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Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 3
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Porn is like chapstick... for very dry lips
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 5
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/18/2008 8:11:42 AM

If he really cares for you, he will respect how you feel and not want to make you upset.
Shouldn't that knife cut both ways?
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 7
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/18/2008 9:16:57 AM
It's only an "addiction" if he chooses porn over eating, porn over work, porn over you. Otherwise, it's a deep hobby. But it obviously bothers you, ask him why he watched so much--maybe he's THAT bored? Get him a dog or something?
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 9
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An escape from reality
Posted: 7/18/2008 10:50:43 AM
Addiction happens when someone puts all other things aside - to achieve that one thing that brings them pleasure and satisfaction. Watching porn a couple of times a week is just a curiosity - or something to do to get turned on! Doesn't seem like a problem at all!
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 10
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/18/2008 11:19:21 AM
I'm not into porn at all; not in the least; I want the real thing; I've never got how looking at a tv screen and magazine is so arousing. I know I'm in the total minority.

I think if you can't do without something and go out of your way to do it while hurting yourself in other areas, yes you are addicted.
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 11
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/18/2008 11:43:42 AM
I wouldn't worry about it. If you don't like the idea of him getting off while watching other women getting it on then there is one solution. Film yourself masterbating yourself or film the two of you having sex. Then he can get off to you easier.

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 12
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/18/2008 11:47:55 AM
Why is it every four days? Do you two work opposite shifts those days or something? I typically look at some porn on the days when my girlfriend and I work opposite shifts. I think it's pretty natual when you have a high sex drive like I do. Besides, professional porn women are an illusion, kind of like most guys at strip bars. It's not like he's cheating on you or going to cheat on you so you really don't have anything to worry about. Personally, if I were you, I'd be less worried about him watching porn than I would about him spending time with female "friends" or anything like that.

Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 15
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/18/2008 2:31:51 PM
Also, sometimes people just want the release of getting off without having to worry about making sure someone else is satisfied. When I'm with my SO, I want her to enjoy everything and that requires a lot more effort and attention. Sometimes a guy just wants to get his rocks off. If it bothers you, offer to get him off whenever he has the urge to watch porn and do it himself. I wouldn't call every 4 days an addiction in the least. I, for one, need some sort of release at least every other day.
 Mary Poppinz
Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 18
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/22/2008 7:58:31 PM
I don't think watching porn for days on end constitutes as an addiction,rather just a different way for your boyfriend to stimulate himself.

Why not watch porn with him???

I watch porn daily,although not for hrs on end,and I very much enjoy it.

Check it out,you might surprise yourself hun.
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 20
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Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/30/2008 7:13:08 AM
shes not the woman i would want .porn is great ,although it a lot better when your partner is into it to .think about how much energy is built up while you are together watching it .
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