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 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Hand her a finger cot and tell her to go for it.
 spitfire6844
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Posted: 5/17/2009 9:43:32 AM
OP: tell her exactly what you've stated here--you read an article which stated that it was "both medically beneficial and damn exciting". Suggest to her that you'd like to try it.
 pleasurelimits
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Posted: 5/17/2009 10:46:01 AM
just have the gonads to bring it up next time your in your favourite store buying her a new vibe and say "how about we buy me one for the prostate" like small 'g' spot vibes they work a treat if your not homophobic. Have to be careful or she might lube up one of her **** ones and you will really feel it if she shoves it up your arse while blowing you
 TOMic bomb
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Posted: 5/17/2009 12:05:13 PM
once again for the record... COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING in a relationship. if you are having sex you should be communicating ALL of your wants and desires PLUS listening to her wants and desires then taking action to achieve these goals.
 ForumFilly
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Posted: 5/17/2009 3:02:30 PM
This is probably something you'd be more comfortable bringing up to a woman with whom you are in a relationship, as opposed to a casual sex partner. Tell her what you said here:
"I've read that prostate massage can be both medically beneficial and extremely sexually stimulating. I'd really like to see what it's like, if you'd be willing."

I find that massaging my man's prostate is extremely erotic for me as well. I LOVE seeing him get so excited. It heightens my passion too. He was slightly hesitant to bring the subject up but as soon as he began to mention it, I was totally on-board. Many women find it very exciting to arouse their men is such a way, but we can be hesitant to bring it up to the man, for fear of him getting angry and thinking that it isn't "manly"... in other words, thinking that if it relates to anything up a male rectum it automatically means 'GAY'. That couldn't be further from the truth. They are the men who are completely comfortable with their masculinity who will allow the depths of their sexuality to be plumbed (no pun intended!).
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 5/17/2009 3:16:40 PM
*performed this last night*

Yup. It's a good thing. *wink*

I've had several men just ask. Worse she can say is no. If she asks why (because she's never done it or heard about it) then explain you are curious and would like to try. Timing is everything... kind of like anal sex. If you do this following a bowel movement then the rectum should be fairly vacant of fecal matter. Otherwise consider rinsing with a bulb syringe and plain warm water, or a plain water enema first. Use lube, and really.. it's best if there is some barrier used like a finger cot, condom gloves. This will prevent any possible scratches from her finger nails. Remember to use lots of lube and you might need to reapply. Communication is important... you have to let her know if it's feeling good or bad and what you want her to do.

Relax.. enjoy... it will be a mind blowing experience for you.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/17/2009 11:40:22 PM
Unbeleiveable !!!
Well boys and girls ... just got back from a weekend in NYC with the most amazing woman. We had discussed this and the TRY THIS thread on many occasions and she had stated that she had never tried prostate massage. Without providing too many details (which wood be rude) she tried it. Due to her extreme INexperience the process was only fabulous! It was done fairly quickly which is an option of course - the slow torturous delayed style being the other one discussed here in numerous threads.

The result was a Heart beat that must have approached 300BPM, an absolutely delicious buildup sensation (which is the sensation which continues if you are doing the slow style) and when I came the sensation was agonizingly terrific. It felt like my spine was being sucked out it was THAT good. As described by others, it took me 10 to 15 minutes to be able to catch my breath and form intelligible words or sentences. She seemed pleased with her "handiwork" and I must say that her enthusiasm was THE major contributing factor.

I will state again for any noobies - this is easy for the woman to learn if she is eager to learn this technique. It really isn't complicated and it is also pretty damn easy for her to figure what feels good by your attempts not to thrash yourself to death in the process. I'm 56 and it was THE most intense series of spasms I have ever experienced during any orgasm at any point in my LIFE!!! It is SOOOO worth trying if you haven't. For those who have - both men and women (different perspectives) - they are simply nodding their heads reading this. "Yup, it's all that."
 newblue1970
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Posted: 5/18/2009 12:04:58 PM
SoulFood - a Google search will bring up LOTS of info on it. Find a willing partner and have fun!

OT - I love exploring and playing with every part of a womans body and therefore love when she recipricates. I've usually waited a while before bringing up this topic but every SO was thrilled to try it. I didnt wait as long with my last GF and she came up with 'isnt that gay', which was a tad disappointing since she was absolutely loving the attention I was giving to her behind.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/18/2009 4:23:44 PM
Hi SOULFOOD. I tried to IM you with this for reasons which may or may not be obvious to you however seeing as I'm in the Socialist Republic of Canuckistan I'm not "allowed" to talk to you. So ....


OK, so I'll be the one to ask: Can you shed some light where the light don't shine on how to give a "merely fabulous" , "slow style" , "agonizingly terrific" prostate message? You say it is easy to learn...


located here: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/11434985datingPostpage5.aspx

I just read you advice post on BJ's so I'm taking a wild guess here and making the assumption that you know of which you speak when it cums to BJ's.

The prostate massage incorporates a great deal of what you describe in your post (URL above) and the insertion of a digit into your victim's anal cavity. It shouldn't JUST be a poke and insert. The area is rife with nerve endings so some play there is allowed and encouraged too. As you progress the insertions go a little deeper and stay a little longer. It is all part of the buildup.

Once you go for the gold - the prostate - one needs to remember that it is a GLAND so it has to be treated much gentler than a guy pokes a G or A Spot. A gentle rub to begin with and even at the height of the stimulation it should be relatively steady - perhaps the same pressure you'd use to rub your eye. I recommend FINGERS over toys because you can feel where and how hard to poke or tap or rub with your finger. Using a toy is a guessing game and seeing as these are delicate tissues and membranes it is best to be extra careful not to tear them accidently. This would be a bad thang!!

