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 PattyMan2001
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 8
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Damm, I gotta take a little trip to Canada sometime
 SweetKristine
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/17/2005 1:51:00 PM
isnt that what pof is
 SweetKristine
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/17/2005 2:13:38 PM
hehe need to take a pic of that...ok titty pic is gone..sorry if i made anyone vomit

just had it up for a few mins to support the other ladies in the boob thread


ot: sex party can i bring party favors?
 mikelgreco
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 6/17/2005 2:24:37 PM
I hear Costa Rica is the new in place to go...if you like young Spanish girls.

And it's legal!!!

OMG...you pervs. need to get out more. lol
 SweetKristine
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 6/17/2005 2:44:03 PM
LOL Ty...gosh didnt realize putting it up for 20 mins would make such a difference lmfao!! oh my


Ot: I'll bring the hats
 arth
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 6/17/2005 3:59:51 PM
These so-called parties are the straight equivalent of the gay male bath-house. It's a surefire recipe for the transmission of venereal diseases. No thanks, I'll do my partying in my own house and without the added distraction of pervs out for a cheap voyeuristic thrill.
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/17/2005 4:16:09 PM
God, we are so uptight down in the states...I've never even heard of stuff like that...damn
 sarlonge
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 6/17/2005 6:19:15 PM
The powerexchange in San Franciso is probably the biggest and best of its kind in North America. It has mixed (straight, gay, transgendered), excusively gay,exclusively lesbian and exclusively couples clubs in one 4 storey building (Dungeons, glory holes, play areas etc).
 Western Man
Joined: 10/5/2004
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Posted: 6/18/2005 5:48:32 AM
I have heard of these places, but have never been to one. I hope those who attend practice safe sex, or they could suddenly find all kinds of health problems.
 deepu_krazy
Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 6/18/2005 5:55:01 AM
hey

wish we could have something like this in bombay,india!!
 malcum
Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 6/9/2006 2:59:19 PM
Anything like that near Wash DC, Virginia or Maryland?
 Wild Heart
Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 6/9/2006 8:27:01 PM

You enter and dance on stage and a big curtain comes down and people go at It until the curtain lifts.


Is that one l'orage? (sp)
 Sun N Sea
Joined: 11/11/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/13/2006 8:37:03 PM
i would like to know how one goes around to find this swingers club in Barrie,any info would be great.
 cutynique
Joined: 8/12/2007
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Posted: 12/20/2007 10:01:17 AM
is there any clubs like thats in florida?
 Tin Foil Ninja
Joined: 5/2/2007
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Posted: 3/11/2008 11:13:37 PM
Wow...

No disrespect for those who go, in fact, in a sense I admire them. But I personally could never go to one of those. Yeah I'm curious, but there is no way I could bring myself to attend.
 justin_mtl
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 3/11/2008 11:23:49 PM
You need to have a partner if you're a man to get into these places I think. Unless you're incredibly good looking I guess. So you're telling me leaving Montreal isn't really a move I should do?!
 siremike
Joined: 8/3/2008
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Posted: 11/22/2008 11:53:49 PM
i moved to the atlanta area and by my job there are 2. so the states are not that prude.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 11/23/2008 3:53:42 AM
OMG some people live with blinders on!! These places are EVERYWHERE! Some just more underground than others - but in this day of 'google' - you can find clubs in many, many neighbourhoods. Heck even my little city has one - right under everyones nose. I am sure the neighbours don't even know!
 _jay_see_
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 51
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Posted: 6/15/2009 11:19:47 AM
What do these parties require in terms of entry?

Don't you already have to be well connected and know people in order to get in?

And once in, women are still going to be highly selective over which guy(s) they pair off with.

So I don't see any real difference between these "sex" parties and the regular, run-of-the-mill bars, pubs and clubs.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 55
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Posted: 10/20/2010 8:47:51 PM
interesting side story here for me.
I have raised my children to know they can ask me anything, and they do.
Not long ago my youngest, age 20, revealed to my that she had a curiosity about BDSM and wanted my advice. She was thinking of going to one of several of these clubs that are in our area and wanted my opinion has to how she should proceed.
1.- Only time I wished my kids wouldn't ask me, but tremendously glad she did.
2.- Don't know how she knew.... (she may not. could have been a lucky shot in the dark)
3.- Told her to go with people she knew and trusted and had experience with these clubs.
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 58
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Posted: 10/20/2010 11:32:51 PM
Private clubs are pretty easy to spot around here. They're in unmarked brick buildings with no windows and lots of parking, only an address on a door. They are in the warehouse districts mostly, but can be in less isolated parts of town, even close to fast food and gas stations.

