what do you think men.. dont like easyl. as well as some women..


I thought this was nonsense until I noticed 2 people commented on it.
Now I think I must be dense.
I have no idea what this says.

 distinct_purpose
Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 256
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 12:48:24 PM

What to men over 45 look for in a relationship

Why a woman under 25 of course!!!



Men will easily forego intellect and sweet personality if a woman for the smokin hot physical stuff.

I think most men over 45 will have learned that this wears thin pretty fast if there isn't some substance to their intellect as well.

Let's face it everyone knows smoking hot sex is great, smoking hot sex and having to explain how to work a toaster every morning sucks big time.
 clockwork lime
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 258
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 2:37:33 PM

Why is it that you should not sleep with a man you like? I don't get that????

Who's stopping you?


Why is it that we as woman can't act like men regarding sex and not be called names???

Men who act like men regarding sex get called names.


Why should a woman not like sex for what it is SEX not love-making?

Why shouldn't she? Again, who's stopping her?
 clockwork lime
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 261
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 3:18:22 PM
Lol, you forgot lecher, sleazebag, womanizer, lothario, and whoremonger.
 luvhrses
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 262
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 4:34:43 PM
"What does a man over 45 look for?...why a cowgirl of course."

As a real cowgirl, I have to say that it is much harder to find a REAL cowboy! I know what cowboys look for in a relationship... a woman willing to carry 50# grain sacks, drag hay out to the field and muck the stalls! OK all you cowboys out there, tell me I'm wrong! LOL
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 11/12/2009 4:37:56 PM

"What does a man over 45 look for?...why a cowgirl of course."


hmmmm...

why am *I* still single then?

 clockwork lime
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 264
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 4:39:54 PM
Because you're a cowlady.
 luvhrses
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 265
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Posted: 11/12/2009 4:50:43 PM
That statement was taken from another poster but I didn't quite do the quote right... and YOU certainly aren't a COW lady... !!!!
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 266
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Posted: 11/12/2009 4:50:48 PM
darn!

it's always *something*!!!!

i need to get a photo that's less glam... it could help!!!

 luvhrses
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 268
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:01:50 PM
It should have read cowLADY
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 269
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:12:36 PM
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What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.



...*Raises hand* I know, I know.

A woman with a big screen tv
Fridge full of beer
A boat & motor
You laying in bed naked

Hmmm, *tapping foot*....did I miss anything?
Nope...the order might be wrong but I think I aced this one.

...maeflowers
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 270
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Posted: 11/12/2009 5:21:56 PM
well....

i have the tv.

the fridge full of beer could be solved in 15 minutes flat since the beer store is down the street.

i could certainly loll around in bed naked all day.

however, the boat and motor could be a problem, even with a river only a few blocks from my house.

darn!

no wonder i'm still single!

 Notdesper8atall
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 271
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:53:41 PM
Wow My list isnt that long but I can condense it into just one sentence.

I want a woman who doesnt use little colored flags to decide if I am datable or not.

I am beginning to think that some of the ladies on here work for the local utility locating companies. I can see them now with their little green and red and yellow flags going over my profile now marking where the dig for more information and where not to even look any farther..lol.

 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 273
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 6:05:33 PM
...Ok NTM...so I guess I don't men as well as I thought. Now don't I just feel like a piece of poo after my last post.

Great post btw, warm and insightful......may I laminate that?


...maeflowers
 Discerning Virtuosa
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 275
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/13/2009 6:52:52 AM

Men don't like easy women.


That's why their 1st, 2nd, and 3rd marriages all end with men complaining about how seldom their ex-wives wanted to have sex.

How does he know he isn't the 1st one she's been with in a couple of years and she simply really likes him, is attracted to him and enjoys his company? Would a man pressure a woman into sex unless he feels a connection with her? Guys want sex right? That's what we a re told over and over.

NewTo Michigan: You seem way too evolved to buy into that misogynist way of thinking.


Some women don't like (gets fuzzy here but willing to assume) easy men.

I don't know if I would call it easy, but instead persistent. Women just don't want to be badgered by a guy for sex like a used car salesman trying to close a deal just after they've met them.


A woman that is capable of respecting herself and me,,,
has feelings about love/intimacy/relationships that are common to someone who isn't jaded or tainted,,,
has consideration for anyone affected by her decisions on matters,,,
has the desire to live life to the end without having regrets,,,
has the capacity to love someone while disagreeing with them,,,
has the ability to appreciate the ways I would spoil her and reciprocate because she felt the same way about me,,,
wouldn't feel the need to raise her voice unless I eventually needed hearing aids and was too vain to get them,,,


Spoken by a highly evolved man! But be careful, I think you have just described me.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 277
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Posted: 11/13/2009 2:33:11 PM
^^^maybe he should have a chat with that guy in the other thread who thinks that women are "selfish" and need to get bent over sofas more than sitting on them!

 Mizz Demeanor
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 278
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:59:41 PM

thinks that women are "selfish" and need to get bent over sofas

Maybe he's hoping that from that angle, she won't be able to see how tiny his di*k really is...?
Just a thought...

~mizz
 cj37167
Joined: 2/23/2009
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Posted: 11/13/2009 3:08:16 PM
what do i look for.........i usually put a mirror under their nose and if it fogs up, its a go
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