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 ImAHotMess
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 7
Is It Bad For A Man To Need A Woman ?Page 1 of 1    
Wanting and needing are two different things. As for me, having a man in my life is a want, not a need. I also work, go to College and take care of my life. I want to meet someone that does the same thing. But to say you "need" may come off as "needy". I have met many men who have all that you say you have, but emotionally cannot function alone. Which in turn means they will SETTLE for anyone, because they "need" to have a woman in their life. I myself will not settle, and I do not want a man who will settle. Be picky. Care about who you are with. To me it just sounds so....not so good! Be with me because you WANT ME not just because you NEED a woman in your life.
 i like cats
Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 15
Is It Bad For A Man To Need A Woman ?
Posted: 1/14/2009 9:51:31 PM
Saying you "need" a woman, sounds as if you are "needy".

Wanting a woman or wanting companionship is similar but doesn't so dependent.
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