|You know you should end it but ..........|
Posted: 1/6/2009 11:59:51 AM
|I don't mean to be mean but odds are you wouldn't have been able to work it out even if he had admitted everything. The major factor is that he thinks you aren't the "one". Has anyone been able to convince you otherwise once you've realized that? Rairly do men or women change their mind on that, especially after 6 mths of dating, the impression has been made. And to know, say it to others, but lead you on anyway, you deserve better. What I've learned from my guy friends is that they will string you along until something better comes just because being with someone in general is better then being alone (thus being with you makes him happier then being alone...nice but not what you are looking for and that's not fair to you). |
Also if he had admitted to it and you still stayed with him, he probably would be doing the same thing because he'd think you were a sucker for not taking off after you knew better...thus he can continue to use you because you like him enough to forgive. The key is he didn't respect you enough to be honest with you and not lead you on or cheat on you in the first place.
Tell him how you feel (so you feel you've been heard) and then walk away (odds are he'll deny it all to the end anyway) and cry until it doesn't hurt anymore. Make sure your girlfriends and family have the heads up that you'll need some support and time and you'll get through it. Or if you are mad enough and can live with yourself, do what kelco ^^^ said and do to him what he's been doing to you. It won't make him want you more but sometimes an eye for an eye can feel sorta good