Then again, because the club is private, one doesn't know what's going on inside - could be people smoking moose dung for all you know. But you have to know when they're open and have an idea what to expect or they won't be very welcoming. Private clubs do not appreciate looky-loos or just plain nosey neighbors.

The euro stripper parties shown on porno sites are quite another animal than your average low-profile sex club. These are NOT bordellos with wanton women just waiting for a pack of horny guys. Even secret societies have rules and modes of conduct. Any doofus who thinks he can run amok like some lone wolf will probably find his teeth waiting for him on the parking lot pavement when he wakes up in the morning. Discretion and manners are taken very seriously by people who run the clubs. Even if legal, they don't want trouble with police and authorities from people who act up.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 59
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Posted: 10/25/2010 8:09:42 PM
We have a couple of swing, bdsm and fetish clubs here in Denver too. I have only been to one of them a few times. I have to say having gone to a swing club and working regular clubs...I see a HUGE difference! The regular clubs have more problems, assaults, thefts, creepers, drugs and rude people than the swing clubs.... In fact if I were a woman, I'd feel 100% safer at a swing club than a regular night club.
 citygal95
Joined: 10/14/2010
Msg: 60
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Posted: 10/28/2010 8:06:52 PM
I went to a few sex / swinger clubs. Mostly out of curiosity. I went with a male friend and both of us were single at the time. Some people can be snobby and ignore you if you aren't apart of their clique. Most of the people there were either significantly overweight and / or over 40. There were only a small percentage of men that I considered to be at least somewhat physically attractive.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 61
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Posted: 10/29/2010 6:26:35 AM

We have a couple of swing, bdsm and fetish clubs here in Denver too. I have only been to one of them a few times. I have to say having gone to a swing club and working regular clubs...I see a HUGE difference! The regular clubs have more problems, assaults, thefts, creepers, drugs and rude people than the swing clubs.... In fact if I were a woman, I'd feel 100% safer at a swing club than a regular night club.



thank you ..exactly what I have been saying on all these threads ...me and my wife are not swingers ..but those are the only clubs we go to ..and we go regularly .. because of this and we love to dance ..without all the problems associated with vanilla clubs




I went to a few sex / swinger clubs. Mostly out of curiosity. I went with a male friend and both of us were single at the time. Some people can be snobby and ignore you if you aren't apart of their clique. Most of the people there were either significantly overweight and / or over 40. There were only a small percentage of men that I considered to be at least somewhat physically attractive






Most of the people there were either significantly overweight and / or over 40. There were only a small percentage of men that I considered to be at least somewhat physically attractive


sounds like you might be just a tad bit snobby ...and most of these people dont fit in your clique

really if you truly only went out of curiosity..why would it matter if ...Most of the people there were either significantly overweight and / or over 40. There were only a small percentage of men that I considered to be at least somewhat physically attractive.

one would think if you had no intention of getting laid ..you could enjoy the company of even people that were Most of the people there were either significantly overweight and / or over 40.

There were only a small percentage of men that I considered to be at least somewhat physically attractive. so people have to be at least somewhat physically attractive for you to enjoy their company???


sounds snobby to me ..just what kind of people fit in your clique ..I understand you need someone to be somewhat physically attractive..for you to sleep/swing/shag with but you only went out of curiosity..just saying

snobby sounding people don't need to throw stones in glass forums

city... I know you probably strive not to be snobby .... I'm just pointing out how your post came off
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 62
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Posted: 10/29/2010 8:00:19 AM

There were only a small percentage of men that I considered to be at least somewhat physically attractive. so people have to be at least somewhat physically attractive for you to enjoy their company???


Deerdog...I think her point was that she would have been willing to partake if she found a hot guy. Meaning- she's not a gal that would go to a place like that JUST to have sex...No matter what.

She has her own personal standards of the types of men she would allow herself to have sex with and that's her business.

I don't think she's snobby at all for it.

I think you took it the wrong way or are a bit defensive, thinking that if a hot girl goes to a club like this- that you might have a chance with her.


I have a buddy of mine here in town and he is a good looking guy. He has no real problem getting women at a normal club.

Yet every week he goes to a swingers club. why? because he wants to screw several women in the same night. He is willing to lower his standards of who he'll have indescriminate sex with- just for the sake of having sex.

Nothing at all wrong with that- so long as everyone is on the same page.
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