To focus on better serving our members, we've decided to shut down the POF forums.
While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June 2019. Event Hosts can still create and promote events while we work on a new and improved event creation service for you.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
Boys will be boys. I think the real issue is being overlooked. I wish every woman on POF could read your question/profile. The fact that you are even being contacted by men, men who actually want to have sex with you (and I assume it's not on a dare), would certainly prove that there truly is someone out there for everyone.