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 jzerohour
Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 59
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they are only stranger if you allow them to be.
 beachinbabe
Joined: 12/14/2004
Msg: 75
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Posted: 6/4/2005 2:49:53 PM
Call me a slut... but I will after chattin a bit, clickin and viewin pics.
 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 76
Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/4/2005 2:50:49 PM
HELLO BEACH, WOULD YOU LIKE TO CHAT? hehehe
 AngelEyes99
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 78
Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/4/2005 3:16:11 PM
Whoa sex with strangers, now thats messed up
 freedomishonesty
Joined: 4/1/2005
Msg: 82
Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/4/2005 9:13:54 PM
There must be a connection for me to feel inclined to cyber or have phone sex.
There must be much much more of a connection for me to actually invest myself with someone in any physical, sexual, or sensual acts.
There is no time frame set for those connections to occur.
This is where my hard-core individuality beliefs come into play.

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To answer the question, let's go ahead and be clear on what "stranger" means.

strange Audio pronunciation of "stranger" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (strnj)
adj. strang·er, strang·est

Not previously known; unfamiliar.
Out of the ordinary; unusual or striking.
Differing from the normal.
Not of one's own or a particular locality, environment, or kind; exotic.
Reserved in manner; distant.
Not comfortable or at ease; constrained.
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NO - I would not sleep with someone if I didnt feel comfortable or familiar with them and I certainly would not bed someone who is reserved or distant from me.

Out of the ordinary (unusual or strinking), however - THAT is sexy.
Of my own particular locality - obviously we'd have to be in the same place and environment. Own kind and exotic... yeah - that is part of the connection!
 riffstar
Joined: 6/28/2003
Msg: 83
Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/8/2005 10:22:21 AM
Indeed---I won't say I've never done it, but it was long ago...and I discovered that sex is too inextricably woven with love and romance and devotion in my heart to engage in meaningless encounters. Sure, it'd be nice if our first night of love is wonderful---but our 1000th night of love should be sheer bliss.....
 arth
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 84
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Posted: 6/10/2005 5:31:17 PM
I tend to very careful about things like this. Even a person you've chatted up in a bar for an hour is essentially a stranger. Use common sense and intuition before deciding if you should go home with them. Use the chat time to sus him or her out.
 Lady Marie
Joined: 11/17/2004
Msg: 85
Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/10/2005 7:59:30 PM
NO WAY. I would rather die a virgin than to sleep with any guy who has no chamber to stay in my heart...

But maybe, just a cup of coffee ...
 night501
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 87
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Posted: 6/10/2005 11:59:52 PM
it depends is this someone i met up with just for sex? or did i just meet the person and sex is in the air?
ither way as long as the girl makes the first move tward sex then its on
 ¤°§åüçêy§oul§pinr°¤
Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 88
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Posted: 7/18/2005 6:38:38 PM
I could definetly do it and have done it. I am protected tho, I use a jimmy and foam & the pill. I actually prefer sex with strangers. No headache's or hang up's, we meet do our deed, and then part our seperate ways. I'm jus not ready to settle down. This site is great for one night stands.
 badbadgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 89
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Posted: 7/18/2005 6:43:55 PM
yes...i dont even wanna know his real name
 Fcukmeplease
Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 92
Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 7/24/2005 6:03:41 AM
Beware!!
 dantastic
Joined: 5/25/2004
Msg: 95
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Posted: 7/27/2005 2:16:18 PM
^^^^ Is this guy ****ing serious?
Whatever happened to not passing judgment others if you happen to disagree with them?
 Wylde
Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 116
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Posted: 7/27/2005 5:52:19 PM
Holy novel to bailey...git 'r done gurl!
 dantastic
Joined: 5/25/2004
Msg: 117
Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 7/27/2005 6:11:36 PM
@djiane
You're not calling a spade a spade.
What you're doing is calling a spade a disgusting thing with no morals. The last thing anyone on these forums needs is someone judging their sexual proclivities.
 WaywardWynde
Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 125
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Posted: 10/31/2007 5:47:41 AM
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I don't know about some of you ppl, But I can't sleep with a stranger! I mean I need to know the person first and know a little bit about them. What about you guys, Would you sleep with someone you don't know?
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They are strangers if you have told them your deepest, darkest thougths. You are happy to tell tell your deepest, darkest thoughts if they ask intriguing questions, listen without judgement and are handsome in a way that touches you. Handsome you know when you first see them. The rest can happen in a couple hours, or less. They aren't strangers anymore
 WaywardWynde
Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 126
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Posted: 10/31/2007 5:48:55 AM
Sorry, "they are not strangers ..."
 Brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 132
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Posted: 12/16/2008 12:53:47 PM
I think anyone who does this has a death wish....
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 145
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Posted: 12/16/2008 9:50:09 PM
Casual sex with stranger? Sure ,some wo/men do it all the time,when they are drunk or on drugs that induces them to crave for sex it does not matter who as long as they got their fix. And some women do it with money down first and no question ask..
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 149
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Posted: 12/17/2008 12:00:50 AM
Everyone is a stranger even when you know them...

A BIG FAT NO!
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 156
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Posted: 12/17/2008 2:56:55 PM
The free love wasn't a failure, just newer and more dangerous diseases came about. People still swing, still fool around and still have casual sex.

I don't need to love someone, quite the opposite. I prefer to the know the person enough to hold a conversation with them but beyond that, all is fair in love and war (sex can be considered both).
 Cogie36
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 157
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Posted: 12/17/2008 5:08:26 PM
Back in the day I sure would......but now....not so much......to many crazy people out there.....and to many diseases.....
 Amon Amarth
Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 165
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Posted: 12/18/2008 6:40:37 AM
Yeah casual sex is a non no unless you wish to catch and STD
 Cogie36
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 167
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Posted: 12/18/2008 8:00:22 AM
Better yet, try not to sleep with trolls and ditch-pigs.




OMG.......ditch- pig


that was freakin hilarious...... ty for that comment....
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