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 fainting goats
Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 17
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?Page 4 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
I really dont care what sexuality a person is, it just seems that the guys I am dating right now are all bi-sexual. For me personaly I dont want to be with someone who is bi, maybe its a security thing, I would always be thinking do they want something else, is there something a man could do for them I cant. Its fine with me if you are bi but its just like other things I like or dont like, its like my 10 year age rule.


As for the threading that is evil, I had that done once and it was the worst pain, it felt like they were cutting my face with razor blades, I had to stop with1 eyebrow half done. The people who do that are evil.
 Masked_Hero
Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 18
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/19/2008 12:27:48 AM
I guess kinda lost on this one... I've seen plenty of Gay men but Bi ??? I've seen my share of Bi women but not men.. I had a female friend who's boyfriend who I thought was kinda "Sweet" and another friend who's husband I would have been willing to bet my car (which I love so dearly) that he was gay... But hey whatever makes you happy ! If it makes ya happy and nobody is get'n hurt.. I'm have nuff'n against it.. If two ladies wanna pin me down and rock my world. .. Do me like Lebron James and DOUBLE TEAM ME !!
 Noobity
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 19
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/19/2008 1:11:23 AM
I'm turned off by bisexuality in women, don't really know why. Having sex with 2 women is a fantasy of mine, for sure, but I guess it's just the thought of them having more fun with each other than me that bothers me a bit. Insecurity, thy name is Noobity. Now, this isn't a deal breaker by any stretch of the imagination. I'm usually willing to give a bisexual woman a chance in a relationship (there's been a couple, not many), it's not a be all end all by any stretch of the imagination. I'm sure everyone's had relationships where they were turned off a bit by something their partner did either sexually or nonsexually. There's give and take everywhere.

Now, as far as bisexuality being "80%" of the population, I've gotta ask what you're talking about precisely. Are bisexuals people who've ever fantasized about members of both sexes? People who can tell the difference between attractive members of both sexes? I mean, depending on how you look at sure, 80% of the population is bisexual. If by bisexual you're counting men who've had dreams (nightmares) about sex with another man and woken up with a boner. Or women who've found themselves lightheaded and horny dancing with other women at the club. But this isn't bisexuality. The human body reacts the way it reacts without rational thought, and sexual labeling relies upon rational thought to be anything of value. I'll be the first to admit that I've had sex dreams about attractive men, I've been turned on by the sexuality of gay sex scenes on television and in movies. I don't, however, have any desire to kiss another man, to stick my penis in his mouth or booty, or to have my mouth or booty penetrated by a man. Bisexuality relies on a desire, not willingness, to be sexually intimate with members of both sexes.

Now everyone's going to have different views on definitions of bisexuality, but this is the predominant reason you have people confused as to what many of these percentages mean. I'm all down for you loving who you want to love, and as many people as you'd like to love at once, so keep on keepin' on as far as I'm concerned.

I'd also like to point out that since I've started checking out dating sites, I've found an interestingly high amount of bisexual females. This is just an observation, but a very high minority of people who've matched me or I've been interested in have been bisexual. It's interesting to say the least.
 dool
Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 20
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/30/2008 4:55:36 PM
hi honey....
your post is rubbish and needs to be scrapped. everybodys bisexual. the messages about eyebrows waxing etc. whats that all about???
honey ....
eyebrows waxing ????
im gay, whoopee doo. eyebrows waxing????? bisexual??? [can someone ... oh i cant be bothered any more] MOVING ON >>>>
 Patarey
Joined: 5/24/2008
Msg: 21
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:07:04 PM
UUUUUUUUUh, I´m not gay or straight.........I´m BI

