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 jet_45
Joined: 6/21/2008
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my friend wroite this

i met a guy in school before, he was good looking asian guy right, hes nice, funny ...etcand we went out, but the thing is he has no car, he buses everywhere and hes like ok with it. everytime we went out i make a big fuss about why he has no car, and when he was going to get a car. this is like after the 3rd date i started getting on his case for having no car.
how can a guy even ask a girl out without a car lol . that so embarassing. like what we going bus on a date lol hahah
he told me its a turn off and that hes never met anyone that care so much about cars and material things before.
she talks a lot about lexus, hummer and also newest up to date gadgets
 Sortin
Joined: 2/17/2008
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guy she met in school who buses everywhere-is it that bad
Posted: 8/5/2008 6:29:18 PM
Met him in school...college? Maybe he can't afford a car right now, and the bus gets him where he needs to go. Some cities have functional mass transit.

It is HER problem, not his. And she can talk all she wants about Lexus, Hummer, and the latest gadgets, but the fact remains that they are fashion items. Sounds like she's a materialistic person trying to date someone that is trying to be reasonable with expenses.

Bottom line: What does she possibly see in him aside from his good looks?
 scubaguy14
Joined: 7/19/2008
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guy she met in school who buses everywhere-is it that bad
Posted: 8/9/2008 6:12:35 PM
can u ask a girl out if you have no car? what does that say bout the girl?!?
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