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 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
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"The Wise Man speaks, because he has something to say. The Fool speaks, because he has to say something."
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:25:17 AM
I completely disagree!!! Some of us are very talented!!
If a woman truly enjoys and desires giving oral sex to her partner - then you can be guaranteed she is really good at it! Believe me you will know it's a good BJ at that point!!!
 nybratde
Joined: 5/22/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:48:41 AM
Ah dusty my dear,

When you find the woman who craves giving head like a junky craves a fix you have found the woman who has mastered the art of the blowjob. If the woman were truly that good at givng head in the first place, then that man getting all worked up would be no issue at all. Its about control taking it and relinquishing it. When a woman is giving head SHE is in control the sooner all of us realize that the better off we'll all be.
This may or not exactly answer the question, but it is my stance.


NY
 BlueSteeeel
Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:58:46 AM
I don't really see the issue here....good blowjobs are relative, no?

I mean, I'm sure a man can say one woman is better than another at giving him head, and so on. Why not just leave it at that? If both people are enjoying themselves, who cares? If he's never had a 'truly good one', as you say, how is he to know what he's missing?

Also, how are you gathering your data for the last point? Are you basing it on how you react to getting head, from talking to others, or something else? Because it hasn't been my experience that most men shoot in a minute or less at all, and I'd think I would ( as a woman) have a bit more empirical evidence than you would, unless you give head yourself. In which case, I won't judge.
 BlueSteeeel
Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 22
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Posted: 5/30/2008 11:42:59 AM
I used formal wording there, but I'm sure you know what I meant, in general. You're the one who called it your 'theory', so you must have some reason for positing it. I was just curious about where that last part came from.
 Mellen29
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/30/2008 12:58:37 PM
Pardon me sir... but you're sadly mistaken (with No. 1)...
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 5/30/2008 1:08:40 PM

#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.



If women do not know, who does? Men? Little animals with large tongues?
So I vehemently disagree.

Now on number 2 I have to agree. It took me years to find a woman that could give a bj worth thinking about. But when you do, and she truly likes giving them, they can be awesome.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/30/2008 3:35:19 PM
What the hell are you talking about? I think you are the one thats clueless oh BJ god!
 My I
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 5/30/2008 4:09:29 PM

#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives


Being paid to blow does not inherently suggest she is great at it. That's like suggesting only attractive women give good blow jobs..... that's not true (speaking from experiences with unattractive women - lol)

A woman simply needs the right attitude and desire to please - she'll do whatever it takes to make him happy. However, if she has an unresponsive recipient (physically and verbally)... greatness may not be achieved. Nor, will she care about being great when sucking a dud - lol!!


#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one


Wanna bet:

decent = mouth only.
good = mouth and tongue.
excellent (level one) = mouth, tongue and hands.
excellent (level two) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers.
excellent (level three) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers, tits against my balls
excellent (level four) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers, tits aginst my balls, deep throat
excellent (level five) = all the above plus teabagging
excellent (level six) = all the above plus biting
excellent (level seven) = all the above plus swallowing
excellent (level eight) = all the above plus her girlfriend
excellent (level nine) = all the above plus passionately kissing her girlfriend
excellent (level ten) = all the above.... and she opens my beer while her girlfriend retrieves the remote control in time for the second half of the Super Bowl.
 sn1ckerz
Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/1/2008 4:34:29 AM
I disagree with you on both.
You either give good head or you don't. You either got good head or you didn't.

Doesn't matter how pretty they are or their occupation, "PORN SCANK", its if they enjoy it and have experience.

Lets ask you this you question, Do you think you give good oral to woman?
I bet you some will say you don't, and some might say yes. How much experience do you have in that area? Do you enjoy doing it?

So your question or theory as you say, really isnt a geat a question in my thought.

Personally, I have recieved some good ones and some bad ones. None of them were "PORN SCANKS". Some of them were great,and some weren't. thats it!!!

If your partner isn't doing a good job, you have to tell them. If you aren't going to tell them, then you can't complain your not satisfied or they plain ol' suck

Tell tehm what they are doing that isn't doing it for you so that you can enjoy getting and they enjoy giving.

JMHO on this.
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/1/2008 5:24:20 AM
If you're suggesting I shoot in less than a minute or can't tell a bad one without having had a good one, I disagree. I've never had one decent enough to shoot period, let alone in less than a minute and I've been plenty stoked about getting it in her mouth before-hand.

However, if there's 1 thing I learned about women it's that if you want to continue even gettin the sh*tty blowjobs, you'd best not tell her she "sucks" at "sucking" because you'll be in an intense staring match that's anything but arousing.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 6/1/2008 5:39:36 AM

decent = mouth only.
good = mouth and tongue.
excellent (level one) = mouth, tongue and hands.
excellent (level two) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers.
excellent (level three) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers, tits against my balls
excellent (level four) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers, tits aginst my balls, deep throat
excellent (level five) = all the above plus teabagging
excellent (level six) = all the above plus biting
excellent (level seven) = all the above plus swallowing
excellent (level eight) = all the above plus her girlfriend
excellent (level nine) = all the above plus passionately kissing her girlfriend
excellent (level ten) = all the above.... and she opens my beer while her girlfriend retrieves the remote control in time for the second half of the Super Bowl.


