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 Landra
Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 8
How to deal with a bf who's emotionally not there?Page 1 of 2    (1, 2)
It's been less than 120 days together. How about you just call it a day and figure he's just not the guy for you. Plus if he's not sober, you really need to let him go to AA and get his life together. You don't need to go to counseling with a guy you've dated fewer than 4 months, come on! You're not a match. End of story.
 dannyr0697
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 15
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How to deal with a bf who's emotionally not there?
Posted: 3/5/2009 1:01:34 PM
Like other posters, I've gone to your posting history. Unlike other posters, I wasn't able to read the whole thing. I started noticing that most of your posts were labeled "msg.1". 31 threads you've started that didn't get deleted. I can only imagine what the total is, if you count the ones that, I'm sure, got deleted.
You say you've had counceling, it didn't help much, did it?
Here's my take on this thread: like was suggested by an earlier poster, dump this guy, work on yourself. You are 19. You have a long way to go in life. Worry about your kids, instead of what type of lube you need to use for anal sex. Get your priorities straight.
And STOP starting these rediculous threads asking for advice that you aren't taking anyway.
Sheesh!!!


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