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 J_in_SD*
Joined: 1/1/2009
Msg: 94
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As the saying goes, you're only cheating yourself.
 mysteriousromeo
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 2/7/2009 1:14:11 PM
A)Your sister definitely has issues
B)Masturbation is not cheating
C)Your sister's boyfriend should grow some balls
 mysteriousromeo
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 2/7/2009 1:19:32 PM

Secondly, I was just having a self sex session and I nearly knocked over my lamp, rearranged my furniture as in the mattress nearly came off the bed, sheets came off, drink fell on the floor, I would say that masturbation is healthy...my room even smells like sex, and I even broke a sweat and now I'm tired...I love having sex with myself...at least I know what I like, want, and need...


 Golfer38
Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 97
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Posted: 2/7/2009 1:24:09 PM
fainting, your sister has issues, no doubt her husband will be dumping her soon. Wow that is crazy.
 ron62449
Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 98
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Posted: 2/7/2009 2:29:47 PM
In my opinion masterbating is not cheating unless it interferes with you & you SO sex life.
I think though if you fantize about someone else and not her during masterbation it would be cheating.

Ron
 GreenwoodUnion
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 99
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Posted: 2/7/2009 4:59:56 PM
OP, do you really believe your sisters man quit masterbating because she forbids him. Ha, she's a fool if she thinks she has that much control over someone.....
I'm sure he masterbates every chance he gets..........and good for him.....she's nothing but a controlling b_tch........and he'd be real stupid to OBEY her but I don't really think he's that STUPID.....do you????
 BiBoz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 3/18/2009 3:35:59 AM

I was resently talking to my sister and she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate, she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex. Even when I am a relationship and the sex is great I still feel the need to take care of things for myself from time to time, I even find it a turn on to watch a guy "take care" of his needs. I just want to know are there other people out there who think like my sister, do you agree that masturbation is cheating?


My ex tried that attitude on me once. Geez. Thats the ultimate in jealousy and control if you ask me.
 dont need one
Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 101
Masturbation=cheating
Posted: 3/18/2009 4:26:42 AM

do you agree that masturbation is cheating?


only if he uses someone else's hand!!!!!!

what average male would be able to keep his hand off it for too long anyway.... everytime they have a spare minute u can catch them adjusting themselves or just checking to make sure all is well with the little guy


Thats the ultimate in jealousy


how sad... to be jealous of a hairy mans hand!!!

she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex


maybe if shes so against it she should step up to the mark and start tugging for him then....that way it cant be regarded as sex in her mind as its just a "job" kinda like washing the dishes
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 102
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Posted: 3/18/2009 5:18:05 AM
I find that mindset pretty ridiculous. My body is my own, and I don't remotely understand how touching myself is supposed to interfere with a relationship. That sort of control over another's sexuality is not healthy, IMO.

OP, I'll bet her man masturbates to porn when she's not around anyway.
 VinceDaPrince
Joined: 11/4/2008
Msg: 103
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Posted: 3/18/2009 8:16:55 AM
lol ... if masterbation = cheating ,,, i cheetah every night ,,,,,,,, if i use both hands is that considered group cheating ?
 Connor_T
Joined: 1/23/2009
Msg: 104
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Posted: 3/18/2009 8:46:29 AM
Masturbation is not cheating, and this person should not be in a relationship if she doesn’t like sex, it's very inconsiderate, but...

I think a lot of busy people in a relationship get into a routine of masturbating regularly and then going about their day, which leads to people ignoring their partner sexually, or having bad sex, and internet porn has only made things 1000x worse.

So while I think her situation is way off base, asking a partner to stop masturbating for a while because you want them to want you more often or to have a more aggressive experience in bed is totally acceptable, it can even be fun, as long as you both look at it with a positive attitude.
 allthatglittersisnotgold
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 105
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:16:07 AM
If I were you I would show her this forum and what people had to say to her. She is not living in reality here. Who gave her the right to order him and who said he should obey her stupid demands. I see a guy fu@king around on the side if he's not getting any. Who the hell in their right mind would blame him.
 NikonPhotoMajor
Joined: 12/9/2008
Msg: 106
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:21:21 AM

I find that mindset pretty ridiculous. My body is my own, and I don't remotely understand how touching myself is supposed to interfere with a relationship. That sort of control over another's sexuality is not healthy, IMO.

