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 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 4
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If they are so-so on you .... they might use that for some lame excuse to boogy off.

If they actually like you ..... you are not going to run them off by being 50/50 on the "chase".

Bottom line - don't listen to the guys like the chase crap.

If it is a real match ..... it is a match.
 jmanphilly33
Joined: 6/12/2008
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Do men really enjoy chasing after women?
Posted: 5/10/2009 9:05:28 PM
If she is my girl, I enjoy having her call me because it makes me feel wanted :) But as far as the chasing when you first meet, I don't like games. If you want to be with me then say so. Dont ask me something hoping that i will say what you want me to say lol.
 notregme
Joined: 5/26/2005
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Posted: 5/10/2009 9:10:17 PM
Now if I had a woman to text me I might know what Im talking about but,lol.I hat talking on phones let alone typing on one.lol.And if its not life or death dont call me at work.lol.Mabye Im not the only guy like this,but Im single so Im just guessing.lol


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 mkiker2089
Joined: 3/24/2009
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Posted: 5/10/2009 11:53:36 PM
This is a common misconception. Men don't enjoy the chase in general. There may be a small minority that do but you wouldn't want them.

What you MAY be encountering is space issues. Everyone, both genders, has their own preferences. PErhaps you are meeting men who need more space away from you. To them texting all the time would be an invasion. However don't take the advice to stop, instead take the oldest advice out there and be yourself. If they need so much space that you feel restrained then it will only get worse down the road. Weed them out and move on. One day you will find a man who shares your level of affection and will text you at night just to wish you sweet dreams.
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