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 Droleci
Joined: 4/21/2004
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Does this ever happen?

I was watching a porn clip last night called "My sister's hot friend". I tend to prefer clips that have a little more setup as to how and why the woman chose to allow the man to have sex with her. Maybe get some tips, y know? :P

Anyway, in this story, when the guy confesses having had a crush on his sister's hot friend, she responds by spreading her legs to reveal she's not wearing any underwear and puts his hand on her crotch.

Now it's a porn... so obviously that was going to happen - my question is - is it at all realistic? Cause I've never experienced anything remotely like it.

Are there women that will make overt moves to initiate sex with someone they are not in a relationship with?
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 7/31/2008 7:25:02 AM
Um... *raises hand slowly*.. I do... er.. *rereads the question*.. I have done that in the past with people I wasn't in a relationship with. I'm normally the agressor either way...
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2008 7:27:02 AM
no1bby I am shocked and here I thought you were a virgin
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2008 7:41:38 AM
yea I have found the clips like the series My Sisters Hot Friend ..are a little less insulting to your intelligence... though not a plot they do present a believable situation for the sex...and yes women do seduce guys just for sex ...but its usually after the guy has her attention in a non sexual way...in other words un like the guy that just goes out looking for any woman to seduce ...when a woman decides to become the aggressor usually she has singled you out well in advance and its planed for only you...not saying that a woman wont decide to jump your bones on the spur of the moment ..but if she does its almost sure she has entertained the thoughts of sex with you before ...I know very few women that will become the aggressor with a near stranger ...even though many of them can be seduced by a near stranger

this in my opinion say's much for the female species ...and little for guys
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2008 7:48:40 AM
I've had women make the first move during dating, sometimes very aggressively. That's usually a pleasant surprise. The women that have made moves outside a relationship, that could be on par with what you are talking about, were generally not very attractive women, or they were very drunk.

Does it happen? Yup. Is it always someone you'd like for it to happen with? Nope.
 BrownEyedLeo
Joined: 1/5/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2008 7:52:28 AM
Of course there are woman that make moves on a man just for sex and are not looking to be in a relationship. Women have sexual desires the same as men do.
As for the Porn flick, I consider it very realistic. The woman wants to prove herself to you, that you already have the "Best" woman right in front of you and don't need her best friend. She is doing what women have done for ages, using her sexuality to get into your head and make you forget the "other woman". The problem is, it really has nothing to do with the man, it just has to do with the woman. She wants to win this game!
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2008 7:54:39 AM
Yuppers ... I've been the designated driver for my friends from time to time.

Let's just say that I don't always have to take everyone home that I brought with me ...

I like to initiate sex with my partner ... when I have one. But I will not do that with strange men. I don't want to get sick or catch something that will never go away ...
 smhrgs3000
Joined: 7/7/2008
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Posted: 7/31/2008 8:11:07 AM
Oh ya, it happens. And since I find confidnent, aggressive ladies almost irrestable, and have responded to just such advances by living with said ladies in three instances, totalling over 18 years. But now that I'm back in my home state of Kansas, WHY DOENSN'T IT EVER HAPPEN AROUND HERE Aaarrrggghhh!
Hmm, kind of thinking I shouldn've stayed in Calgary, dammit.
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 7/31/2008 8:12:16 AM
I thought all of life was like a porn?


I guess I am gonna have to take the "Bow, chica bown bown" soundtrack off my Ipod!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2008 8:34:58 AM
People watch porn for the plot line?


no they watch it for the sex but some guys even have a hard time leaving their brain turned completely off and so something that just insults your intelligence as some production porn does ..we just dont like ...im not asking for a plot just make it practical something that makes sense ...so yes i do enjoy the porn clips that have a context ..rather than the production porn that makes you feel stupid ....i mean its way more realistic that a man can confess to his sisters best friend that he has had a crush on her and they then have sex ...than a guy is sitting on hid deck and a beautiful lady that he dont know comes out of the woods while he is asleep and starts sucking him and then her two friends come out of the woods looking for her and they all climb on and go to having sex ....not one word is spoken in the first ten minutes of the film ...just moans..now this discribes the last clip i saw and also the last production porn i saw ...the clip held my attention till the end ..the production film i got boored after about five minutes turned it off and went looking for my SO...yes both of them made me horny... the last one made me feel dumb...ive had that cd about two years and have never seen more that the first scene
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2008 8:35:12 AM
Posted By: applepiesweettart on 7/31/2008 1159 AM

Message: People watch porn for the plot line?


