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 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 5
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You say you love him, you don't even sound like you like him. I would do some soul searching and evaluating and if you think it is worth it, talk to the guy, or not. No one can really make this decision but you however, if you do, you need to get the communication issues worked out and stop the childish ninny ninny ha ha crap.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 9
Should I give him another chance or let it be..
Posted: 9/22/2008 8:31:25 AM
I agree with the last 2 posts. It appears that you are rather ambivalent about each other and are looking for something better. As you get older and mature, you will find that it is better to be alone than with someone who you're not into.
 sydneyleigh
Joined: 3/21/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 8:50:15 AM
Agreeing with Woodstar.
These are not healthy relationship actions either one of you is displaying.

If you thought he was cheating, that means you don't trust him.
Do you want to be with someone you don't trust?

If he WAS cheating, why would you want to be with someone who obviously doesn't want to be with you?

Relationships really aren't this hard. When you find the RIGHT one, you will discover just how easily it flows.

Concentrate on your kids, and college. Get that part sorted out, then worry about relationships. You have your hands full.

Maybe stick to "dating and hanging out" while there is so much on your plate.

jmho,

sydneyleigh
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