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 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 162
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I don't think it's cheating, but, if you've got the real flesh-and-blood thing right there, unless she's not as horny as you are...WHY would you masturbate?

Personally, I think MUTUAL masturbation can be VERY sexy. I'd love to watch her play with herself while she watches me do the same, then listen and watch as our moans heighten and accelerate, and even watch each other cum. If she's a gusher, I'd like to squirt while she gushes...wow, that'd be great.

Talk about connection! Sex is largely mental and visual anyway!
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 163
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Posted: 11/16/2009 8:48:07 AM
It is only cheating if you do it while naked.
 m14shooter
Joined: 10/2/2009
Msg: 164
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Posted: 11/16/2009 10:04:11 PM
If I am in a relationship I don't like to get myself off, that is for when we are together. If I am having to take care of it my self I will be leaving soon to find someone I am compatible with but will give her a chance first. As for the OP's sister that does not put out and tells him he can't she is controlling and needs to stop or let him go.
 sweet lady Lori
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 165
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Posted: 11/17/2009 9:28:07 AM
Cheating is having sex with someone other than the person you are commited to...while masterbation can be considered a form of sex, it's with yourself, so not sure how that could even be clasified as cheating.

As for your sister ~ does she really think her husband DOESN'T do this because she "does not let" him? LOL!! She must be quite naive!
 boho_bookworm
Joined: 12/6/2008
Msg: 166
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Posted: 11/17/2009 2:51:15 PM

an yes i masturbate - i beat that thang like it owes me money sometimes


ROTFL
 kaiser1one
Joined: 2/20/2009
Msg: 167
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Posted: 11/23/2009 6:59:07 PM
Your sis is definitely paving the grounds for her husband to cheat or even leave her.

I know someone in this scenario, minus the can't masturbate.
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 168
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Posted: 11/23/2009 7:02:29 PM
So she does not let her man masturbate when she's not around.


What does she do, keep weighing his balls or something?


She's pretty fcuked up.
 Fabulous Disaster
Joined: 7/4/2009
Msg: 169
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Posted: 11/24/2009 10:00:43 AM
It has to do with her own insicurities. Thats all it is. Masterbation is far from cheating. I personally dont date women who dont masterbate themselves. I think it shows they are closed off sexually and if thats the case than they will never meet my needs.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 171
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Posted: 11/24/2009 3:39:09 PM
LOL!! You must know how absurd your sister's take on his masturbation is. I mean, quite aside from the philosophical stance, how does she enforce her rule?
btw- why did those goats faint on ya?
 dot*
Joined: 10/9/2009
Msg: 172
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Posted: 11/24/2009 4:07:57 PM
It's not cheating at all to me. Go ahead. Go nuts!
 ChefAmber
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 173
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Posted: 11/25/2009 10:10:26 AM


That is absurd. How can you cheat with yourself?


If you are single and a right handed masturbator, are you cheating on yourself if you use your left?
 Wild DNA
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 174
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Posted: 11/25/2009 12:19:35 PM
Well.. when sister wakes up single one day because her man got sick and tired of her "not letting him" be a man. She may want to learn the art of masturbation! lol


Oh this should be fun!

Ya...she's off the wall!
 Ipostonforums
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 175
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Posted: 11/25/2009 6:26:44 PM
I'm about to cheat...
 BeccaBeth741
Joined: 11/1/2008
Msg: 176
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Posted: 11/25/2009 10:14:07 PM
Hahaha.

That is ridiculous. Your sister is delusional.
 goodnhumble
Joined: 9/11/2009
Msg: 177
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Posted: 11/26/2009 12:03:10 AM
Quite frankly. I think masturbating strangely teaches self-control...you learn how to pull back and prolong things for when it's the time for the real deal. Your sister's old man must be a one-pump chump because he has a lot of anxiety and tension built up...it's healthy to let if fly once in awhile.
 Opusvoid
Joined: 5/10/2008
Msg: 178
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Posted: 11/26/2009 12:39:57 AM
This is a funny question actually. I personally don't think so, but don't shove it in your partners face. My brother's GF knows he does it, but she really doesn't want to see his porn...it bugs her, but other wise she doesn't care.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 179
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Posted: 11/26/2009 7:13:29 PM
I think there is more than meets the eye here. IMHO, it sounds like they have a Domme/sub relationship., based on the fact that she says she "does not let" him masturbate. I believe he is what is known in the BDSM community as a "Cuckhold".
Male chastity is a bonnafide fetish.
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 180
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Posted: 11/26/2009 8:55:24 PM
No.I don't think masturbating is cheating and I wouldn't have any woman telling me not to do it.I had ex-girlfriends that masturbated and I was cool with it.
 texas_representa
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 181
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Posted: 11/26/2009 8:59:07 PM
im suprised at how many pages this thread has accumulated..obviously touching oneself in a sexual manner isn't cheating. that kind of thought makes no logical sense at all.
 ohthereugo
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 182
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Posted: 11/27/2009 4:47:30 PM
Your sisters husband thinks about other women in a sexual way my point is is that cheating as well lo l

Tell your sister not to be so demanding as she was when you were kids time for her to set her selve free and let hubby have a wank lol He does anyway and if she believes he doesnt shes more backward than i thought .
 ~embrya
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 183
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Posted: 11/27/2009 6:46:28 PM



I'm about to cheat...


.... and if you tell on yourself before you actually do it.... it is especially not cheating.
 OneWhiteLotus
Joined: 9/14/2009
Msg: 184
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Posted: 11/27/2009 7:02:53 PM
Absolutely not. I have no reason to believe that masturbating is cheating. I think your sister is setting herself up for failure. I have never heard of anything so ridiculous..."she won't LET him masturbate". She appears to be very controlling...if I were him, I'd run away, as fast as I could.
 kb800
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 186
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Posted: 12/9/2009 12:49:03 PM
Amen to that Gman :-)
 Warped_Humour
Joined: 10/10/2009
Msg: 187
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Posted: 12/9/2009 2:23:27 PM

I was resently talking to my sister and she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate, she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex. Even when I am a relationship and the sex is great I still feel the need to take care of things for myself from time to time, I even find it a turn on to watch a guy "take care" of his needs. I just want to know are there other people out there who think like my sister, do you agree that masturbation is cheating?


Nope, not cheating. Super healthy IMO actually.
Your sister sounds like a real gem. Lucky guy he is. I don't think my eyes can roll any further into the back of my head. I would actually encourage this guy to cheat on her.
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 188
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Posted: 12/9/2009 2:52:24 PM
Nope. It may not be the prettiest thing to do, but it's not at all the worst either. Especially if you are masterbating while thinking of your special other, there is no harm in that.
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