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 Pandy
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 4
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I don't know who is universally a good lover , but I know who is a good lover for me.

He cares about me as a human being....and he KNOWS me....I can see it in his eyes, I can hear it in his voice.

Every movement of my lips/hands brings a response from him......I KNOW that I'm driving him wild. And his touch sends shivers through me.

He is confidant.....he doesn't keep asking me if he's doing it right....he KNOWS from my responses what I'm loving, and what I"m not. He knows when to ask,when to communicate but he does it without seeming unsure of himself, and without breaking the mood.

He knows that making love isn't some serious rated competition......He can laugh comfortably in bed and it's a positive part of the whole experience. Something stupid WILL eventually happen to one of us in bed....and he has to be able to laugh along with me and take it in stride.

He can tell me what he wants and needs without akwardness or embarrassment...he shares his fantasies with me, and wants to hear mine.

My perfect lover is vocal, I hear his pleasure in his voice....and he talks to me....but it's erotic instead of nasty.... seductive instead of crass.
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 7
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 11:50:11 AM
Knowing, learning and caring how to love me really does help.
 Montreal_Guy
Joined: 3/8/2004
Msg: 10
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/29/2005 8:29:02 AM
Someone that wants to bring you to places you never thought possible - and enjoys coming along for the ride.

The best ones are the ones that are so in tune with you, that they almost become you.

Very rare...but they do exist.
 DJABBTC
Joined: 8/27/2004
Msg: 16
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/8/2005 4:03:23 PM
Being in love and being creative.
 eeeeee9
Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 17
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/8/2005 4:10:28 PM
genetics. if she enjoys me and cums without problems. bad lovers dont cum due to bad genetics
 badbadgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 20
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/13/2005 8:31:26 PM
the freakier the better for me
and a guy who calls me only when he wants sex...
 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 21
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/13/2005 8:33:36 PM
^^^^ uh... ok
 Oral Delight
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 23
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/13/2005 8:45:04 PM
to blastkist

"I want to give you what you need...what is that?"

"Yeah...I want to do that for you...I want you to be happy."

"Awwww shucks...hehehehe"

"I just want you to feel good and be happy like I said"

And I would say all these things very comfortably
 apuhapuh
Joined: 11/11/2005
Msg: 47
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 11/20/2005 7:23:46 AM
hi
your opinion is very good about this matter
so good
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 51
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 11/20/2005 11:02:20 AM
Experience......quality.....understanding......physical attributes.......mental capability......caring......and a desire to please as much as be pleased.....
 smhrgs3000
Joined: 7/7/2008
Msg: 57
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/31/2008 3:10:34 PM
A caring, considerat, passionate partner who's intelligent, intuive, adventurous, patient with you as his/her student, leaned as my/your teacher, understanding, and always willing to compromise, share, and listen. A loving, caring, gentle partner who will share all of the thrills, pains, bliss, and thunderous excitement that you learn to experience and share TOGETHER, in the endless exploration of all things sexual and intmate. The one you can always trust, and never have to doubt, and who will always put your care and interests above thier own.
 MommasBoy88
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 58
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/31/2008 3:14:27 PM
I like my woman to give me haed first. Then I like to lick her clit. After that, I give her doggystyle for mabe 10 minutes. I think that makes a good lover.
 startle
Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 59
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/31/2008 3:35:01 PM
good breath. this means brushing several times a day plus flossing. next, kissing. some guys dont even french kiss. no tongue. lots of kissing is how to begins. passionate kisses. when a guy takes me to a restaurant, i go into restroom and brush. guys chew gum. doesnt work. your technique in bed must be good, but you have already failed if you show up for a date underdressed. get a date wardrobe. dressyshirt, dress slacks and nice shoes. if i can do it so can you. be mannerly, respectful and generous and you wont fail.
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 63
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/31/2008 5:13:48 PM
for a woman, 'a man with a 9" tongue who can breathe through his ears
for a man, 'a woman who loves oral and swallows,vaginal and anal and who's old man owns a pub
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 64
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/31/2008 7:23:25 PM
One of my dancer friends sent out a questionaire asking other dancers what made a good waltz partner. We noticed the answers also described what were the characteristics of a good lover. A quote from one responder:

"I think a good waltz partner is one that stays in the present....shares the moment so to speak. I know when I'm at my best I'm paying attention to how much my partner enjoys or doesn't enjoy what we are doing and am able to respond accordingly."

A good lover is relaxed and makes you feel relaxed. A good lover accepts you as you are, enjoys exploring, touching, stroking, licking, biting, all of it. A good lover is sensual and delights in the senses. A good lover has a sense of humor, is not in a hurry, enjoys the moment, the touching, the process, and is not so hung up on "the big O." A good lover is giving and does not make you feel embarrassed, wants to know what pleases you, understands the give and take. A good lover understands the entire body is erotic and delights in finding pleasure in unexpected places. A good lover is different every time, can respond to the moment, can be vigorous or sensual or slow or rough, depending on what seems right at that moment. A good lover wants to know what pleases his/her partner, delights in their delight, pays attention to the subtle. A good lover knows when it's time to stop, and will hold you in their arms as you drift off in the afterglow.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 66
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 8/1/2008 3:11:03 PM
Passion plays a big part of it.
 doink 1962
Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 67
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 8/1/2008 4:01:55 PM
ME!Of course what a silly question! LOL
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 68
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 8/1/2008 6:57:11 PM
He offers to sleep on the wet spot-LOL!!!
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 69
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 8/4/2008 1:41:22 PM
watering mouth
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 71
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 10/29/2008 12:02:36 PM
One good lover begets another.
Not that I disagree with anything that went before.
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 76
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 1/17/2009 10:12:23 PM
You are only as good as your partner allows you to be!

What makes a good lover is "communication!"
90% of my pleasure, comes from pleasing her....the other 10% comes after pleasing her!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 87
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 1/18/2009 9:11:13 AM
One who derives their pleasure from giving their partner pleasure.
 lacepantieshalfoff
Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 89
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 1/18/2009 7:34:34 PM
a good lover is someone who is willin to try anything at least once an someone who knows what makes their lover WILD and wants to do it to them over an over again becuase they love to please their partner an make them happy. a good lover rarely says no.
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 95
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What makes a good lover?
Posted: 2/14/2009 9:32:54 PM
It takes experimentation...try things and, if she melts and becomes putty in your hands, moaning...um, your efforts are working.
 La Gioconda
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 97
What makes a good lover?
Posted: 2/14/2009 10:45:59 PM
someone who know what feels good. He or She has high sex drive, and enjoys physical contact and touch. If they do not fall into this category it makes no difference if they are good communicators, and are able to laugh.
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