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 SpiceyCougar
Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 2
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Yeap!

It was prostitution.


I'm not even sure it was that sexual an act


That man went back to his car and masturbated!!!!
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 4
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Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:35:32 AM
How did you know he was not a freakin killer...
Hell ya it's prostitution...
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 5
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:36:18 AM
yea technically it was a form of prostitution
but if you turned down $ 100 for letting him touch your breast ...technically you would be an idiot
yea you can bet he has choked the chicken several times picturing your breast ...but so what ...hes happy... the chickens happy ...you cant catch anything from him touching your breast ...and you got shopping money....win _ win
technically whats wrong with prostitution ...its providing a service for a price ...not my cup of tea .... Im too conservative ...ill say conservative not cheep as im pretty liberal in most things with my money ...its just that i get it as a gift often enough not to pay for it ....and when you give something in return in the form of pleasure or at least give it your best shot ...then its a gift you have exchanged


How did you know he was not a freakin killer...

how do you know any guy you meet is not a killer ....how does he know she is not killer with nice boobs ...you dont ever husbands have killed their wives after many years ...wives have killed their husbands you just can never know
murder of prostitutes is common but usually it is a woman that is advertising their trade and the perpetrator feels because of her social status she wont be missed or her murderer be pursued as fervently ...Me thinks that though technically it is an act of prostitution ...the guy didnt view her as performing an act of prostitution ( a ful blown prostitute is not hard to find )....with a $100 in your pocket ...me thinks he just really really liked her tits
 Ferruginous
Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 7
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:44:12 AM
Since you let him fondle your tits for money, I'm assuming that you'd have intercourse if enough money was offered?


but if you turned down $ 100 for letting him touch your breast ...technically you would be an idiot
No.
Technically she would just have self-respect.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 8
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Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:45:06 AM
yet I am sure some of the women above have went to a bar, accepted free drinks and went home with the dude for a night of "passionate sex".....


Nope never...!!! Should not judge those you don't know!


how do you know any guy you meet is not a killer


Very true but some come with red flags...I am leery of all but when asked to pay to see my tits is a red flag to me!


Edit message #10


So what, our fling behind the Denny's last weekend doesnt count?


No cuz I paid you!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 11
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:07:48 AM
The legal definition of prostitution in most places involves the exchange or offer to exchange some sex act for some form of payment, where a sex act includes all of the usual things plus most anything that involves touching for the purpose of sexual arousal and payment isn't limited to just cash. If it's fun and you get something taxable in return, it's illegal. I'll avoid the temptation to ask the obvious question.

So yes, you _probably_ fulfilled the legal requirements, but possibly not. Only a lawyer familiar with your local laws can say for sure. The question though, is why do you care? You apparently weren't arrested and it's not clear what you did would be illegal everywhere (it is in Texas). Are you trying to decide if you're a prostitute from the legal definition? Does it matter if that is so nebulous that you can not be one by moving? Are you hoping people will say ``no,'' because you don't want to feel like you committed the act of prostitution? If so, you should just not feel guilty about it instead of trying get off on a technicality, so-to-speak. Who cares?
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 12
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:08:18 AM

but if you turned down $ 100 for letting him touch your breast ...technically you would be an idiot


this line was said in jest ....but i failed to denote that...i have the bad habit of writing tongue in cheek and assuming people will recognize it
However me thinks most would consider the proposition if made to them ...if i had breast that anyone wanted to touch... me would

the women above have went to a bar, accepted free drinks and went home with the dude for a night of "passionate sex".......LOL-------that to me is the cheapest form of prostitution EVER...........


Yea that's what i was getting at ...technically though sometimes ever so slightly we most all prostitute our selves ..in some way ...if we accept drinks /favors with the assumption that sex will follow ...whether it does or not .....if we flirt with the boss at work ...hoping to get recolonization/raise ...if we stay with a spouse we no longer love because of fear that we cannot make it financially without them ...if we withhold sex in a relationship to get our way /something material
these things and more could technically be a form of prostitution ...so the question ishow much can we prostitute ourselves and have a clear conscience ...this seams to differ with every individual

no Im not suggesting that the woman that accepts a drink in the bar has the same morals as the street walker ....nor am i suggesting that taking $100 for letting a guy touch your breast is as bad as a woman that marries a rich guy that she cares nothing for except for the promice of him meeting her material desires

Im just saying ???
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/23/2008 8:19:01 AM


but if you turned down $ 100 for letting him touch your breast ...technically you would be an idiot

No.
Technically she would just have self-respect.


