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Joined: 10/21/2008
Msg: 2
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OP-is the same guy you asked about in another thread...
HE ISN"T INTO YOU!...and that is why he behaved this way, other ones who behave that way-weren't into you and I can guarantee you, you'll meet others in the future who will do the same exact thing...

When a man is into a woman, he calls and keeps in contact, PERIOD-end of discussion.

rant, rave, cry or do whatever you have to get over this clown...and paste this on your computer or wherever..

I will never make a man my priority when he is keeping me as an option-men who are into me will call me of their own free will.

Now go and keep and have fun sing and dance
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 5
Posted: 1/14/2009 3:54:39 PM

known him 6 months and only been on 3 dates and inbetween that times he rarely bothers to call anyway... he lives 1 hr and 45 mins away.... so the distance is tough,

Its not tough when you want to be with someone. You are there when he has
nothing better to do. Why do you even care if he OD'd on the cold medicine.

He is a jerk and you are obsessive for fretting over the whys the hows and the
how could this be's.

Its like outta site outta mind until he's ready to hook up again.

You are a big girl. Read this again. Within your own words lies
your answer.
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 8
Posted: 1/14/2009 4:07:03 PM
I totally agree- actually on my way home tonight I started to
cry- I had such an overwhelming sense of loneliness- I am far from
alone in this world but like you I sometimes wish there was someone to
go home too and just hug. I know that as I get older it does hurt way more
than it did when I was younger. Its harder to shake off bad behavior.

I wonder what causes people to be so mean sometimes- I know a simple
phone call but I tell myself that not everyone is like me and I really need
to be - no matter how lonely, more selective in who I allow into my world.

I feel your pain- but know you are not alone.
Joined: 12/31/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/14/2009 6:26:51 PM
Women do the very same thing to men. Done that ...Been there
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/15/2009 9:01:54 AM
Because he was just not into you.......
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