My I... you promised you'd never talk about that publicly...


Difference between a good bj and a great one... one word... enthusiasm. If it's an obligatory act, then it can be good, but more likely it's less then satisfactory. If, and this is just my opinion, the giver is enthusiastic about giving and gets into it, then the end result will be a very satisfied reciever.
 Boricua Papi
Joined: 10/8/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/1/2008 7:13:51 AM
what the hell is a" blowjob"? Any intelligent person out there?
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 6/1/2008 3:10:59 PM

#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.

I don't agree with the porn star part. Porn head is about looks and I have found some women try to emulate porn thinking it makes it godd and it isn't all that great.

I will agree many women do not know how to give good head.

Hehehehe I am sure most women will say most men don't know how to give oral also.

#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.

As I can only go from my own experiences but from the ratio of women who say that all the men they have been with said they gave great head and they weren't that good at it I would tend to agree.

Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.

Sounds reasonable.

Good fellatio is like good cunnilingus. It takes knowledge, practice, empathy and it is very important to really really like doing it.
 A_s_s_hole
Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 6/1/2008 3:18:44 PM
I guess that's why it's a theory.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:48:00 PM
What a bizarre thread topic.

(1) In general, women figure it out (except for some reason, need to be reminded about the molars periodically.)

(2) What makes you think that guys ``get so worked up'' about this? Maybe oral sex is uncommon on your planet, but here on Earth, it seems to be a part of the whole sex thing. I've always taken it for granted that oral sex is part of the deal and would get really ``unworked up'' about an encounter where it was off the table as an option.
 sn1ckerz
Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:38:58 AM
Seeing this guy doesn't a good one from a bad. He is just out of luck.
What about a Thread of :
Spitters vs Swallowers, Does swallowing make you a dirty slut?
 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:28:11 AM
If what I see in porn is defined as a "good" blowjob, then I'm doing something wrong

the women look like they are gagging most of the time...bwahahahahahahahahaha

 swingpup
Joined: 10/21/2006
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Posted: 6/4/2008 1:18:09 PM
Oh buddy you're associating with the wrong women. 99% of all BJ's are great a.k.a. "amazing" the other 1% are simply good. Step it up a few notches son, hell your young enough, you'll dial it in.....It sometimes takes time to truly relax and enjoy the adventures, which cums with experience.
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:21:52 PM

A little bit of gagging can be really erotic..... the feeling of your throat closing around the head of his c*ck is apparently a pretty amazing feeling from what I've been told. Not all women can "embrace the gag" as another forum poster said in a different thread awhile back....

I love to lay my partners fingers on each side of my throat so he can feel himself inside and how it makes me gag a bit once in awhile. The men I have been with find this very hot.

I would dare to say that here is a woman who has made mens eyes roll back in their head and caused them to loose the ability of coherent speach.

Yes some times gagging can be incredably erotic. The ego stroke that you are big/long enough to gag her and then double ego stroke that she is willing to gag on your c0ck to please you.

WOO HOO!!!
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 76
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Posted: 6/4/2008 5:39:32 PM
Like all people, some are talented and others suck, pun intended. :P

I had a "slave" who was EXTREMELY good at giving blowjobs. Not only was she talented, she swallowed every drop and tried to suck me off 3-5 times in a night.

Now, compare that to women who complain it's disgusting or simply suck without enthusiasm. I can tell the difference and will never settle for one of those kind of women ever again.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 77
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Posted: 6/4/2008 5:48:07 PM
It is easy to tell from porn which women are being mechanical and which ones are enjoying the act. In general, good bj porn is in the "amateur porn."
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 6/5/2008 3:20:24 AM
That's why amateur porn is the best stuff to watch. Oh and not just for bj's.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:02:24 AM
ive gotta disagree with u on all counts guy, well kinda: yea alot of women actually dont give good blow jobs, and porn might actually be a big part of the reason, porn stars are required to cum on cue, and when the actors moan its usually faking it, simply for the viewers, to let us know yea there into it. the key, at least to me for all parties on oral is slow then fast, some girls stroke it like their rolling dice, it doesnt feel good to me.

-and of course men can tell which ones is good and which ones bad, im a nuetral g when it comes to me getting oral, id like to get it once in a while, but i wont die if i dont,
so i know when one is good if i cum quick, the wack ones are usually longer.
i know chicks dont like it when a guy comes too quick, but hey, be happy u got him to the point where he couldnt hold it any longer, and theres a different from a guy who jus naturally cums too quick and one who cums quick from a good bj, and if chicks dont like that he might cum too quick maybe u should suck at it more
lol and naw guy 99% of the bj's arnt amazing.
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:46:04 AM
A BJ is sex and just like any other form of sex there are those that are good at it and those who aren't.

And just like any kind of sex there are guys who think it is great they are getting sex so it must be good.

Most woman think they are good or great at sex because that is all they have ever heard from guys. Just from the number of inhibited posters on PoF it is easy to see that many of them are not that good.

I have been with enough woman to have found there is a great variance between their sexual capabilities yet every one of them thought they were a great lover.

Ladies, just because a guy doesn't complain or even if he says you were great take it with a grain of salt.
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