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 firefighter46571
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 2
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WOW!,LOL.WELL TRY DIFFERANT POSITIONS,OR USE DIFFERANT THINGS
 gudtogo21
Joined: 5/13/2009
Msg: 4
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Posted: 5/16/2009 3:08:43 PM
Lack of arosal can be emotional.

Happens to men too.

Give it a rest, and go out and do something that really makes you feel happy and good about your self. Come back to it when your in really happy mood.

If you find you're in a constant state of boredom. That could be a chemical imbalance and there are medicines for that and a good therapist can help you identify what's going on.
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 5/16/2009 3:10:13 PM
The internet is full of this stuff. I'm sure you could find something to amuse your desires. There are all kinds of dildos with suction cups that attach anywhere you want them...use your imagination for the rest!
 Sepia777
Joined: 2/26/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 5/16/2009 3:22:24 PM
just get you one of those blow up boyfriends...when you're done with him just deflate him and store him under the bed....he wont flake, cheat, give you stds, flirt with your gfs, or recoil from commitment...

 miss_contemplative
Joined: 3/12/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2009 4:15:46 PM
If it were a guy who had started this thread, it would have been deleted in 5 seconds as attention seeking.

Double standards are so neat.
 XavienBlade
Joined: 5/9/2009
Msg: 8
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Posted: 5/16/2009 5:34:01 PM
Not getting my rocks off or making a joke about this like some guys might. However, I've heard rumors from some female friends. Try a little anal play. Good luck, as I know it can be frustrating when you're stuck alone and just need to rub one out. Starts to get dull.
 NerdStatus
Joined: 1/9/2007
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Posted: 5/16/2009 5:44:39 PM
This is officially my favorite thread of the day.

Ever try a vibrator on the clit, or just using it to penetrate? Ever try different lubes? My GF likes System Jo.
 Forumhobbit
Joined: 10/27/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 5/16/2009 5:50:48 PM
Maybe you can sit on the sub woofer and turn the bass up REAL loud.
 sunshineinbottle
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Posted: 5/16/2009 6:28:26 PM
OP ... My advice is slow down .... you may be feeling ... but your not feeling ... get it? It's your body use this **alone time** to your advantage. Get to know yourself.

BTW ... no vib?? Girl, go buy yourself a toy ... or two ... or three ... When you go to a virtual toy shop ... the rest is history. Have fun!! Stay satisfied.....
 FourUms
Joined: 3/17/2009
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Posted: 5/16/2009 6:35:34 PM
Hmmm... so is the problem that you're not getting off? Or are you just tired of the same old, same old?

You could get some appropriately shaped fruits or vegetables out of the fridge. Maybe do some laundry and sit on or rub up against the washer when it hits the spin cycle. Invest in a motorcycle. Find some erotica to read and get your juices flowing. Make a new friend on the internet - ask him what to do.
 sunshineinbottle
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Posted: 5/16/2009 6:46:59 PM
Sitting in a tub of hot water with a bucket of ice cubes ... Mmmmm!! The contrast between hot and cold I find very stimulating.

I can understand vegs I guess ... I'd stick a condom on them first ... never know what they are sprayed with. Good luck.
 AnglFlynToCloseToGround
Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2009 7:14:20 PM
A poster of Tim McGraw above the bed ... Some of his music playing ... A bottle of KY warming lotion ... Some nipple suckers from the adult store and one of those vibrators with beads and a cute lil tingling critter ... LOL ...
Just kidden I used to joke about that ...

Seriously when its so bad that you are going nuts just dont touch and calm down for a few days to "?" ... You are probly so fustrated that your not doing any good ...

I bet some guys are going to email you now ...

AnglFlyn

vvvvvvv .... Yeal try that OP ...
 moondowner
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 5/16/2009 7:36:06 PM
Try phone sex with someone who knows what he/she is doing
 LakeCountyGal
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 5/16/2009 8:35:06 PM
I'm not sure if you have one in your area, but there are some great sex shops out there that are more "classy", and cater more to women. Lover's Lane is one. They have a lot of different types of sex toys. Check one out and see if you find anything that suits your fancy. Nothing wrong with using a toy to enhance your pleasure. I'm not sure if Fredericks Of Hollywood carries any toys, but they have stores in various parts of the country too.

