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 itsmekenny
Joined: 2/17/2007
Msg: 1
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Been doing some extensive research on the Internet such as going into forums where women fighters can be found and have discovered something interesting, it's not just trained fighters like boxers but female street fighters as well. Women in boxing have clearly stated that if they can knock a man down while boxing in the gym that some of them do fantasize about what it would be like to strip the man down, rape him, and verbally tease and humiliate him for getting beaten and raped by a girl. This also seems to be a common thread among female street fighters and barrooms brawlers who fight against men and win some of these fistfights. They do fantasize about what it would be like to rape and humiliate a man who has just lost a fistfight to her.

Are there women other than fighters who think the same way? Does the thought of being able to completely overpower a man to the point where you got him pinned and helpless, is this a turn on for women? And does so, why. Also, if you actually witness a man losing such as a fistfight to a girl or a college or high school wrestling match to a girl, is this a turn on for women as well? And if so, why is that? And by the way, this is not a joke nor is it intended to offend, but it might offend someone. Then again everything in these forums offends somebody somewhere. I'm just hoping this thing does not get deleted. It seems that political correctness is quite rampant in these forums.
 uNF_Rena
Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 2
Do women fantasize about raping a man?
Posted: 9/9/2008 11:36:00 AM
that's just sexy.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 3
Do women fantasize about raping a man?
Posted: 9/9/2008 11:51:51 AM
The part of this fantasy that is sick to me is the part where she wants to tease and humiliate him.

Um, no, I don't fantasize about making people cry and making them feel powerless. But then I don't go hitting people for a living, either; have never been in a brawl or fistfight. I DO like being on top, though.

It seems this scenario is somewhat alluring to you, OP, given that you've been doing "extensive research" on the subject. Be careful what you wish for, is my advice.
 uNF_Rena
Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 4
Do women fantasize about raping a man?
Posted: 9/9/2008 12:03:11 PM
Really? People have a problem with this?

It's the same thing from men. It's natural and it's hot. It might not be your cup of tea, but some of us get off on things like being called a little whore. Yet she cant tease him as hers? Have you ever looked at how many sex stories (in porn, in erotic literature) have to do with rape? There is a difference between rape, and role play rape. These women enjoy their own strength and it turns them on. They aren't actuallyout there raping men or anything (usually). Seriously... there are so many plot lines for males raping a woman into ecstasy. Nevermind all the gay porn where a man/woman "rapes" a straight person.

It's not my cup of tea, but that doesn't make it wrong or degrading. I know some people dont like being called a whore or a whatever, but words only have as much meaning as we give them... my husband doesn't really consider me to be a c*nt. I think it's harder for people who can't remove love from sex.
 CCsMom
Joined: 4/9/2008
Msg: 5
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Do women fantasize about raping a man?
Posted: 9/9/2008 12:59:21 PM
I dont think it can be considered rape, but I LUV stealing a man's orgasm from him! We're goin at it hot n heavy and he begs me to slow down, to stop or he's gonna cum, he wants to draw it out and make it take a long time, but I dont stop!! LOL I am so bad!
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 9/9/2008 1:15:03 PM
A strong woman is great; but, I don't know if I could enjoy sex with a woman who got her kicks from emasculating her partner, and from his helpless humiliation. There will be the usual group of guys falling all over themselves to advertise this as their greatest desire. Nothing wrong with that. It takes all kinds.


Being tied up and taken advantage of (without the humiliation part) would not bother me though. I don't like the idea of being used as a toilet either. Some do.
 SteveinHP
Joined: 8/12/2008
Msg: 7
Do women fantasize about raping a man?
Posted: 9/9/2008 4:50:24 PM
I fantasize about a woman raping me....hope to find someone that wants to play
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 9/9/2008 5:29:54 PM
Itsmekenny.. what you describe in no way, shape or form hold anything appealing to me. That doesn't mean that I don't like to overpower my man and take control or instigate things... but I certainly don't get off on emasculating or humiliating him, or forcing him into doing something with me that he doesn't want to be doing. I don't see anything arousing about those things at all.
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 9/9/2008 7:39:33 PM
Dominate yes, rape no.

Rape to me is forcing penetration upon someone else who does not want it, and is fighting against. So no I don't want some guy's a$$ that badly.
 SteveinHP
Joined: 8/12/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:36:19 PM

You cannot rape the willing.


Yeah, but I can fake my willingness if it turns you on....
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 11
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:55:01 PM
I'm sure some do, but it's definitely not my fantasy.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:57:26 PM
i would definately think women fantasize about taking charge and using her man as a guinea pig, to try whatever sensually crosses her mind -while he lays there enjoying it (fulfilling his fantasy as well.
however since rape is all about overpowering someone against their will, and has little to do with sex (than to be demeaning) most guys are going to play along and let her pretend she is doing evil things to him by force -knowing he can stop it whenever she goes too far.
-unlike a real rape which the victim cant say: ok stop now! have had enough.
 Hawk8414
Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 9/9/2008 9:24:50 PM
I know a certain person on POF who I would love to get my hands on and rape. but believe me, I think it would more than willing on his part,lmao! But no, I wouldn't humiliate the guy, no, I can't do that. Now, where is he? lol.
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 9/9/2008 10:01:00 PM

Been doing some extensive research on the Internet such as going into forums where women fighters can be found and have discovered something interesting,


So surfing for porn is what passes for research now? WTF?
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 15
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Posted: 9/10/2008 12:22:16 AM
Awwwww heck no!!!!!!!! I'm a lover not a fighter.

