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Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 35
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no what is the matter with your sister..she has issues. There is nothing wrong with doing that and if she is so controlling that she forces her man not to well....he has no mind of his own and he is owned.
Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 36
Posted: 5/19/2008 6:21:07 PM
He cranks it like the best of us
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 38
Posted: 5/19/2008 9:16:44 PM
Oh my god is he ever whipped!
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 5/19/2008 11:18:11 PM
I'm seriously hoping he is either..

1. Doing the "yes dear" thing to keep the peace and whacking off like mad in the shower every morning

or, a much happier alternative...

2. Is submissive and all of this control and humiliation she is doling out is making him ecstatic. If that was his 'thing' this would be a match made in heaven. Ohhh, especially if he knew she was telling other people about his humiliation... truly a blissful union.
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 40
Posted: 5/19/2008 11:27:07 PM
All men masturbate. This guy is obviously just lying to her.
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 5/20/2008 12:02:51 AM
Hell no masterbating is not cheating unless your masterbating over someone on the net or over the telephone. Or of course with someone other than your partner/boyfriend/husbad. If your masterbating then you aint getting enough sex. Unless your a guy they can never get enough LOL
Joined: 11/28/2004
Msg: 42
Posted: 5/20/2008 12:14:25 AM
Ignorance is bliss-teach her or run.
Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 45
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Posted: 5/20/2008 4:23:39 AM
It is not cheating how does she know if he does or not is she with him 24/7 hell he takes a shower doesn't he. Fun I have a friend that was married (still is to the same women } and she was shocked that he still does lol.
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 46
Posted: 5/20/2008 3:25:16 PM
I dated a guy a few years back who seriously felt that his wife was having an affair with her BOB. In fact, it got to the point where she couldn't come with him, only with BOB. Which effectively ended their marriage.

If my fella was masturbating rather than bringing it home to me, I think I'd feel a bit cheated -- but not cheated on. On the other hand, if I wasn't interested. . . . Nope, can't even *imagine* that.

I think Margo's right: two very sick peeps getting off on each other's hang ups. Or he's gonna be out the door soon. . . .

Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 47
Posted: 5/20/2008 6:29:32 PM
Not cheating at all.

I'm willing to bet he takes long showers for no reason, none at all.

I feel sad for the boy(s) if she ever raises one.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 48
Posted: 5/20/2008 8:44:55 PM
It is meant to be a natural thing and a supplement for when you are alone or when your object of desire is not around...period. It is not cheating. Puhlease.
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 5/20/2008 11:20:48 PM
Slip her hubby a note to dump she can get a real man, one who thinks like Austin.
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 5/21/2008 6:56:00 AM
I have a question, this is my story and I may not have been right, but I was young then.

I was a newlywed of 18, just had a baby (married less than a year), but still wanting to be made love to by my husband. I began to feel neglected and found out that instead of me, he was doing his own thing in the bathroom to the playboy bunnies.
And it was rare he finished cumming with me in bed, (lol, we did have one child) he usually finished on his own.

Now, in this instance would you understand a girl not wanting the magazines around and upset when he spent a lot of time alone?

On the other hand I did and still do fancy seeing him get off when i am in the room and he is looking at me, doesnt bother me a bit.
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 52
Posted: 6/2/2008 12:02:35 PM
Yeah, when I injured my right shoulder and had to have surgery I was worried....
 pen city guy
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 53
Posted: 6/2/2008 2:00:22 PM
ya my x thought that too.. and was actually hurt/crushed when i did.. of course i did.. and i still do.. actually....if some of you lovely ladies would like to help me out that would be much appreciated
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/2/2008 5:00:27 PM
honestly if i didn't masturbate i'd need a bra for my balls or a c-section to remove the load!
can you imagine ! i'm already a lil crazy but imagine how f'd in the head i;'d be with all that pent up !
that being said, if i ever get laid before i die, give me a few tries to get used to the fact that i'm having SEX!
Joined: 9/29/2006
Msg: 55
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Posted: 6/2/2008 5:04:13 PM
This woman is nuts. Does she really think he's going to stop because she "forbids" it? It's human nature to do something, anything when you're told you can't!
 poet of tragedy
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 6/2/2008 7:47:21 PM
Masturbation is a very natural act, like anything else, it can be abused; however, who is she to make such a demand over another’s life? She should step and re-evaluate her relationship and he should grow some balls and tell her no!
Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 57
Posted: 6/2/2008 8:05:48 PM
That's ridiculous. I used to watch porn and make my ex watch it with me, then ask him if he liked it. It's just porn. It's not like as if he'd have a chance with any of the women anyway. Good lord, I hope a man masturbates, because I would hate to think they're waiting for me all the time.

And I'm borderline asexual but I still have my toys. Sheesh.

If every sperm is sacred, then that means she can't use birth control or use condoms, because she's wasting perfectly good seed. It's time for her to adapt to a Michelle Duggar lifestyle. Always on her back, cranking out kid after kid, whenever her body will allow. Clowncar vagina and all.
Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 58
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:58:45 AM
OP, sounds like your sister has major issues both with being a control freak and with having major problems accepting sexuality. Tell her to see a shrink.
Joined: 7/16/2006
Msg: 59
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:07:18 AM
If he cheats on her, she deserves it. Thats just my opinion. She better watch it, someone else may take her man from her an it will be her fault in my eyes.
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 61
Posted: 6/3/2008 1:44:50 PM
Yes, I do believe autoerotic activity may be construed as "cheating" if the hand or hands belong a body other than the.... ahem "subject" individual.

Emotional cheating can also occur even if the person is alone. For example, if the behavior goes beyond the usual garden variety self-abuse or "flogging" and entails "setting the stage" for romance with mood music, a favorite meal, dim lights, and a couple of chilled wine glasses on the nightstand (one glass for each hand) and accompanying conversation with oneself ("You look particularly lovely tonight, Dearest"...or coyly murmuring "C'mon, Honey, for me?"), then I guess this behavior could invoke a modicum of resentment or insecurity in the other person, especially if she should happen to "walk in on" or "catch" the guilty party "red-handed."

Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 62
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:27:08 PM
Of course it isn't cheating!
Damn! I cannot believe some of the questions on this site!
Cheating requires another human being--IN PERSON--LIVE--not on the internet, not on a wlakie-talkie, not on a cellphone, not on a landline phone, not on a fax machine, NOT on a webcam!
The internet is not real!
Certainly ****ing YOURSELF is not cheating!
Come on, people!
Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 65
Posted: 6/3/2008 6:26:41 PM
Wow... that is scary. She actually suckered some guy into playing along with her weird insecurities? Ha ha, or at least she thinks she did. You know he's taking care of business, alone or with someone else!

Masturbation is totally normal. What planet is she from?
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 66
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:14:37 PM
Masturbation isn't cheating.

You sisters' using that, as an excuse, to hide the fact that she's a control freak.
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