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 notjesus
Joined: 7/4/2008
Msg: 5
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Have you tried to go further? If so, did she stop you? Or were you happy with just the BJ(s)?

Are you sure "she" doesn't have a penis?
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 4/23/2009 3:56:45 PM
I've heard of this; and my advice is not to judge. I've heard of women who do this for reasons of self esteem; i.e. they have some serious emotional scaring; and need to feel needed or wanted. I've also heard of women who were so totally aroused by giving oral sex that just giving was a total turn on for them. (There are women out there who can actually orgasm by GIVING oral sex.) If your "friend" has self esteem issues; you would be doing her a favor by discussing this with her, and NOT continuing the BJ relationship. If she just loves oral sex, AND trusts you enough to engage in it with you, what you do with the relationship is your business. She may love oral sex, but STILL be VERY selective about who she does this with. Regardless of why she's doing it, if you DON'T respect her BECAUSE of what she's doing, you owe it to her, and yourself, to terminate the relationship.
 Yankee_Girl
Joined: 12/30/2008
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Posted: 4/23/2009 4:05:49 PM
Normal is a wide range.

She's getting something out of it or she wouldn't be doing it.
 notjesus
Joined: 7/4/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/23/2009 4:17:17 PM
^^^ it's not selfless if she likes it.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 4/23/2009 4:22:08 PM
I've had a few ask me to give them head... just that, nothing more... and my response is always.. "what's in it for me?"

While I enjoy the giving.. I also enjoy the getting. This is not the kind of relationship I would put up with for long...
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 4/23/2009 4:26:58 PM

^^^ it's not selfless if she likes it.

My thought exactly.

~OP~ There are indeed women who love to give without any strings, other physical contact and/or reciprocation. In my little circle of friends, we call it "Pulling a Monica" or simply a "Lewinski."
 *topchef*
Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/23/2009 8:13:16 PM

Are you sure "she" doesn't have a penis?


This was the first thing that came to my mind. Maybe "she" is getting off in more ways than one.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 4/23/2009 8:15:47 PM
If your positive she doesn't have ulterior motives........such as hoping more will come of the relationship.......then enjoy yourselves.
But I'd want to be damn sure she wasn't harboring some desires to be "your girl".
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 21
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Posted: 6/9/2009 6:16:57 AM
i would think it to be rather rare to find a woman who would perform BJ's on you unless...

A. she's so unattractive that she can't find a partner and is willing to accept any condition for this lone sex act and would do it for a handsome man (or any man).

B. has some type of a BJ fetish in which she derives emense pleasure and maybe orgasm from the act of fallacio alone.
 Baby Blue 09
Joined: 5/30/2009
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Posted: 6/9/2009 6:24:04 AM

lol is it a rare thing? I've a relationship similar to it, but only because his girlfriend refuses to give him head, she knows (sometimes watches) ... I'm one of those rare ones that can get off giving head....


That is such an awesome idea! Nicccccccccccccccce!

You're The Bestesst!
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 6/9/2009 6:41:43 AM
I think its pretty rare, but I can see it happening mainly because I could do it in reverse. I really LOVE bringing women to orgasm orally, and if a reasonably attractive friend wanted my face between her legs and nothing else, sure I'd do it and have a great time.

This woman likes giving pleasure and theres nothing wrong with that. Instead of feeling 'used', she probably is on a power trip that she controls his pleasure and can make him weak-kneed by her oral talents.
 Baby Blue 09
Joined: 5/30/2009
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Posted: 6/9/2009 6:55:12 AM

This does not sound normal to me. The majority of Humans just don't do something for nothing..


Not sure what we are classiying as "Normal" and the truth is most don't do something for nothing. But there are women that get extremely arroused and may even getting of from giving a man head!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 6/9/2009 7:01:07 AM
there are women out there that really get a power trip out of giving bjs
 Baby Blue 09
Joined: 5/30/2009
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Posted: 6/9/2009 7:10:49 AM

there are women out there that really get a power trip out of giving bjs


Soooooooooooooo true!
And I forgot to mention that! Even though there seems to be alot of focus on men with power trips in many of these threads, The Blowjob, for many women, is the ultimate form of power!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 6/9/2009 7:37:32 AM
well I dont know of any woman who is happy just giving blow jobs ...but if thats what she likes sounds like its working for everybody

actually in retrospect ./..I would love to be a cunnilingus buddy ..... i love to eat pvssy and have cummed from just doing that alone giving a woman pleasure with my mouth is a big turn on for me and if thats all the woman wanted to do it would be ok

so in retro-retrospect why would it not be possible that a woman could enjoy just performing oral sex alone
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 6/9/2009 8:34:21 AM
maybe you just have a fabulous penis, and she likes it alot!!

what the hell are you bit*hing about??

If it does bother you that much then you should be talking to her about it, not us!

and NO she is NOT a slut because she likes your penis


there are women out there that really get a power trip out of giving bjs

I think that there is some truth in this. There is nothing hotter then blowing his mind as well as his package. Making a man weak in his knees is the ultimate turn on. (at least it is for me)
 Okietokie88
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/9/2009 8:44:42 AM
I'd say I'm the male opposite,when I do engage in sexual activity.I'm a virgin who,doesn't like the idea of head(never had it but I've heard a few horror stories) but loves going down on women.If I mentally sync with a women I have no reservations with the idea f going down on her,their have been a few women in the past where that's all we really did.They call me the Cuddling Cunnilingus......alliteration for the erotic win!
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 6/9/2009 9:04:05 AM
I think he is just bragging
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/9/2009 10:57:54 AM

I think he is just bragging

or dreaming
 herforyou
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 6/9/2009 12:09:23 PM
Yes, you are a lucky guy to have a blow job buddy forget what other people say and sit back and enjoy the ride. it may end
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 6/9/2009 1:03:44 PM
umm..honey babes..

(smiles) I think that poster meant he only knows women like this in his dreams..

shhh..its ok!
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 6/9/2009 1:29:18 PM
awwww..poor poor js104c1.

perhaps your penis isnt as fantastic as the O.P.'s penis....
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 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
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Posted: 9/3/2009 6:02:08 PM
OP: Can you clone her and send one copy to me ASAP, please?
 Musique08
Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 9/3/2009 6:31:59 PM
I just want to say - yes some women enjoy giving BJs (to a guy they like)... but if I was going to do that, I'd at LEAST want to kiss the guy first (as well as talk and everything obviously!). I do care about my own pleasure too though, so I'd want a guy to care about it too, but yeah it's not totally selfless if the girl enjoys it too. Oh, and I hate the word 'slut'. I don't like it when people judge people.
 srb272007
Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 9/3/2009 8:41:56 PM
welcome to my world
just remember to never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever question it
oh yeah and dont think you're the only one
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