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 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
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Perhaps it's just me but I'm really beginning to get bored with grown, so-called mature women who think it's "stylish" to be shaved down below.......

To me, it's such a "fad" amongst some women who may be trying to emulate the younger women they see in porn sites or movies.

I can't speak for all men obviously but for me, it's boring me to death......

Stay natural to a point........some trimming is nice but please, quit trying to impress in such a superficial way........most women are fine the way they are as long as they are clean and freshly showered...........(and I'm sure most women will say the same about us guys)

By the way, my honey loves dragging her fingers through my pubic hair and I love doing the same as we lay there and just chat about everything in our lives.........it's relaxing.....

are we the only one's left?

 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:13:54 PM
Can't say I'm bored with it, but not a fan of the totally bald look down there. Seems too prepubescent to me and I am more a fan of the natural look or a good trim, but not completely bald.
 rebel777
Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 3
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:37:27 PM
I like it either way....its all gooooooooood.I will not shave my balls though,I too scared to try.
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:48:37 PM
Princess.I'm not in any way saying I hate it.........I'm just getting kind of bored with the concept.........it just seems like a fad..........I'm happy with my current honey though..........clean as a whistle and neatly trimmed......and I'm the same.....

Bald may be beautiful but it's also boring.....lol

 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/14/2008 11:22:29 PM
I love women who don't shave down there.I think it so sexy when a woman has hair down there.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/14/2008 11:48:27 PM
Parry, how extraordinarily negative. "so-called mature women"; "who THINK it's stylish"; "To ME, it's such a fad..."; "..trying to emulate younger women they see in porn"; "it's boring ME to death..."; "quit trying to impress in such a superficial way..." Dude, it's not about YOU. It may be partially fashion; but it's way more about how good it feels to touch, and be touched. When you're shaved, things can drive you nuts that you couldn't even feel if you had hair. Besides, "Stay natural 'TO A POINT....SOME TRIMMING..." YOU are determining what is "stylish"; telling everybody you are right; and going to be upset if everyone doesn't agree with you. If you want YOUR gf to trim neatly; fine, that's between you two; but get off telling women who shave how immature and superficial they are; when you don't even know why they're doing it; and you can be certain they aren't doing it to try to impress you.
 The Artful Codger
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 7
Bored?
Posted: 7/15/2008 12:40:14 AM

it's boring me to death...
Wow. Are you a gynecologist or something?
 isspringhere
Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 8
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 5:00:37 AM
There is nothing better than shaved..............it's clean, smells good and so much better orally since there's no hair to get caught in your teeth. Besides most women I'm finding out like it so much better when they start shaving. By the way, I shave too and the ladies seem to like that too................so just because you don't like them to shave doesn't mean everybody else should follow you.................everyone is entitled to their own preferences.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 9
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:11:39 AM
neither me or my so have hair down there ..and we like it that way.....i would not trim my pubes for many years but i decided to try it and ill never go back ...but we dont shave ..we use the little rechargeable mustache trimmers ..they work great and we trim each other ..which inevitably leads to sex trimming =foreplay
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:19:16 AM
Never shaved, never will. No odor, no cooties.

Don't know what you do to get hair in your teeth but I go down and stay down deep on a guy and have never had hair in my teeth, and I've never been with a guy who trimmed/shaved anything below the waist.

I've yet to meet a man who liked a trimmed or shaved bush. Thank goodness.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 11
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:56:31 AM
I personally love it when is completely shaved. However, my GF loves variety, so she will leave the airstrip landing, or a little here or a little there. It's fun, particularly with some of the nikkers she has. So shave it baby!!
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 12
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:13:31 AM
Sorry, but I could NEVER be turned off by a (healthy) womans puss... bald or hairy! I actually love both - bald feels so nice to the tongue and is very visually stimulating. And I've been the barber in a few relationships and they let me make designs. Very enjoyable foreplay for both of us...

But I also like to see hair on a woman, from just a little to a full bush. Hair feels nice to run fingers through, and there's nothing like hitting that 'line' when getting your hand into the panties... And my favorite thing is that hair holds more of a womans scent, which is a natural aphrodesiac!

