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|Cheating? You can't honestly think that you are commited to each other after|
only a few weeks, come on now....get real. Even if she said she was commited
to you there is no way that can happen in a few weeks. It takes several months
to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/1/2008 7:43:20 AM
|but don't blame her age on this, she could have just as easily been 25......but her age has nothing to do with it..she is a drug addict, end of story. |
you made a bad judgement call, you had a few weeks of feeling good, so be grateful for what you had, gleen what you can learn, toss the rest of the negative crapola out the window and go find another....that simple.
I am sorry this happened to you.
Posted: 8/11/2008 2:18:45 PM
|Im not sure why you should feel disappointed? you knew meeting a woman in that bar wasn't a great idea, you personally thought it was going to be a one night stand and you have a relationship for about a month, you over look she has a coke problem, A COKE PROBLEM, that there is a enough to make any man with a a modicum of intelligent do the " run forest runnnnnnnn" thing.|
What did you expect son? Men like you who choose to rescue damsels in distress end up with a distressed damsel. You guys want to ride in on your white horse and rescue her for your own ego-stroke. It's called "Stupid Chivalry" -by getting involved with the wrong woman (weak, flaky, damaged, needy, desperate, stupid, untrustworthy, immature, etc.) you think that your love will transform her, and when she doesn't live up to your expectation " you're disappointed"
You knew from the get go she was a loser but you chose to ignore the "red flags" ,it's probably because you are seeking out the wrong type of women. It's not so much them as it is your choices. UPGRADE and stop ignoring " red flags"