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 carelesswhisper00
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 1
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I have to ask this question as it was part of a conversation I was involved in recently. Why do men do this? Is it because it's something that men enjoy doing and you get something out of it or is it something that may be requested of you to do? I need to finish the conversation and want to have some answers for conclusion. Speak up!!!!
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 2
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 10/10/2008 9:31:29 PM
I happen to like it myself
 carelesswhisper00
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/10/2008 10:05:57 PM
OK rm I think we get the picture it turns you on and on and on
 vivaciousvixen2
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 4
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Posted: 10/10/2008 11:25:45 PM
But Poo Poo comes out of our behinds!!!! Isn't that reaching up a smelly chocolate factory in combination with a cabode ? Hmmmmmm???
 ripley65
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 5
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 10/11/2008 1:22:10 AM

This is where cleanliness comes in.


Doesnt matter how clean you THINK you are, how cleaned out you are,,,,its STILL a haven for bacteria and its nasty. If men want something tighter than a womans p*ssy or her mouth, then buy a fleshlight! That is more of a turn on then having a mans finger up my a**!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/11/2008 2:47:34 AM
Some women like it. Some don't. If you want to avoid having a man find out for himself, tell him before he gets the opportunity to figure it out for himself. Guys don't read minds.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 10/11/2008 6:31:19 AM
Anyone choosing to venture into their partners behind had better ASK FIRST! Not everyone enjoys anal play - for various reasons! If you venture in without permission - you may not like the result!
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 10/11/2008 6:40:52 AM
ScorpioAura
Why? Don't know. Fo many years I was in the *out of bounds* club. Had a patient man introduce me slowly to the merits and joys of anal play... and OMG I'm hooked!!! I like Rock's list...

1, because it will send her over the edge even further!
2. To prim it for my Johnson.
3. because it turns me on!
4. it often makes me even harder!
5. To check for weapons of mass destruction!
6.Because it turns me on!
7.because it really turns me on!
8. because she asks me to!
9 because she begged me to!
10.Because it really turns me on!
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
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Posted: 10/11/2008 7:14:22 AM
Yea, why not open the doors to further excitement? If both parties are cool, fun times await! Yowza!!
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/11/2008 8:09:36 AM
Rock Man, your turning me on with your naughty finger talk thats for sure
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 10/11/2008 9:39:18 AM
Because they know how much we enjoy it!
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 10/11/2008 10:35:05 AM
Don't know if we're talking just some idle finger poking during intercourse or some serious orgasmic effects here.

Many women who do NOT want or have never experienced ANY anal don't think anything good could EVER come from any activity back there.

WRONG!!

Besides having only the #2 concentration of nerve ending behind (sic) the clit, the anal / rectal area lies DIRECTLY against the ASPOT at the top / back of the vagina. Poke that area the right way (ie the right angle and with the proper firmness) and she is gonna be exploding like a Chinese fireworks factory!!!

Of course this is just an OPTION. It allows your woman to receive or, if you're her partner, the ability to GIVE her almost unlimited and truly MASSIVE orgasms. If a woman, however, does not want you to touch her there - ever - then you should respect her wishes, of course, and avoid the silly idea of wanting to make her feel that good. Ever.
 jj6364
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 13
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 10/11/2008 11:15:29 AM
I use to be an "thats an exit door only" type gal. But I must say a very patient man changed my ideas!!! If you haven't experienced it, its needs to be put on your to do list. Relax, find a patient experienced man, relax, did I say relax, and enjoy!!! But remember, the only way to enjoy is RELAX!!! Guaranteed no other act will send you as far over the edge than this lol!!
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/11/2008 11:38:10 AM
You got that right, it does take me further over the edge, when he fingers me. Like when they finger my ass, and I suck there**** mmmmmmmm, that feels so hot. They place a finger in both my **** and ass, makes me more horny, I suck them harder !!!!!!
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/11/2008 12:47:45 PM
That's easy....they all secretly want to become proctologists and are simply practicing their digital rectal exams on unsuspecting patients...
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 10/11/2008 3:34:58 PM
Trust me on this one........If they like it, they will let you know that they do, and ask you if you like to do it......

Most that do like it, also like to do it to you as well. What is important is being patient, relaxed, and wanting to try.......if not, all you end up with is frustration, and pain.

It is always good to keep as much lubrication around as is needed to get where she wants you to go, and half the fun is having her put it on you, both fingers and c*ck, she then knows how much is there, and can relax even more.

Each couple will have their yes and no areas when it comes to sex, and that is all a part of finding out your compatibility........

Just my opinion.........
 chicksinger63
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 17
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Posted: 10/11/2008 6:57:08 PM
OMG.....to check for weapons of mass destruction.....toooo funny

This is a guy that knows how to please a woman....girls...right here!
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/11/2008 8:13:32 PM
Oooh Rock Man ! That would drive my clit nuts and make me very wet !!! But I ****ing love it !!!!!!
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/12/2008 11:45:37 AM
Yes, thats all that matters RM, and lasting for along time does too
 christinaFromBoca77
Joined: 9/10/2008
Msg: 20
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 10/12/2008 12:38:07 PM
I understand it because I want to finger a guy's butt....I want to pop their cherry back there
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
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Posted: 10/12/2008 1:00:54 PM
!!!! Well, I, Uhh,...
 miztee1969
Joined: 6/18/2008
Msg: 22
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Posted: 10/12/2008 8:00:26 PM
well hun they want it all especially if there is a question of is it tighter than the vj
 swingpup
Joined: 10/21/2006
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Posted: 10/13/2008 9:02:16 AM
It certainly could give new meaning to "stink finger." Never have been into the anal thing.

Maybe if she drank NuLYTELY 24 hours before "indulging" and continued per the prescribed procedure preparing herself for Kockoscopy.

Gastroenterologists make the hugs bucks, wouldn't it be nice if all of us that dealt with a-holes on a daily basis could?
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 24
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 10/13/2008 4:39:56 PM

Great sentiment. Problem is a lot of women can't have a conversation like that and be completely truthful as to what they like, what they are curious about, and what they'd like to try. Women want you to think well of them and some just may not be comfortable admitting to a kinkier or "dirty" side. They may like it (the act and then some), but not admit it.


That is why we have so many ridiculous threads which could be avoided if only someone said something instead of leaving the other person to guess.
 catch22_
Joined: 2/28/2005
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Posted: 10/13/2008 5:33:19 PM
this post was funny,
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