There are tons of online sex catalogs that cater more to women, as far as various types of sex toys. Adam & Eve is a porn company, but they feature many sex toys too.

Good luck!
 MistaPepperZ
Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 17
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Posted: 5/16/2009 8:38:52 PM
Any ideas for masturbation?

Well, I don't know you define as masturbation but you could try a sybian. It may be expensive but I hear it has an amazing amount of positive reviews no matter the model.
 ROCK YOU LIKE A HURRICANE
Joined: 3/13/2009
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/16/2009 8:50:27 PM
Keep going till your almost there then stop. Do this for about five cycles then finally allow your self to climax. After about two hours of denying yourself an orgasm you will be spurting like a water fall. Holding back the orgasm for a long time makes it more intense and it lasts longer. I'm sorry about your arm hurting. I have carple tunnle syndrome right now in my left wrist, arm and hand. So I know how it is. It sucks.
 kayliecat
Joined: 12/8/2007
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Posted: 5/16/2009 9:33:16 PM
Get a freakin' vibrator. A clit stimulator is wonderful!!!

Fingers just don't work if they are my own. Think about it - have you much success tickling yourself? Not as much as someone else. It's the same principle. YOur body knows it's you somehow.

You could wear a glove (then you have the friction of the fabric). YOu can rub pretty much anything against your clit - the handle of a spoon will work. Dip it in water so it's wet and a little cold. Someone once told me his ex-wife masturbated w/corn on the cob (I assume stripped of the leaves)...I thought Hmm that actually has potential. (No i've never tried it, I have a freakin' toy chest to pick from. lol)

But really, get online and buy a couple of vibes. Look for ones that take regular batteries- AA or C. I like www.sensualuniverse.com b/c they are part of cduniverse so the packages come from cduniverse. I've been very happy w/their service and products in the past. YOu can get some that are dildos (penis shape) that do or don't vibrate. Or just little clit stimulators to use on the outside. many are water proof as well. :)

This is a great time to really get to know your body and what sets you off. Toys are fun and there is NO shame in using them. Better than picking up a stranger at a bar. @@

Kaylie
 blue_gstring69
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 20
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:00:47 PM
well my oppinion is use the shower head on vibrate if u have one it works very well for me try it hope it works for u good luck
 freatlt
Joined: 12/3/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:10:28 PM
YOU gotta be friggin kiddin me , so all the moderators must be male LOL I totally agree with message # 9
 Byrd
Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:26:56 PM
The last time I started talkin about wacking the old pudd on here people started throwing up..I almost got the CDC called on me..I was called an old pervert and a few other choice words, yea no shit double standards I'm buying a FleshLight with my Stimulas...
 Reveal1K
Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:49:01 PM
Stick a finger up your bum.
 AnglFlynToCloseToGround
Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:13:53 PM
Msg 9 , 25 and 26 ... IF I ever see a forum that has men talking about how they get off I will vote no delete myself even tho the mods night delete it ...

I would find it to be very intertaining but then I am a perv ... ...


AnglFlyn
 Some random name
Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:50:59 PM
This is the internet right? How long would it take to find a sex site that appeals to you?
 64 รท 2 =
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 26
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:59:42 PM
Ive read before, that an electric toothbrush does wonders for more than your teeth.
 1eyebob
Joined: 8/11/2008
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Posted: 5/17/2009 12:20:28 AM
Hey! Honey!! I hear you. Go a read "the perfect date" It is in the creative writing forum on the second page. Here is the link: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12221870.aspx
It doesn't get real hot until the 3rd or 4th page but you'll like it. Guarantied!!
Bob

P.S. you have had some good suggestions. Vibrators, anal play, get a man involved at least online that might make it better too.
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