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 joaquin17
Joined: 11/12/2004
Msg: 1
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This is an interesting question to debate...

I personally do not think I would (with all the respect for the bi-community-), because I always would fear that that woman could change her sexual interest/"object".. But I have to recognize that my ignorance in that matter may create some shadows that may only be my own pre-concepts, I do not know..

A different situation happened to me with an ex-girlfriend of mine who had some experiences with other women when she was a much younger, but who afterwards chooses to be straight....

But here the question is about someone who still bi...What do you think?
 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 2
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:09:37 PM
WEll, if I found out one of my interesting women was bi,,I'd say bye.
 SarGasm
Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 3
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:13:53 PM
date?...sure.
marry?...i'm never making that mistake again. bi or not.
 bunomatic
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 4
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:16:24 PM
If I found out a girl I was dating was bi I would encourage her to explore her feelings and have fun.Life is all about personal growth and who am I to deny that to someone I love.Also if you deny her the ability to explore that side of her personality she may end up resenting you and you don't want resentment such as this in a healthy relationship.Just my take on it.
 TLeo85
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 5
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:17:39 PM
very interesting topic. I just got out of a relationship with a guy who was bisexual. We were friends beforehand, and I knew his sexual preference. I thought I knew what I was getting into, but I was wrong. I thought that he wouldn't ever want to go to the other sex again and would be happy with just me. But even if the person says they love you, you always wonder if secrelty they want something else and are just too afraid to hurt your feelings to tell you. I've had other friends who are bisexual (never dated them) and generally they are extremely confused about what they want out of a relationship and who they want it with. Would I ever date a bisexual guy again? No. Would I ever marry a bisexual guy? Hell no.
 Babylonia
Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 6
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:31:16 PM
Short answer?

No frikkin way....

I like my men straight and manly. (grrrrrrrrrrrr)
 meowmix
Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 6/15/2005 6:34:57 PM
^^^ agree, no way, manly or no way.

MM
 gary5252
Joined: 2/2/2005
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Posted: 6/15/2005 6:37:53 PM
personally, NO. i do realize however in the age of different sexualities coming out, so to speak there may be some that could do this and have it work out for them. i'm too old fashioned myself but am learning not to be so condemnous of those who may have a different lifestyle. while i may not embrace it, i don't have to live with the consequences myself either.
 citizenalex
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 9
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:51:01 PM
I would SOOOOO marry a bi. And let her practice whenever she wants. I'd ask her all the gory details before going to bed and have wonderful dreams all night. And I wouldn't care about not being able to partake in the festivities provided that I am alowed to whistle the "Three's Company" theme song as many times as I want to.
 bunomatic
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 10
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:58:45 PM
Hell ya I'd marry her.Why not?I don't feel threatened by it in any way and thats really what it all comes down to for most guys.
 airplane_geek
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 11
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 7:10:59 PM
I think it would be cool while dating, but I think it would have to end once we got more serious. I don't think my mind could accept that idea very well after a certain point.
 Webbum
Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 12
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 7:19:19 PM
I'd marry a bi woman, but I don't think I'd share.
 MrFugu
Joined: 10/24/2004
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Posted: 6/15/2005 7:22:45 PM
It depends on how well we know each other and what kind of bi she is. If she is the type of bi that people stereotype that just like sleeping around with lots of men and women or both at the same time, no I would not marry her. If she is bi in the true sense of the word meaning attracted to men and women, but still believing in a monogomous relationship then yeah, I'd marry her if we got to that point in the relationship.
 citizenalex
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 14
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 7:26:03 PM
You might end up with a little surprise coming back home one day....
Webbum
Let's face it, if she's going out for some lady action, it's because there is no way she's getting what she's itching for with me, unless I go drag but like I said, there's no way...

And as I well-hormonated 25 year old, how can I not sympathise for her needs?
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 15
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 8:02:26 PM
I don't believe in marriage, so the answer is no. But I'd date one. In fact I did once, but I didn't find out until after the breakup.
 PrincessLayOnYA
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 16
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 9:32:11 PM
I dont know if I would marry a Bi-sexual man. Hmm I would have to think long and hard on that one.
 DowlingDenis
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 6/15/2005 10:05:06 PM
I agree with Webbum, I'd marry her but not share, the same goes for the dating.
 UlaLume
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 18
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 10:37:54 PM
I love how the thought of being involved with bisexual immediately makes people assume they'd be expected to share said bisexual.

Amazing news! Bi's can be (and have been) monogamous, unless informed that it's ok not to be, we're just like straight people with the monogamy!

 *BumbleBee*
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 19
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 1:37:32 AM
I'm very open minded and have had a serious relationship with a bi-sexual man.

Due to that experience, I would not marry someone who is bi-sexual.

Then again, I highly doubt that I'll be married again anyway.
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 1:52:58 AM
Yes.
 smilincaligal198
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 21
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 1:54:18 AM
no. my best friend did it, and learned what a mistake it was. although i did not experience it, i have seen first had the pain and trouble it causes.
 lateā„¢
Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/16/2005 2:03:16 AM
Nope
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 6/16/2005 2:04:39 AM
Amazing news! Bi's can be (and have been) monogamous, unless informed that it's ok not to be, we're just like straight people with the monogamy!



Certainly right on there.I speak from experience.
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 24
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 2:11:32 AM
Well now that in some parts GAY marriages are sanctioned....this would not have happened 20 years ago.......now theres more acceptance.

I wont be surprised in the next 20 years...if they have 3 way marriage licences for
bi's 1 man +2women or 2 men + 1 women....it could happen as today such combinations exist...but not legally sanctioned


I have friends who are Bi, lesbian as well as gay........as long as they respect my heterosexuality...I will respect their preference.

OT: no, I will not marry one - because I would not like to share my partner with a man or woman.
 patty4u
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 25
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 4:31:36 AM
YES!!!
in fact, i am waiting for Her to pop the question!!!
i'm waiting, waiting,waiting...
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