|Well, I think the issues probably stem from writing:|
You should be 100% a man! I have strong personality and I need a person who is secure enough in themselves to let me be me.
... and ...
Here's a tip: IF you inspire me, if you challenge me,
It doesn't draw in psychos or anything, don't get me wrong. Maybe put in there that you want a guy who's confident, but not controlling. I think in your profile it says the opposite of you being a pushover -- it says you have a strong personality, be '100% man' and want a guy to challenge you. A guy bleeding alpha-male qualities will hone in on that. Just emphasize that you don't want a controlling guy, I think that should be fine, right?