That means I´ve experianced and can appreciate the best of both worlds................ and nooooo that does not give me a cheating pass.........
 fake-me-beautiful
Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 22
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:40:02 PM
Okay so.. I don't agree with you much at all. me, being bi-sexual myself, cannot condone what you're saying. I'm not attracted to women and men, I'm attracted to some people and not attracted to others. Just like a straight woman isn't attracted to every man they see, I'm not attracted to every person I see. When i'm in a relationship, I'm commited to that person regardless. It's not about gender, It's about the feelings I have for the person I'm with and the connection we have. I can't choose who I'm attracted to.. but I can choose to ignore it but then I'm not being myself.
 Krystall Love
Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 23
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:57:53 PM
ok,i've got to throw my two cents worth into this.first off i'm a bi-sexual transvestite and i have play/dated with both sexes.i find myself leaning towards being with guys more and more as times progresses,even though as a "normal"-what who is normal???-guy i have been married and even have some offspring.i've been a crossdresser/transvestite since my early teens and am far from new to this.but it seems when being in normal guy mode i only look and think about women,when in t-girl mode my thoughts can be with either sex,that depending on where i am or who is around me.my profile here is not designed to fool any unsuspecting people and when i'm in t-girl mode i am not trying to deceive anyone,although i have been hit on by both men and women that thought i am the "real thing" and these people are straight.makes one wonder.mind you at this point in time in my life i seem to only have sex in t-girl mode.and saying that,when i'm out on a date with a guy,i feel as straight as anyone out there and feel we are a male/female couple.
all i'll say is life is short so live life to the fullest you can and live it on yours and your partners terms.

Krystall
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 24
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 6:17:16 PM
I'm sure the hell not. And who are you hanging out with; eyebrows waxed? not one guy friend I know has ever done it.

Stop the mantra about trying to post things to shock people. Very boring.
 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 25
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statistically, men tend to be on either end of the spectrum whereas
Posted: 6/1/2008 5:43:45 PM

I have really... really, yet to see a "bisexual" girl past college age.


Long past college... but my bisexuality is more just sex than say, relationships. I prefer men, but have met some women who I am attracted to. I decided not to over-analyse it.. it is what it is. I also have never cheated.

I have no problem with bi men... as long as they have had enough respect for themselves to practice safe sex. Actually I admire them... in an homophobic society it shows a lot of cajones to admit being bisexual, as a man.

Peace
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 26
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/1/2008 6:45:31 PM
Orientation is a continuum, not a binary assignment. If I had a girl who made out with another girl...I'd think that's hot!
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 27
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/2/2008 11:28:15 AM

The internet is a giant library, loaded with real information based on scientific research methods.

and Porn! And according to Porn, all women are bisexual and will have sex with anyone at the drop of a hat. Any hat. And it's on the internet so it must be true.
 MyLegacy
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 28
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:21:32 AM
I don't think I'd ever be attracted to a man...unless he had boobs, and a pretty face... oh, and a vagina.
 sub girl wanted
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 29
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:44:19 PM
i love women/femininity and even when i was a teen in the 80's(when it wasnt trendy at ALL) tried to encourage my g/f's to try the bi thing.i just always preferred that,for a lot of reasons ...morethan just the possible 3some.and always being fair ,i returned the favor to a cpl g/f's who had that fetish the opposite way.im not attracted to guys,and didnt do anything near unsafe,but it was kinda fun and i earned alot of points with those girls heh.i think if your really sexual youre willing to at least try many things out.i dunno if id do that again,but i never say never.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 30
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:08:30 AM
yea id have to say its mostly a trend... i for one dont like followers. i do consider bisexual ppl confused, with loose morals, i dont consider the addressing of sexual orientation a label, its a life, the whole thing sounds unstable, how can someone not care what gender they have sex with, sounds irresponsible, and reckless, when u know what u want, its not gonna be two different things. i for one wouldnt date one, sorry to offend, but i get enough trouble fighting off men who try get with my chick.... and if u are the type who can be faithful to there mate and ur bi, good for u, but call me insecure or whatever u want but if a women isnt completely content in my gender as a man, and my abilities to please her she can move on
and then u have the chicks who are bi but wouldnt date a bi guy(im not bi btw), sounds like selfishness and hipocracy
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 31
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/5/2008 4:41:06 PM
Didn't read the whole thread.

I like to think of my self a flexual. I like women, a lot. I like women a lot more than I like men. In the right situation I got no problems with a guy involved and even intimate. It just isn't my preference.

