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 joaquin17
Joined: 11/12/2004
Msg: 1
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This is an interesting question to debate...

I personally do not think I would (with all the respect for the bi-community-), because I always would fear that that woman could change her sexual interest/"object".. But I have to recognize that my ignorance in that matter may create some shadows that may only be my own pre-concepts, I do not know..

A different situation happened to me with an ex-girlfriend of mine who had some experiences with other women when she was a much younger, but who afterwards chooses to be straight....

But here the question is about someone who still bi...What do you think?
 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 2
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:09:37 PM
WEll, if I found out one of my interesting women was bi,,I'd say bye.
 SarGasm
Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 6/15/2005 6:13:53 PM
date?...sure.
marry?...i'm never making that mistake again. bi or not.
 TLeo85
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 4
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:17:39 PM
very interesting topic. I just got out of a relationship with a guy who was bisexual. We were friends beforehand, and I knew his sexual preference. I thought I knew what I was getting into, but I was wrong. I thought that he wouldn't ever want to go to the other sex again and would be happy with just me. But even if the person says they love you, you always wonder if secrelty they want something else and are just too afraid to hurt your feelings to tell you. I've had other friends who are bisexual (never dated them) and generally they are extremely confused about what they want out of a relationship and who they want it with. Would I ever date a bisexual guy again? No. Would I ever marry a bisexual guy? Hell no.
 gary5252
Joined: 2/2/2005
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Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/15/2005 6:37:53 PM
personally, NO. i do realize however in the age of different sexualities coming out, so to speak there may be some that could do this and have it work out for them. i'm too old fashioned myself but am learning not to be so condemnous of those who may have a different lifestyle. while i may not embrace it, i don't have to live with the consequences myself either.
 airplane_geek
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 6/15/2005 7:10:59 PM
I think it would be cool while dating, but I think it would have to end once we got more serious. I don't think my mind could accept that idea very well after a certain point.
 MrFugu
Joined: 10/24/2004
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Posted: 6/15/2005 7:22:45 PM
It depends on how well we know each other and what kind of bi she is. If she is the type of bi that people stereotype that just like sleeping around with lots of men and women or both at the same time, no I would not marry her. If she is bi in the true sense of the word meaning attracted to men and women, but still believing in a monogomous relationship then yeah, I'd marry her if we got to that point in the relationship.
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 6/15/2005 8:02:26 PM
I don't believe in marriage, so the answer is no. But I'd date one. In fact I did once, but I didn't find out until after the breakup.
 PrincessLayOnYA
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 6/15/2005 9:32:11 PM
I dont know if I would marry a Bi-sexual man. Hmm I would have to think long and hard on that one.
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 6/16/2005 1:52:58 AM
Yes.
 smilincaligal198
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/16/2005 1:54:18 AM
no. my best friend did it, and learned what a mistake it was. although i did not experience it, i have seen first had the pain and trouble it causes.
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 6/16/2005 2:04:39 AM
Amazing news! Bi's can be (and have been) monogamous, unless informed that it's ok not to be, we're just like straight people with the monogamy!



Certainly right on there.I speak from experience.
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 13
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 2:11:32 AM
Well now that in some parts GAY marriages are sanctioned....this would not have happened 20 years ago.......now theres more acceptance.

I wont be surprised in the next 20 years...if they have 3 way marriage licences for
bi's 1 man +2women or 2 men + 1 women....it could happen as today such combinations exist...but not legally sanctioned


I have friends who are Bi, lesbian as well as gay........as long as they respect my heterosexuality...I will respect their preference.

OT: no, I will not marry one - because I would not like to share my partner with a man or woman.
 patty4u
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 6/16/2005 4:31:36 AM
YES!!!
in fact, i am waiting for Her to pop the question!!!
i'm waiting, waiting,waiting...
 seriouslyfunnylady
Joined: 5/10/2005
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Posted: 6/16/2005 4:33:55 AM
Been there done that, would NEVER ever do it again!!!
 tiffi78
Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 6/16/2005 10:13:10 AM
depends on the guy. if he was i wouldn't marry him until he had at least gotten some of his "sexual experimentation" out of the way. and if he ever felt the urge to be with a man, we could just roleplay with a strap-on.
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 6/16/2005 10:17:10 AM
The Highway is That-a-way --->
 stubobb
Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 18
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 12:34:25 PM
Sure, why not? It just means that she munched some rug in the past.
Cheating is cheating, whether the spouse is bi or not. If she get's a yearning for some girl-on-girl action, then there's a prob with the marriage, not with her sexual past.
 stubobb
Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 6/16/2005 12:37:16 PM
Sure, why not? It just means that she munched some rug in the past.
Cheating is cheating, whether the spouse is bi or not. If she get's a yearning for some girl-on-girl action, then there's a prob with the marriage, not with her sexual past.
 joaquin17
Joined: 11/12/2004
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/16/2005 2:25:08 PM

It's not in the past. A person who is bi-sexual IS bi-sexual. I'm not saying they can't be monogomous, because I know they can, but a desire for girl-on-girl action, as you put it, wouldn't reflect a problem in the marriage.

Someone who is bi-sexual, whether they act on it or not, will have a desire for a person of the same sex at time, no matter how amazing the marriage is.


That's the core of this question/thread.. How bisexual people could handle their sexual feelings? Would be that comparable to a straight person who also have desires or not? Good comment Mommy of 2!
 patty4u
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 21
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 3:00:19 PM
why?
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 22
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 3:17:28 PM
Judging from the responses here I'd say most people assume bisexuals can't keep it in their pants/keep their legs closed, are totally into threesomes, and are confused about their sexuality (one day liking women, the next liking men). This sounds bizzare and ignorant to me.
 irish_charmer
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 23
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 3:19:42 PM
Regardless of sexual orientation, marriage is supposed to be physically monogamous. I, for one, don't believe people can stop themselves from having certain thoughts, but acting upon those thoughts is a matter of choice. We, as humans, are supposed to rule our emotions and actions; they are not supposed to rule us.

Therefore, all of that being said, I would not become romantically involved with anyone who admitted to being physically active with the same sex. In this day of "down low" I'd be a nervous wreck. Too many things could crawl upon me that would never go away, and who needs that drama?
 joaquin17
Joined: 11/12/2004
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/16/2005 5:45:27 PM

Judging from the responses here I'd say most people assume bisexuals can't keep it in their pants/keep their legs closed, are totally into threesomes, and are confused about their sexuality (one day liking women, the next liking men). This sounds bizzare and ignorant to me.


You put it a little beet extreme, although in general I have to admite (as I did) that my ignorance in this matter does not help. That is the reason why I open that topic to discussion in the first place.. But may be a little beet of insight from your prospect will help.. could you extends your point of view? It would be very helpful, and I mean it..
 joaquin17
Joined: 11/12/2004
Msg: 25
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/16/2005 6:12:14 PM
So far (and I did not make any statistics on it), it seems that in general men are more likely to accept a bi-female..

"Statistically talking", I would not expect such a trend: it should be an explanaition.

My guess is that such "tolerance" is related to a certain kind of men..

My questions to those men would be:

1. How much would you like a 3-way FMF?
2. How much worse would be for you to find out that your wife is cheating on you with other man as compared to other woman?
3. And finally... how machist/chauvinist are you?

Let's standarize the answers as:

A. CRAZY about it/A LOT !!! B. Moderate C. Indiferent D. A little E. Not at all
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