So in a perfect world, my lovers would indulge me, sometimes being shaved, sometimes being hairy... Variety is good!
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 13
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:47:27 AM
Over the week-end, I saw the gamut: unshaved, untrimmed, trimmed, partly shaved, completely waxed. I have to say, the most *unattractive* thing for me is completely waxed--looks like an alien being. We also had plenty of sausages on parade, and NONE were shaved and didn't appear especially trimmed, either (and I didn't care).
 Yotta1rou
Joined: 2/28/2006
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 10:49:39 AM
I think that this 'FAD' originated by the idea of the brazilian wax and just came a way about of it being a cheaper / faster personal way of what some people consider good hygene. Im not IN ANYWAY, saying that people that dont shave are unclean.., but I know that some people have the mindset that shaven = cleanliness. I personally prefer it shaven and I shave as well. I of course don't try to persuede anyone to do it or not.., I leave it for the woman to decide because its her body. I'm pretty orally fixated though and my preference if the lady that I'm dating is good enough to give me the option I'll have her shave it bare instead of trimming because of the amount of time I would spend down there is much more enjoyable and less interupted for having to pull out stray hair in the middle of pleasuring her. Personally I do it for my partner keeping this same thought in mind as well as my skin is really sensitive so for me shaving for myself is more of a priority of comfort for me. Anyhow, that all being said, I think it really is a matter of choice, and different enlightened individuals will have different reasons for doing and or not doing it.~Q
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 15
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 11:38:06 AM
For some of us, keeping the grass cut is a necessity. The alternative is braiding or having one's lover try to find the destination by using a machete.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 16
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 11:52:07 AM
Oops, sometimes I reveal too much of my lifestyle...

OK, I was at a campout in the mountians/woods, we ran naked at about 10p, then sang songs around the campfire (naked). Yes, drinking was involved. 20 nude people? No problem.
 sniperbull
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 17
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 12:32:02 PM
well hey, many of us that like hair there feel that were actually doing something with a fully grown adult, and it doesnt seem to us that were fooling aroundwith someone who hasnt hit puberty yet. i know, that after i got used to the idea of my gf not shaving, i wouldnt want her to ever
 ImAHotMess
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 18
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 1:29:16 PM
That is why I just say "wax it off". Speaking as a woman, I prefer to feel clean and comfortable....hell with razors!!
 Blonde_charm
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 19
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 2:28:56 PM
If its grey, shave it away!!! Thats my motto. No real complaints from hubby and others so I am thinking shaving is the lesser of two evils.
 2ofcup
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 20
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 3:06:03 PM
well i have to say its awhole lot nicer when its bare.... dont cha just hate brushing your teeth with acomb????




How about it...............
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 5:52:49 PM

That is why I just say "wax it"


Wax it?

IT'S NOT A BUICK!!!!!!!
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 22
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:59:31 PM
another vote for KEEP EM SHAVED!!!! ... if ya want us to "lick it before we stick it" then it's best if it's not dressed! (in fur that is)
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 23
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:07:13 PM

Braid it???....I know some one whos looking for a perfectly slightly used mullet if You wanna sell it?

Thanks for the visual. Note to self...never read forums while eating....bleh.
 Darwinsmonkey
Joined: 6/27/2008
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 9:10:35 PM
Sigh. I haven't posted on any threads yet so It's going to be great when people view my profile and see this as the only topic I've contributed to. Especially since I'm not here looking for sex or a date! Oh well.

In any case I have an oral fixation so I thought I'd be able to offer some insight on the topic.

Ultimately women should do whatever makes -them- feel comfortable. This is an area of the body 80% of women are already self-conscious about, so anything that lets them feel more comfortable with what they're doing should really take priority. That doesn't mean guys shouldn't tell women their preference. Simply knowing what you like can be great for a lot of girls and help give them that comfort. Now on to my opinion.

Like I said I have an oral fixation, and as such I'm not really a huge fan of women shaving unless they have tiny pores! Waxing is much better, but I hate getting a tender face injury that can only be explained as "beaver rash". This usually only happens when the girl skips a day or two of shaving, but shaving every day sounds like a lot of work! Aesthetically I think the hair looks better, but only if it's maintained. (My aesthetic preference really only comes from personal experience though as the people that have been shaved have been less mature and wholesome people FOR ME. That's an important note, the "for me" part, as I'm 100% sure this isn't the norm.)

As for brushing your teeth with a comb... I really don't run in to the hair issue often. Run a hand across it before you start doing anything and you've cleared the way for good times. If you do get some hair in your mouth just catch it early before it gets back far enough that you have to induce vomiting to get it out. Yeah, those little bishes can be a pain if they latch on to your mouth and avoid getting grabbed, so just try not to let them get that far.

My personal favorite grooming practice was a girl that trimmed to keep things from going hippie-wildside, but also conditioned the remaining hair. Yeah, sounds strange, but it's soft and gentle and comfortable for everyone. This could result in 4+ hour sessions of tongue lashing with no adverse side effects! As this isn't a practice I see much, I thought I'd share.

Again though, this part of the anatomy is meant for pleasure (hers, not yours!) so whatever makes her happy is priority #1.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 25
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 7/15/2008 9:26:12 PM

heck...im growing mine down to my knees...maybe braid it...nobodys
looking at the cobweb hanging there anyway

i can put a hat on it and have my own puppet show

~ OMG ~ priceless.

~OT~ Fad? Not for me. I did it out of pure spite the first time.
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