I gave up on a woman after trying for over one year to show her that I am sincere, have no ulterior motives, and loved her more than life itself. She always insisted that I had ulterior motives (I wanted to meet and marry my "best friend" and it was her) and she also had a "vision" that I was destined to be with another woman someday. I could never convince her that there was no other woman and she was the only woman I ever wanted.
Sounds to me like she never made any committment to you and tried her best to head you into a different direction (one she wasn't sharing)
I don't see anything evil about the woman.........you were the one smitten, not her.....
Good choice to move on.......don't hate her, just let her be and take care of your own life.
Falling in love is always a risk........we all know that, and so do you.
Much Luck in '09