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 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 3
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I have had both types. My ex didn't even like to give head at all, and I have had the other extreme where they couldn't get enough of giving head and swallowing. It all depends on the girl.
 ~JustSimplyMe~
Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 6/18/2008 1:25:48 PM

ike she just had shit in her mouth or something.

Have you ever tasted it?? It DOES taste like shit!

There is no written law or code that says a women even has to put your penis in her mouth let alone let your yucky spunk touch her tongue. Be happy that she at least gives you head in the first place.
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 5
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Posted: 6/18/2008 1:32:43 PM

THEN WHEN YOU ARE READY TO CUM HOLD HER HEAD THERE AND SAY TAKE IT ALL SLUT .............OH DAMN I just got myself wet

I think i may have to move to New Hampshire, cause i haven't been able to find any women around here that will do that!
 2HEDZ
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/18/2008 2:46:39 PM
dump her! now! why put up with this when there are way too many women out there willing to accomodate you?
 2HEDZ
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/18/2008 3:03:59 PM

Oh of course that's the answer to all his problems. 12 year relationship ? and dump her because she won't swallow ? lame lame lame.


yeah you're right. first cum in her mouth, then dump her.
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 6/18/2008 4:14:15 PM
Maybe your GF just doesn't like the taste of cum, I know lots of girls that don't. I happen to enjoy the salty goodness of cum when giving a bj

 leeparsons
Joined: 4/27/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 6/18/2008 4:28:47 PM
Personally this issue doen't really bother me at all, thou I cant see there is an issue, if the two people Love each other. Thou, I have seen a clip which is done amazingly, of a guy using tooth paste while giving hes lover oral sex. Maybe she could do same for you? I don't know the answer, just a suggestion. I lived a quite life, so why the heck am I giving advice, lol!
 jessicarenee1977
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/18/2008 4:38:51 PM
Some men do taste wonderful, but, I personally can NOT stand the texture. It has nothing to do with the taste for me. It is the way it feels in my mouth, like a big ole goober, which makes me sick to my stomach. A mental thing I suppose. I love raw oysters though, so I probably should see a shrink or something!!!

I am guessing since this is a twelve year relationship, she must bring other admirable attributes to the table to have you stick around this long.
 ~JustSimplyMe~
Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 6/18/2008 5:13:27 PM

unless, of course, that person has actually tasted shit

Okay, no I have never actually tasted shit, so couldn't say cum tastes exactly like it...but some mens cum doesn't taste totally pleasant. My current bf's cum is great....I could swallow all day everyday but I have been with men that their cum made me puke it was so nasty.

I think the general consensus is that the gf doesn't like it...and that is her prerogative. Who are we to say that every woman must love giving head, or that she should love the taste of a mans ejaculate.
 SpiceyCougar
Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 6/18/2008 5:26:44 PM
"Over the years I thought she'd get better. More relaxed. More willing to try kinky or out of the box stuff."

Is that like when a woman makes of list of things to change about a man after they get married? Ya know, like "He's a fixer upper".... "I know he doesn't want kids, but he will change his mind".

However, for you... and many men like you.... "She is vanilla, but will kink up after a few years"?

If you knew your wife was like this before you married her.... why complain now? If she is meeting you half way... what is the issue? Your vanilla wife isn't swallowing you whole like a porn chicky? You poor sad thing. Life must be aweful for you.

I never feel bad for men who go into the committed relationship knowing full well they will never be fully sexually satisfied by the person they are marrying.

P.S. Sucking and swallowing is not really all that kinky in my book. But then again... I don't mind some head pushing either.
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 6/18/2008 6:54:19 PM

OH oh oh!!! Get some of those fruit flavored condoms and experiment with those

Brilliant! Simply Brilliant!!
 rebel777
Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 6/19/2008 12:01:19 AM
so all you woman out there that do not swallow....have a question for ya...are you a vegetarian??...do you enjoy eating eggs??...do you know what an egg is made up of..
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 66
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Posted: 6/19/2008 4:28:32 PM

According to one of my ex GF's who was always eager about all forms of sex, if you can taste it you're doing it wrong!



to me, performing oral sex properly MEANS tasting it.


~OP~ Clear examples that it really is a to-each-their-own scenerio. I don't kiss (spit or swallow) and tell, but I don't believe I have heard any of my close women friends state that they don't do either ~ maybe my friends are just all out-of-the-box (so to speak.)
 BlondeBallerina
Joined: 1/25/2008
Msg: 77
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Posted: 6/20/2008 6:20:57 AM
In my opinion, it is her right to say no to swallowing. I mean, it is going in her mouth!
But you also have the right to not give her oral as well. It has to be even!

I myself was never one of those girls who swore off oral/swallowing/spitting/whatever. I never judged something until I did it. Yes, it tastes a little funky, but you deal with it. It's the idea that you're making your partner happy that should help you get over the taste.

