This very issue has become a hot topic in my own relationship lately and I am desperate for help.
Long story short, the woman I am with really gets off on feeling the moment of ejaculation, specifically the semen itself shooting out into her (and not just the throbbing of the penis, etc.) However, despite us having regular unprotected sex, she has yet to experience this with me. I know that my ejaculations should be largely about me, but I do care for her and want her to take some form of pleasure from this, too. So I, too, am seeking advice on how I can make her "feel" me more. It's very important to me, so I would greatly appreciate any help.
I was wondering, ladies: at the moment of orgasm, should I ejaculate deep inside her vagina (against her cervix, perhaps?) or towards the shallow end? Should I be thrusting hard into her, going fast or slow, or simply staying perfectly still to maximise the chances of her feeling the ejaculation?
I have one theory on the subject, which I would love some ladies to review: is it possible that she doesn't feel the ejaculation because of the tightness down there? I'm quite large and she's quite tight, so could it be that there is simply "no room" for the semen to "shoot out" inside her, and thus it simply kind of "smooshes" into her vaginal walls instead of having some room to really impact? If this could be the case, wouldn't it be effective to thrust deeply into her, then at the moment of ejaculation simply "pull back" a little bit to create some room?
Sorry if this sounds overly technical... but I'd truly appreciate the help.
The only way this occurs is if you try different methods. Of course women are all different, plus men's penis shapes, lengths, girth, erectness, and the manner in which they shoot cum out. I'd try numerous different ways and get feedback....I mean what the hell...it's just another excuse to have sex, so why not? :)