Nah. Man created fast forward, pause, and reverse for a reason?
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2008 9:03:57 AM

Posted By: laughinglibra on 7/31/2008 1145 AM

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Nah. Man created fast forward, pause, and reverse for a reason?



You forgot frame-by-frame advancement.




 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2008 9:18:02 AM

no1bby I am shocked and here I thought you were a virgin


Only for you.. and only once..
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2008 9:57:09 AM
HUM - ah - yup gotta admit - I tend to be a tad aggressive and I have definitely made the overt moves on a couple of guys I had the hots for! It's quite exciting to go for what you want and conquering the prey!!! Makes for some very steamy moments indeed!
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2008 9:58:40 AM

I like forward and reverse. Nothing like seeing the look of surprise when a guy gets hit with a load on his face, then it goes back in.
(I'm thinking we don't watch the same kind of porn lol)

He may not watch what you watch, but I do! I totally get that....hahaha
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2008 10:17:49 AM

Posted By: applepiesweettart on 7/31/2008 1149 AM

Message: I like forward and reverse. Nothing like seeing the look of surprise when a guy gets hit with a load on his face, then it goes back in.
(I'm thinking we don't watch the same kind of porn lol)



I'm thinking you are correct!
 kickingfate
Joined: 9/10/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2008 11:31:20 AM
I love it when a woman takes the more aggressive role..a complete turn on for me....If she has singled me out and is making mvoes that leave me no doubt in my mind...zing!..

I love nothing better then a confident woman.
 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
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Posted: 7/31/2008 11:32:47 AM
I've had it happen to me twice.

Once by one of my English Professors in College (in her office no less)

And Once by a woman who I presumed to be drunk, though her speech was fine... Pretty much grabbed my hand and groped me in a bar.

I declined both invitations, the Professor had a wedding ring (and pictures of her husband on her desk), and the second woman... well, was drunk. They were both gorgeous, though.

(Yes, I second guess my decisions every day. But I can't say I'd act any differently in those situations.)
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2008 12:03:02 PM

People watch porn for the plot line?


They are waiting for the climax.
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 7/31/2008 12:21:40 PM

They are waiting for the climax.

Oh, well done!
 c_deacon
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Posted: 7/31/2008 12:53:29 PM
It is awesome to be with an assertive woman that will be aggressive at times to let you know what she wants and why..........

It is kind of like when your date asks if you want to wrestle some, and before you can say yes, she has her clothes off and you pinned.......

OR........

When she asks to come over and visit.......is already warm and moist from her thoughts while driving over, takes your hand and guides you up to the bedroom without saying a word......

Just my opinion.......
 Droleci
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Posted: 7/31/2008 12:56:08 PM

It is kind of like when your date asks if you want to wrestle some, and before you can say yes, she has her clothes off and you pinned.......

OR........

When she asks to come over and visit.......is already warm and moist from her thoughts while driving over, takes your hand and guides you up to the bedroom without saying a word......


And are these sort of things common?? Nothing even remotely close has ever occurred for me.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2008 1:00:42 PM
Yes they do, though rare.

If it wasn't for just such a woman, I'd probably still be a virgin today.
To whom I am eternally grateful.

We men of the world should designate a special Medal of Honour to be awarded to sexually aggressive women.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2008 1:10:18 PM
women don't usually spread their legs to let you know they want sex. (however i have had some naughty propositions and breast flashing).
women love sex as much as men -sometimes i think they love it more. however they want to be the one to give the green light -(not be forced or suckered into it) whether its due to shyness or the feminine gender roll of being with someone they love/trust, they dont come right out and say "give it too me now!", women will give out signals they are in the mood to get busy. -if you don't pick up on the signs -you should stop watching pornos and grab a cosmo or two to learn more about the female psyche stuff. -women really aren't to hard to figure out... (what am i saying) -yes they are...
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2008 1:34:32 PM

you should stop watching pornos and grab a cosmo


you read cosmo ...and admit it ...blasphemy ,,hope you dont leave them laying around your house ...the only reason to read cosmo is espionage and take it to your grave
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