And hey, when guys give oral, they taste us the ENTIRE time. I'm pretty sure a girl can deal and taste it for a few seconds. But that's my opinion. To each is own.

Don't force her.If she isn't open to it, then well... you ****ing will probably not make it any better to be honest.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 6/20/2008 7:02:59 PM
The difference between a woman who won't let you finish in her mouth and a woman who swallows and keeps on sucking is AMAZINGLY different. Love, shmove - go get yourself the experience before you're an old man wondering what that would have felt like. Don't let people guilt you into staying with her by saying you shouldn't consider dumping her over a BJ. Love does not replace a BJ.

The sad part about the whole thing is, if you break up, she WILL do it for the next guy. She knows 2 things. She can get away with not doing it for you, but she can't get away doing it for the next guy. It always works out that way.
 EndlessFlame
Joined: 6/12/2008
Msg: 79
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Posted: 6/20/2008 7:12:54 PM
ok one thing you could try is to wear a flavoured condom while she does it..while its not as fun for you its better than nothing and she doesnt have to spit or swallow
 SpiritGael1
Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 82
Find someone else.
Posted: 6/21/2008 12:24:31 AM
Rejection is rejection. You've had 12 years to figure that out. Don't YOU deserve someone who loves and craves you ?
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 85
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Posted: 6/21/2008 10:57:29 AM
LOL...spitting and swallowing is like the difference between liking and loving someone-at least for me anyway. While I do not mind performing oral on the man I am with, I don't relish guzzling a load of cum. I mean, in the heat of the moment I have and it was very pleasurable for him-but semen isn't the most tasty substance on the planet. Conversely, I have never asked a man to munch on me with any expectation of him licking the plate clean-but each person is different.

If I like the guy I'll make sure he reaches ejaculation-but I prefer he unload elsewhere, however if I love the guy-it's a gift, in my opinion, to let him deposit his load in my mouth. I don't think a man should expect his gf/SO/wife or whomever to swallow a load, but in an exclusive relationship I can understand why the man would want the whole enchilada. Ironically, if he's cum inside of me and asks me to blow him-that doesn't bother me-I think the combination of bodily fluids tastes far better mingled than alone..lol.
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 86
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Posted: 6/21/2008 11:04:01 AM
*sigh* if the guys'****is back far enough in your mouth, you don't even TASTE it as his juice is shot down your throat... the 'leftovers' aren't bad though! sometimes, if One gets a 'Surprise deposit' just swallow, dammit..it starts in The Brain... and with practice,
 DaisyGirlKY
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 6/21/2008 12:23:08 PM

Does she drink? If yes, take her out and get her totally hammered and then do the BJ think and she might make an exception to her habit if you take her out of the controlled environment to someplace different.

I would think that would make it worse. Get her hammered and she would probably feel like throwing up with out any other encouragement.
 EndlessFlame
Joined: 6/12/2008
Msg: 89
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Posted: 6/21/2008 12:58:35 PM
gargle thats a new one
 realzenartist
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 94
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Posted: 6/21/2008 2:38:32 PM
if the OP is a smoker.. from what I read thats the worst thing you can do to effect the taste... that and bad diet... drink pineapple juice as suggested...
 totum_spirit
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 95
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Posted: 6/21/2008 2:58:35 PM
Bit of advice. IF that is something you DESIRE for your lover to do(swallow) there is only 2 things and that is it. ONE dump her and go find a female that does all the things you want to enjoy but remember that it is a 2 way street so if she loves oral on her then be the best at it everything will work out. NEVER settle for a lover that is not willing to give YOU pleasure in the end you will stray and find someone else just because of WHAT YOU want to feel with a lover. TWO your girlfriend has something deep inside of her that makes sex as something dirty and until she can heal herself from within nothing will change. BUT it could also be that she doesn't feel safe or respected by YOU. Do you kiss a female after she just gave you a BJ? If no THEN YOU ARE CAUSING THE MISTRUST AND IT IS UP TO YOU TO FIX YOURSELF. All females are sexual and sensual creatures and if they feel respected and accepted for being a female ...they will do anything for you.
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 6/21/2008 4:24:48 PM
Totum Spirit-

You made a valid point-because I know a lot of guys who wouldn't even think of kissing a woman after she's blown him, especially when she's swallowed a load to make him happy. I know there are a few men I've met who said if you don't swallow you aren't giving an appropriate blow job to which I replied 'if that's the case than why don't YOU show me how it's done."

I have never, nor would I ever, make anyone do anything sexual that made them feel uncomfortable-it just ruins the experience for both parties. Again, I know that a lot of guys want it all, but if your mate doesn't want to join in they have the choice to find someone who will, or if they genuinely care about the person, will enjoy the oral gratification they are getting as is.

Now-I don't know if being respected and accepted would make me do ANYTHING for a man-but if I love him I certainly want to please him as best I'm able.
 sriannaailyim
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 105
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Posted: 6/22/2008 9:12:30 AM
Wow- at the subject title........
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