Of course there are a few fantasies that I want to have some day that require gals and guys.
 GbBengi
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 32
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:16:29 AM
I understand that you dont want men waxing their brows, but did you seriously just flat out ask half the world to CHANGE their sexuality to suit you? I know it was not a serious request but its funny.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 33
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:35:46 PM
No, we cannot all be straight or gay. Sorry. We are who we are and if you have a problem with it, I don't know what to tell you.
 hfxromantic
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 34
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 5:19:40 PM
I have to admit that I have had three long term relationships, all with bi women. Only one woman left me for a man, but is now living with a woman. The other two left me for another woman. However, one of the women that left me for a woman, left that woman after 7 years to marry a man. Does that confuse every one enough? I don't think being bi makes any one more likely to cheat. Heck, two lesbians can go through the same thing. It happens a lot.

We don't want people to treat us differently because we are lesbians, so it is only fair to treat bi women the same. We didn't ask to be born lesbian, nor did bi women ask for that either. If any thing, if I was bi, I would be more confused then ever.

Chris
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 35
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 5:26:30 PM
Wow... everyone? Geesh... I guess I'm gonna have to start going out more because it sounds like my options are more wide open than ever before in the history of mankind...

Or perhaps I'm being over-dramatic...

Kinda like the OP and this "everyone" business.
 luvablebi
Joined: 10/15/2008
Msg: 36
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 1/10/2009 12:11:28 PM
What u are saying is you r bi curious a big differnence.I am a bi sexual and very proud of it..I have known for over 15 years that i was attracted to females...But i am attracted men to...I had one girl on girl experience and figured out i was not just curious i was actually bi..If i could have a male and female in a relationship I would but i cant..I am happily married to man and he lets me explore. Anyways Bisexuality is when u are attracted and emotionally attracted to the same sex and opposite. Bi curious is you might play but u dont feel the strong feeling s of bi sexuality..I love it I didnt chose the lifestyle it has always been me...
 chuckyB51
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 37
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 1/10/2009 5:40:00 PM

What u are saying is you r bi curious a big differnence.I am a bi sexual and very proud of it..I have known for over 15 years that i was attracted to females...But i am attracted men to...I had one girl on girl experience and figured out i was not just curious i was actually bi..If i could have a male and female in a relationship I would but i cant..I am happily married to man and he lets me explore. Anyways Bisexuality is when u are attracted and emotionally attracted to the same sex and opposite. Bi curious is you might play but u dont feel the strong feeling s of bi sexuality..I love it I didnt chose the lifestyle it has always been me...


How would you feel if the man you are married to also wanted to be bi-sexual and also have an open relationship with a man? Would you also allow him to explore?
 SupermanDW
Joined: 9/28/2008
Msg: 38
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 1/10/2009 9:07:15 PM
ok Im gay but my best friend is bi...I agree that they have feeling for not just one kind of person but people in general...I personally love men! whatever but i dont know if i could live with my "Partner" knowing that he is allowed to so call [explore] and me knowing that he has just had sex with a woman. That and the whole open relationship thing is so outta control..ugh...not for me...sorry lol
 luckygreentiger
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 39
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 1/10/2009 11:59:01 PM
i think everyone is somewhere along the sexual spectrum with very few people being 100% straight or gay. studies seem to support this--but most people feel that they need to label themselves one way or the other. it does seem to have gotten "trendy" in the last 10 years or so but doesn't really change the reality of the situation.
 coolcatx
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 40
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 1/11/2009 1:55:08 PM
no offense mrinternet,but u talk bollocks! sexuality IS innate,ie u cant say that most people would enjoy a handjob by a man or a woman.A lot of gay people realise theyre gay early on,and have never been sexually attracted to the other sex,its not in their makeup,their chemistry.And some people take longer to realise they are gay.Most gay women i know would NOT want a handjob from a man,or any other sexual practises with a man.Thats why their called LESBIANS! What is 'natural' to each person,is who they are innately attracted to,deep down,ie,men,women,both or assexual.Sexual preference is nothing to do with social instruction.People dont let society tell them to be gay,bi or straight.They may feel society pressure not to be gay,if they are gay,but they are what they are,regardless of that pressure.Where exactly did u get your opinions from?!!
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 41
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what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 3/16/2009 7:48:48 PM
It's interesting to read about all these variations in sexual behavior. But, personally, I'm UniSexual and I plan on staying that way. I can't stand anybody's company other than my own. As it so happens I'm not physically involved with myself. I like me as a friend only.
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