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Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 3
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No and no.

Don't think I'd do it, could accept it as long as they didn't anticipate another one while with me.

Again, wouldn't matter to me as long as they used protection and had no future plans to repeat it while with me.
Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 6/29/2008 12:16:06 PM
Just wondering if there's a reason why you'd ask those questions and whether you're referring to something that was consensual or not?

gang·bang [gáng bàng]
1. serial intercourse with one person: sexual intercourse between one consenting person and several others in succession
2. gang rape: a multiple rape by a gang of people

v (slang) (considered offensive by some people)
1. vti have multiple intercourse with one person: to participate in an occasion where several people in succession have intercourse with the same person

Encarta ® World English Dictionary
 saggy ass and saggy tits
Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 7
Posted: 6/29/2008 12:25:49 PM
clean you are one sick dude
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 8
Posted: 6/29/2008 12:29:35 PM
To each his own... I'm a one-man woman and I don't participate in threesomes, foursomes, etc. I realize sex is more casual these days, but somestimes I feel it's gone too far... That's my own personal opinion...
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 10
Posted: 6/29/2008 12:41:40 PM
I've never dated anyone who engaged in that behavior while we were dating.

Before we dated? I guess that would depend entirely on the reasons why she did it, did the tests come back all neg, and if she's worked that flavor of 'sluty' out of her system or not. After we dated? Not my problem.
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 16
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:17:38 PM're a sick f*ck for even saying that!

OT...Never really had a desire for it.
 saggy ass and saggy tits
Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 17
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:19:10 PM
clean = troll looking for attention
Joined: 1/24/2008
Msg: 29
Posted: 6/29/2008 7:01:03 PM
It's too bad the main subject has been ignored...

re: accept.
It's something I would accept, assuming the person isn't self-destructive. Contrary to popular belief, some people do maintain an "ethical slut" mentality. They enjoy sex, pushing limits further than most mainstream folks would ever accept as "normal." Yet they do so with an open mind--and comfort with their own sexuality.

Sexual exploration and discovery isn't always handled in mature, well-thought way. But there are those who DO know what they want, what they enjoy--and go for it. They play safe within sane situations. It's gratifying to them on many levels.

You have to wonder where people have such strong judgments about this type of sex. Some stereotype gangbang pornography as disgusting, inhuman, and grotesque. I guess it depends on what you've seen. I've known some women who've enjoyed GBs--and they aren't sub-human, morally deviant individuals. They have a sexual desire; they know what they want; they do it in scenes where it's safe & sane. Some call it kink or abnormal; they call it normal for them.

So, what is "normal"?

It doesn't bother me if my partner enjoys them, has done them, or has a future desire to do them. (Some of you are saying "ick!" That's fine. To each their own.) Granted that she plays safe, has given it serious thought, and has the constitution to handle the "morning after" -- then there's no issues with me.

A closing thought: I think most people are justifiably grossed out when thinking "but it's a free-for-all! Who would want to engage in acts with complete strangers?!" That's where the mindset of someone who does it can/should explain it themselves. Maybe for them, it's simply an emotional detachment; a focus on the act, not the person. Maybe they're fulfilling their fantasy/fantasies. Maybe they're simply addicted to sex. Maybe something else.
Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 37
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:01:59 AM
As much as I say I'd try it, I know I would feel uncomfortable and inadequate. I've spoken to someone that has (female) and she says she loses sense as to who is doing what and where, and would rather the one to one.
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/30/2008 11:43:15 AM
I guess some people do it. But it seems to be more of a porn site fantasy more than anything else.

Now would I do it? That would be highy doubtful.

Tho if I did. I better be the one to go first.

The hell if I would be the last guy.

Could you imagine the last guy? He would need to tie a board to his ass just to keep from falling in.
 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 41
Posted: 6/30/2008 12:17:22 PM
Despite the trolling of cleancut, I find it interesting the responses people had about it.

18 is the age of consent, if an 18 year old female wants to have sex with ten guys at once and actually successfully sets it up...