Why? Do you think she could have gotten $200.00 by holding out?
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 14
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:30:31 AM

no Im not suggesting that the woman that accepts a drink in the bar has the same morals as the street walker


You should. In Texas, all you have to do is agree to any sex act in exchange for anything of value. If a woman suggests she'll perform some sex act in exchange for a ride home, she's met the legal requirements, If you accept, you've met the legal requirements for solicitation. The key is the agreement for the exchange. Although that is unlikely to get you arrested, doing so still meets the legal definition.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 15
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:35:31 AM
Prostitution as I understand it is a transaction between two people which includes an act of a sexual nature in exchange of money or other financial gain.


would the kissing booth at my high school fair be prostitution ???....i spent my life savings and definitely got off by kissing.... JoAnn Crump



You should. In Texas



texas ???go figure ...me thinks they would probaly try to legislate morals in hell also

but me thinks people are talking moral not legal on here ...and im going with that ...but thank you if I ever go back to Texas ...I will keep this in mind
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 18
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:25:17 AM

texas ???go figure ...me thinks they would probaly try to legislate morals in hell also


And in spite of that there are probably more hookers per square mile in dallas than anywhere else in the US.


but me thinks people are talking moral not legal on here ...and im going with that ...but thank you if I ever go back to Texas ...I will keep this in mind


I would have thought that were it not for the fact that in a lot of threads, people equate the two when it's convenient and pick and choose otherwise. I figured it was easiest to just go with the flow and be inconsistent.
 brianontario20
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 20
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 10:21:10 AM
i dont know if its prostitution but its pretty damn stupid on your part
 Mirage111
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 21
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 10:31:27 AM


why are you even asking this question? Has he asked for a follow up?
 panmankb
Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 22
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 10:36:02 AM
It's amazing what some members fall for!!!! THINK, does this story sound real or just a joke to see how many fish BITE?? Guess what, the scammer wins, hands down!!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 24
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 11:03:27 AM
will trade sex for gas......what about the girl i gave a ride in my chevy van in 1974 ....it was not technically ...sex for a ride it was sex given out of being grateful for the ride i was giving the ride anyway ..... is this prostitution ...you call it whatever you want ill call it precious memories
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 25
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 11:51:43 AM
Good Lord; I can't believe that poeple will talk themelves into something.

Of course its prostitution. You are getting paid for a sexual act. Are you trying to say he was looking for lumps and it was an exam? lol; I've heard it all.

I've heard of some cheap things but I learn something new every day. wow
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 26
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 12:19:12 PM

LOL------check these chicks out..............you never had sex with him.............think of it as a handshake..............LOL.....................



will trade sex for gas......what about the girl i gave a ride in my chevy van in 1974 ....it was not technically ...sex for a ride it was sex given out of being grateful for the ride i was giving the ride anyway ..... is this prostitution ...you call it whatever you want ill call it precious memories

I can respect this post ~ nice to see you don't do the usual "she's a ho" rant!!!


~OP~ Personally, they are your breast-iiii. Do with them what you are comfortable with. If you don't feel badly for your choice, it really makes no difference what label is put on the action by anyone. Personally ~ I think it's silly to get all up in arms about prostitution of any nature/form/mode/etc. It wouldn't work for me ~ but it's not my chosen profession. Plenty of women expose their breasts for no money (and yes, even touchy feely stuff) ~ is that prostitition with a dead-beat John????
 smsweendoggy
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 27
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:56:54 PM
I think he was just doing a public service, checking for lumps.
 smsweendoggy
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 28
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:59:06 PM
All he did was touch your breast , the sexual act came later when he was alone,lol
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 30
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/24/2008 2:08:55 PM
You go to a strip joint. Girl takes off all her clothes and looks very sexual. You pay her money for a table dance. You get a hard on. Is it prostitution?
 Sardonis
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 31
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/24/2008 2:13:09 PM
$100 to squeeze some boobs for 10 minutes.

Sounds like a rip off.
 Happily Ever...maybe
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 32
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Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/24/2008 2:23:00 PM
Your profile says you're looking for an intimate encounter OP. Well, you had one, albeit a really creepy one! Happy now!??

Look at it this way...if those boobs are store bought, and you make a regular habit of these amateur breast exams, you could literally say, "These tits have paid for themselves!"
 alexfromwest
Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 36
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/24/2008 4:02:08 PM
since when touching women's breasts is sex or sexual act?
wake up.
as we know even bj is not sex.
ask Monika.
 caramelo64
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 37
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/24/2008 4:47:47 PM
You accepted money for someone to cop a feel. While it wasn't a hardcore sex act, it does fall within the bounds of prostitution. It presents the top of a slippery slope for you, but hey you're a grown ass woman. Just be careful, I think we'd hate to see anything bad happen to you.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 40
Is it prostitution when...
Posted: 6/25/2008 12:55:12 AM
You go to a strip joint. Girl takes off all her clothes and looks very sexual. You pay her money for a table dance. You get a hard on. Is it prostitution?


If there is touching involved (i.e., a lap dance, even without the hard on), then it depends on the local laws.
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