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Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 3
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Dump the car picture and put up some showing much more of you.

Understand that many of us have had bad experiences with marriage and/or some relationships, and need the time to let someone new into our life that way.

If you really want to know this or any man, take your time, enjoy being with them, and let nature takes its course, not forcing things to happen because you want that.

So, it is either this, or the fact that you are a "vampire", and have a desire to "suck" the blood out of another, that just might put some fear into their head.

Just my opinion.......
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 4
men scared
Posted: 4/6/2009 10:24:58 AM
If you reach for a cupcake and get an electric shock, how willing will you be to reach for the next one you see?

OP, unfortunately a lot of people believe in absolutes like this and are forever fearful. But there are many other baked goods other than cupcakes, most of which do not give electric shocks. Instead of going for the cupcakes with the rainbow electroshock sprinkles, go for the cupcakes with vanilla or chocolate frosting or just have a bagel. Not all baked goods are going to shock you.
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 5
men scared
Posted: 4/6/2009 10:58:49 AM
Let's get real. Your pic is not very good but you look okay. Having said that, this guy either needs a freaking shrink (and good luck playing that role), just is not in to you and has no where better to go or has a SO and is just playing around on the side. I guess there is always a chance the dude is a homo. Either way unless you love being a baggage handler get another guy.
Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 4/6/2009 11:54:38 AM
He already TOLD YOU!

why did he show signs of being scared?
He told me that a girl really fu** him over.

What part of that don't you understand?
You're already fu** him over because you're not listening to him.
It's all about you.
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