I don't see the problem?
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 44
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Posted: 4/21/2009 1:45:00 AM
what i dont understand is, if you dont like the topic why even bother reading it or flooding it with all this negative posts. if you dont like it then move on, people seem really uptight and closeminded on here.
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 4/23/2009 7:43:04 PM
I am not sure why the idea of respect even enters into this scenario?
The parties involved are simply there for the sex, nothing more. He gets, she gets, they get. So for those who wish to participate in this type of adventure, they all get. Has nothing to do with "will you respect me in the morning". Just the way I see it anyway.
Joined: 12/30/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 4/23/2009 8:12:36 PM
I was hoping some lady's from this site would give me one for my....
........... "BIRTHDAY"
Joined: 3/16/2008
Msg: 62
Posted: 4/23/2009 8:47:10 PM
Yech !

Nominate you to ride the caboose.
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 70
Posted: 7/11/2009 4:03:20 AM
Sex is not about respect, it is about sex. I respect family, friends, lovers, my pets, my President,and myself. If the guy or gal in the gangbang is having fun, and feels great in the morning, more power to you. There typically is no meeting up again unless the guys or gals were freaking fantastic. Also it is funny that only a lady would be considered a ho. How about a guy with three or more gals or guys at him? Would we call him just a tramp (which is funny because that word really means a transient/bum)? To each his own, and that is why people should never share their sex life with a SO. What happened in the past is not the present. It is neither insightful or helpful to the other party. Unless the person got HIV/AIDS, some other nasty STD, shut your mouth about your sex life unless the other person is truly openminded.
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 71
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:11:13 AM
I have experienced group/gang sex. I enjoy it but it is not a regular thing for me. Its more like something that is a great addition to my sex llife. I quite enjoy my sexuality and its nice to be able to share with like minded individuals or groups.

I think for true intimacy, one on one is the only way to go.

I have no regrets, and enjoy the memories of my past experiences. I will continue to explore and have fun. To those of you who don't like group, I applaud you in knowing what you want, and understand the reasoning. The world is a big place and there is room for all of us.
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 72
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Posted: 7/11/2009 6:15:04 AM

Sex is not about respect, it is about sex.

and I completely disagree with that!
For me to have sex with a man.......I must have some sort of respect for him as a person.
Whether that sex is a FWB or committed relationship.
I don't even want to hang around people I don't have respect for.......let alone sleep with them!
Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 73
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Posted: 8/17/2010 2:13:58 AM
i agree to each there own, i know my my girlfriend craves one deep down, but she still says not, i know she has a deep craving for it and im willing to give it to her when ever she says "ok, lets go", we are an older couple from canada, so we do know about taking precautions. so any sexy men/ladies near edmonton, alberta, gimmee a reply, looking for become "better friends" lol, (wink)
Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 74
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Posted: 8/17/2010 2:33:24 AM
my lady loves it in all 3 holes, she espiallally loves anal,although she also loves vaginal, and also likes to try and fill her throat full of huge hard**** till she chockes' this is why im trying to get my lady a good full gangbnang, at least 6-25 guys, she is hot with big tits, and a nice bald, puffy- lipped-****, made for eating!!!!
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 75
Posted: 8/17/2010 4:47:30 AM
I was there for one with the ex GF...she was a swinger and had fantasized about we set one up for her...5 guys! I did NOT participate, I was there for photography and security though.

Violated? Heck, the more violated she felt, the more she got off...
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 79
Posted: 8/18/2010 9:26:52 AM

I am convinced having more partners enhances your experience.
I think having the same partner for a long time, where you have sex often and get lots of practice, is the best way to enhance your experience. If this partner is adventurous in bed, all the better.
If you bounce around from person to person, you're likely not getting lots of practice and going longer between sex sessions than you would with a consistent parter/LTR type situation.
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 81
Posted: 8/18/2010 11:38:19 AM
^ I wouldn't have believed this statement until I experienced myself. I wouldn't trade the sex I have now in a relationship for any of the sex I had when I was younger... Night and day.

Not only can I remember it now, it is actually worth remembering, for a change...
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 82
Posted: 8/18/2010 12:22:09 PM

The funny thing though is that until people have 'really great sex', they think that what they have been having up until that point was 'really great sex' then they find out later on that they were missing out on so much...

...SO true!

That's also why some people think they're really great in bed...because the people they've been with were just glad to get some that of course it was great for them....
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Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 83
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Posted: 12/28/2011 4:08:18 PM
I could do this if I were NOT emotionally interested in her. Im not ready for sharing a loved one.
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