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 Wylie_Coyote
Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 7
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As soon as there is interest on both sides. I don't think of a phone call as a big deal. In the beginning both sides seem to be looking for all those deal breakers so why not talk, hear the weird pauses and other tones in someone's voice.

Besides if you can't hold on a basic conversation, (and I hear that most people can't) then why would you ever want to meet?

Just another opinion.
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 mrcyrus
Joined: 1/26/2009
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When would you ask if you could phone?
Posted: 2/1/2009 11:22:10 PM
I personally hate MSN/IM/Email as a way of getting to know someone, but if someone asked me early on if she could call, I might feel a little sketched out.

Generally, the answers to these questions are always subjective. It depends on the situation, the person, and you. If you've been emailing for a while and know quite a bit about each other, it doesn't hurt to ask if you can call. If you've developed any kind of bond at this point, nobody's going to shoot you down and immediately stop talking to you because he's freaked out. If he's not ready, he'll say so.

Then again, I may be giving too much credit to other guys. I can only speak for reasonable people :)
 LukeMM23
Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 15
When would you ask if you could phone?
Posted: 2/2/2009 1:30:34 AM
It doesn't matter to me as long as she is comfortable.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 19
When would you ask if you could phone?
Posted: 2/2/2009 7:02:18 AM
I just give out my number and ask her to call so she can avoid giving me her number and also block her number. That seems to work ok, Since I use a prepaid phone, I really don't care about giving my number out.
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