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Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 2
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I didn't think I had a list until I started using this site! And then I started getting email from all these women that was not even close to what I am interested in. Plus some things that I know I don't want. People know who they are and what they are list is meant to be funny but still it is true as to what I want and don't want. But it is not one of those stupid has to be this short or this tall or she has to be funny and blah blah is so real life changing shiii!
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/4/2009 4:12:31 PM
I have a very defined list of what I don't want. Most of it has to do with arrogance, selfishness, inflexibility - that kind of thing. Height, weight, hair color - these are open. It's more important that the man is someone I can respect.
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 5
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Posted: 4/5/2009 12:55:25 AM
I am a compulsive list maker. However, I have no real LIST. I have a few obvious requirements like.. must be attracted to him (and him to me), must not be a sociopath... junk like that.

I love the ideal fantasy candidate. Fantasy is fun. It's not reality, so that's just private for me.

My brain, my BS detector and my hormones pretty much take care of my choices.
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/5/2009 7:55:37 AM
So you don't fantasize at all?

Color me skeptical.

There's a difference between living in a fantasy and having them. I personally spend most of my time in reality, but it's fun and stress-killing to fantasize about the "perfect mate".
Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 7
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Posted: 4/5/2009 8:02:28 AM
A list... uhmmm

No Drug Abuse, no smoking, not an alcoholic, sense of humor, and the ability to carry on a conversation. Oh and teeth are nice too.
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 4/5/2009 2:12:29 PM
Said it in the last "list" thread.....
Nope! No list!
Are there dealbreakers for me......Hell yes.....but I don't need to write 'em down
to know 'em!
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