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 Need2possessu
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 4
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Bottom line... He will accept and marry anyone he can live with.

Bottom line... You should be searching for guys that can't live without you.

 kornbluth
Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/22/2009 1:04:33 AM

What is your first instinct about a guy who has been married more than 4 times and that is in his late 30's?

Phenomenally rich or phenomenally stupid or both.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:37:31 AM
He believes a lot in marriage, otherwise he only would have lived with these women.

He does not, however, believe in longevity or lifetime commitment.

does he have religious concerns about living in sin? That could be why he keeps "legitimizing" what he wants in life. It may mean he goes to extremes to legitimize other things he wants in life.

The real question is, how did these marriages end? His decision? Her cheating? Death?
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:40:58 AM
It sends up red flags for me if the ones I am attracted to and want to date, have been married more than two times..........

We all make mistakes, but if we make them over and over and over again, maybe we are just not meant to do that thing that we can not seem to get correct?

I put being married multiple times in the same category as filing for bankruptcy multiple times, and either one should stop you in your tracks and force you to consider "WHY".

Just my opinion.........
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