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 barbee1970
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 2
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I am the same way. I want to break the curse, but I am too afraid of rejection. I take time and when I get to know someone, I see them every day, I get use to them.
 Pyro74
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 3
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Shyness is a fricken Curse
Posted: 4/9/2009 11:54:00 PM
Here's a random song quote that deals with your issue.

Shyness is nice and
Shyness can stop you
From doing all the things in life
You'd like to

Shyness is nice and
Shyness can stop you
From doing all the things in life
You'd like to

So, if there's something you'd like to try
If there's something you'd like to try
Ask me I wont say no, how could I? - The Smiths
 SAguy_06
Joined: 12/29/2005
Msg: 4
Shyness is a fricken Curse
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:19:05 AM
With experience comes confidence...

your young yet...start doing things on your own and become confident than ask a friend to join you.

do things that out of your norm, no one is judging you, your gonna make mistakes, she's gonna say no...so what

Life is to short, this is the for you to have fun...

remember never take rejection personal. so if you ask some to dance and they say no, the're are tos of reasons why she said no...her shoes hurt, she worked a double shift and her friends drug her out...she dont like you...so what

Remember there will always be people that just dont like you, no matter how great a guy you are.

so kid. try something new this weekend, then next weekend you have something to talk about...
 The Artful Codger
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 5
Shy
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:37:24 AM
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Curses are actually supernatural, and thinking that your shyness is a result of having had a spell cast on you by some evil entity is probably not going to help you overcome the affliction.

Shyness is a natural condition which has been variously linked to genetic, biological, psychological and environmental inputs, and therefore treatable with techniques that produce tangible results.

Information is power and there is lots of it out there that can help you manage your behavioral inhibitions.
 SAguy_06
Joined: 12/29/2005
Msg: 6
Shy
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:50:51 AM

Curses are actually supernatural


Curses are actually words spoken by people who believe they can change the physical world with said words.
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