OK guys please explain this to me, since I clearly have no clue. Why is it when I tell a guy that I would like to see him again, had a great time, (and shit he actually get a kiss or two) that guy disappears on me. However when I tell a guy "umm .....thanks" back away when he goes in for the hug, blow him off when he emails/calls or tell him "i dont want to see you again" - those guys are the ones that keep trying to see me agian?
You know what? The same exact thing happens to me when I am b!tchy with guys. My guy friends think it's hysterical & tell me it's because guys like the chase. I think they're crazy.
In fact, if I let my guard down, relax & come off accommodating, it always ends up in disaster. I never hear from THOSE men but sure enough, the guys I was snarky to or kicked just keep showing up or calling.
I'm just surprised we're not getting better answers here on this question. Geeez. Come on guys! You can do better than that!!! LOL