OP, I'll bet her man masturbates to porn when she's not around anyway.


I agree with this poster. The only time masturbation becomes an issue is if that is what a partner wants to do exclusively. Why should he have to stop pleasuring himself just because she has a low sex drive? This is completely ridiculous.
 MandaKay
Joined: 3/14/2009
Msg: 107
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:53:15 AM
How is masturbating cheating? Seriously.

And she 'won't let him' masturbate? How does she prevent this? Is she with him every where he goes, ever second of the day. Me thinks the lady doth protest too much. If she's not in the mood for sex, she should understand that he needs/wants some release. He can either get it with his hand or with his neighbor.
 js104c1
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 108
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Posted: 3/18/2009 10:26:22 AM
Its not cheating if you are in a different zip code than your hand is in.
 EyesWideOpen66
Joined: 8/8/2008
Msg: 109
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Posted: 3/22/2009 10:08:36 PM
So long as it's not INSTEAD of sex with me, I couldn't care less!
 ZenBeth
Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 110
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Posted: 3/22/2009 10:16:32 PM

FaintingGoats:I was resently talking to my sister and she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate, she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex. Even when I am a relationship and the sex is great I still feel the need to take care of things for myself from time to time, I even find it a turn on to watch a guy "take care" of his needs. I just want to know are there other people out there who think like my sister, do you agree that masturbation is cheating?


My question is what kind of masochist is a man who allows a woman to tell him that doing what he needs to do alone is wrong?
 boogydude
Joined: 11/27/2008
Msg: 111
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Posted: 3/23/2009 5:50:52 AM
hi, i have been married 6 times and i can tell you right now your sister is screwing somebody else.

she wants the security her wussy husband gives her but she is more than likely getting it on the side. has all the marking's of a cheater. she is more than likely very submissive to the man she is cheating with and to counter act that she is a control freak at home. i have seen it happen personally. they become very possessive and controling. they accuse you of cheating to make themselves feel justified.

just my thoughts but start watching your sister and you will catch her.
 beadonna
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 112
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Posted: 3/23/2009 10:53:35 AM
i certainly don't think masterbating is cheating

i will say this, however......

when/if your partner turns you down for sex because they are not "in the mood," then later that day/evening you happen to walk in on them taking care of themselves, well, that's pretty depressing

i know this because it happened to many, many years ago when i was first married to my ex

certainly, everyone is entitled not to be "in the mood" on occasion, and certainly one is entitled to "take care of oneself" if necessary. but when the two happen together, well, its hard not to take that personally

in hindsight, only the first hint of (much) worse things to come
(no pun intended)
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 113
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Posted: 3/23/2009 4:38:47 PM
I masturbate but I do not feel it's cheating.I have no problem with my lady masturbating either.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 114
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Posted: 3/23/2009 4:58:03 PM
Maybe she means you're cheating her out of a full nut!
 lioness.82
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 115
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Posted: 4/14/2009 7:26:24 PM
Masturbation is not cheating at all, its healthy and normal.
I cant believe some people could even think of it as a form of cheating
 AMERICAN_GANGSTA510
Joined: 4/9/2009
Msg: 116
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Posted: 4/14/2009 7:39:23 PM
'i beat mine like it owes me money' THANX FREE INTERNET PORN!!
 Aisfor_Amanda
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 117
Masturbation=cheating
Posted: 11/15/2009 9:27:02 AM

do you agree that masturbation is cheating
Not at all.


she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate


Yeah right. Not if
she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex
 let5gocrazy
Joined: 9/25/2009
Msg: 118
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Posted: 11/15/2009 5:14:22 PM
Dam he will be cheating in no time if hes as sexual as most of us guys. After all its a known fact that after 3 days of no sexual activity a mans ball can explode with considerable force because of the pressure. Hmm or was it 4 days lol
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