It wouldnt turn me on or off is a guy lost to a woman, I cant imagine how you could rape a man ...dont seem like it would work if he isnt willing, and I doubt a man who just got his hat handed to him by a woman would be wanting to see her humilate him more in a sexual manner...sorta think this is a very bogus thread
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 3/13/2010 2:02:32 PM
Do you mean by using my bra to tie his hands together behind his back, and then forcing him to do my bidding while he's completely helpless?

Gosh no!

I've never done that.

 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/13/2010 2:17:00 PM
^^^^^ How the hell do you tie anything with a bra. Half the time I can't "untie" them, without some help.
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 18
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Posted: 3/13/2010 7:14:39 PM
Wow. This thread is here and one I posted gets deleted...
I will say the sexual fantasy does come true for many women in the bedroom anyway.
There are many woman that are kinky DOM's like me and will play rape. Some guys really get into being forced to have sex and do things they feel as though they would not want to do unless forced. Kinky kinky thread and Verity dont give me any ideas cause the next thing you know I'll have some guy bitting at a bit so I can lead him around my house like a horsie I can "ride". You all opened the door to posts like mine with a thread like this. You all have been talking about it already so Im not off topic.
 FyrKrakn
Joined: 2/21/2010
Msg: 19
Do women fantasize about raping a man?
Posted: 3/13/2010 7:15:24 PM
Nah, I love men in general, and while I don't mind kicking the azz of someone really horrible, I can't get off on fantasizing about humiliating someone or causing them pain just for the pleasure of it. the reality is that I'm a bit submissive to the right guy, I won't back down to the wrong one, though.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/14/2010 5:05:16 AM
I know some women have the rape fantasie, but really its more the fantasie of being taken more than rape, with heavy aggression, etc...some couples play this out.and its her being submissive.

Reading your post, the way you describe it like a woman would have to be a serious dom. with an almost hatred of men or something to that effect.

You don't describe a fantasie as in play role, but going beyond a dominatrix, to about the same thing as actual rape.

And this is something you have spent a lot of time researching? were you in the ring and lose a few fights?

lol.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/14/2010 5:19:15 AM
If a woman were to spar with a man, (even in her own 'weight' class), and beat him, it would be a great testament to her skill, her ability to take a punch, but not so much, her strength.
A good clean punch, well placed, does not require much force behind it.


A good clean punch still needs a lot of force behind it to do real damage or knock out a fighter...thats why you can have fights were the two guys hit each other solid many times and no one goes down....and why a guy with real power can K.O. someone with one punch.

Why some are called power punchers, and others are great boxers but without that K.O. power...

I boxed and I know......a punch without much force, you can walk thru all night...there might be a few strong women who can maybe win again a man their size who has no skill or power... but women boxers kinda went out of style because they quit drawing a crowd....people want to see knock outs....and only a couple of women had any real damage power, even then its was a called tko, a stoppage, not a knock out or down.

Then in reality when two women boxed and drew blood, if much, the people didn't want to see that, because they don't like to see women get hurt.

Layla Ali, was the only one with any real skill or power...the few others had no defensive skills, and even Layla would lose against really skill male boxers in her wieght class

I don't say this because I don't like the idea of a woman boxer beating a male boxer, but simply bacause its true...
There are ones she could beat, but they would be the ones who have little skill or experience in the ring.
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
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Posted: 3/14/2010 8:08:36 AM
.....then please meet me in the Batcave (he he~he he), forget the cape and remember the towels this time.....
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/14/2010 10:21:04 AM
Over a century after we gave (with much reluctance) women the vote, it seems it has finally begun to sink in, mainstream in both genders, that women have self-will AND the wherewithal/determination to exercise it (just taking the parochial US view here, over the past few decades). I can certainly see where a woman, inspired originally by lust in her loins (yeah, I believe that women get to lust, and show it, and act on it, lol), and feeling (belatedly) self-empowered, might make the mistake of combining power with lust, and the OP's scenarios may result more frequently (the stats do suggest that violence by women toward men has sharply increased over the past few decades). And I can see where her display of empowered lust might not be unwelcome in every man- at least as a fantasy, the vision of being pushed up against a wall (by a HOT woman, of course), and "taken" is a turn-on, at least for me. It's flattering to think that another human wants you so bad that they will break some rules to have you. But as the OP's more graphic examples show, the fantasy can get ugly in reality- an abuse of power, and that has nothing to do with sex, or any place in it, imho.
 guyinacorner
Joined: 8/20/2008
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/14/2010 11:47:56 AM
as a guy who trains regularly. on occasion with females.

I've thought about taking the odd dive.
if she's got me in the mount why fight it.

chicks who can fight are hot.
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/14/2010 12:28:31 PM
I'll behave, it's just so much fun joking around with a cute young man with a great sense of humor.


You do have to be careful with agressive women. They are way more cunning then men.


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