OK, lots of buildup, lotsa teasing and now you have a finger inserted deep and you feel up toward the abdomen (if he's on his back) and feel for a spongy kind of soft walnut sized firmness. Once you feel that begin to rub - gently - up and down, side to side - whatever. Rub. Not too hard again. He will,unless he is dead or heavily medicated, begin to respond. For the guy it feels like the onset of a normal orgasm but deeper and whereas that pre orgasm feeling lasts a few seconds and then BoooM-SPlaaat-Mess this just continues. There is a thing that was done to me that felt a little weird and very very good. The digit was withdrawn occasionally and re-inserted. The way it was done though kind of reminded me of when I'm having intercourse and pull out for a second and then shove it back in to the hilt. There is a psyche aspect of this that says YOU'RE MINE. She knew where the gland was but the finger would come out for a sec and then slide .... FAST ... back in and begin again. Very erotic. Very .... POSSESSIVE. That was my feeling anyway ... on top of just feeling damn good!!

As you massage the prostate it will / should begin to leak seminal fluid. Sometimes rather vast amount so of seminal fluid - typically what appears (or feels like if he's leaking into your mouth ) the same as 3-4-5 orgasms worth. It happens slowly and each rub produces a VERY strong sensation of pre-cuming.
This can go on for a long time or you can continue the BJ and when he does actually orgasm it'll feel to him like his spine is being sucked out too. It is an emptying feeling that is so intense it is not unusual for the guy to flake for a few seconds - sort of like women around their 20th FAST G-Gasm!! Lights OUT!

The build up, as stated, can be a loooong time. Tie him down or have an understanding that he doesn't do ANYTHING while you're doing this. YOU are in charge of this and YOU will make him cum when YOU see fit. The loss of control that most guys have / feel even during a good BJ will evaporate and that's very cool for guys who aren't scared of letting their woman reciprocate in the sexual control dept. now and then.

The actual orgasm from a BJ or handjob during a prostate massage will be 3 to 5 times MORE intense than a regular BJ and about 10 times better than a HJ. It isn't something that needs to be done every night but knowing it is in her repertoire of tricks is awfully erotic. Any woman who knows this technique of course can vary it in many ways - fast, slow, v e r y s l o w, on his back, on his front bent over an arm rest, tied up, tied down, with the BJ or HJ or just play with the prostate until he feels he's about to pull a Chernobyl and melt right through the mattress. Your imagination is your only limit. Of course you have to find a guy who will endure this kind of abuse without the fear of it turning him gay . Many guys will think this anyway. Their loss.


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 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/19/2009 9:28:53 PM
Thanks Dave, it is a GLAND so it has to be treated much gentler than a guy pokes a G""

Now herein lies my concern---I think I'm afraid I might hurt him---It just seems so, well, delicate--what if you make a wrong move by mistake--will you tear him up for life or what? Over coffee, I said" "I am afraid I might hurt you" and he said "oh, hurt me baby hurt me." I think my fear is because I can't see anything there-- the other places I can see. Who knows what is lurking in the deepest darkest depths of doing the digit deed?

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Have you ever massaged his EYES for relaxation. Rub about that hard, DON'T have sharp or fake nails and you should be OK. When he starts to respond then you can go a tad firmer and gauge his reaction. If you are as firm as that you are NOT going to injure him. Sharp/long nails are THE most dangerous and of course he can't have a pre-existing condition that would react badly to a finger pokin.

""OK, lots of buildup, lotsa teasing and now you have a finger inserted deep and you feel up toward the abdomen (if he's on his back) and feel for a spongy kind of soft walnut sized firmness."""

Just how deep are we talking here Dave? Also, Is it a subtle difference or is it an obvious difference? i.e. Would I know right away I hit the spot or would it take some time to figure it out? Would I have to prod around for awhile or would it be an AHAA moment? And btw, do you realize by using the word "walnut" you have now given the bj poster a good reason to talk about "busting a nut". I don't want to bust a nut Dave.

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The Prostate is usually 3/4's of a finger's length inside so you reach past it and rub it with the meat of your finger - not the tip. Personally I have never felt my own prostate. I'm told it is quite distinct. Don't forget you're feeling THROUGH the rectal wall so ... like feeling for a nut using a rubber glove - which may be an idea if you don't want dirty fingies. A good hand wash is important afterward and don't forget where you are so don't freakout if you pull your finger out and there a bit of stuff attached. In all the years I have been sticking fingers and thumbs (and other things) in lady's rectums I have NEVER been covered in poo. I'm NOT into poo so that was a good thing.

Yeah, I can see this---Nothing says "you're mine" like having your finger anchored up his bum!!! For sure this would not be the time he would tell me how he saw some hot chick with a rack at work that afternoon. He'd be all mine, all right. Oh the possibilities...........

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It very much gave me the same feeling I now know women get when they are entered for the first time ... like setting a hook or something ... "UNghhh,(lunge) GOTCHA!!!" I like doing that and now I know how it feels too. NEAT!!!

"it'll feel to him like his spine is being sucked out "
Is this a good thing Dave?

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In this case a VERY good thing. Incredibly intense. Brain fried intense. Discombobbulatingly intense.


Thanks Dave! Very helpful. I know there is lots of info on the net about this, but I like the way you explain things in a real, non-clinical kind of way.

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I hope it helps. Actually there ISN'T a lot of good info on the web. Many sexperts are still arguing over whether the GSpot actually exists or not. Most of the relationship/sex books do mention GSpots but NO info on what to do when you find it so most couples treat it like the clit and of course NOTHING happens.

WAY too many guys think anything to do with their butt makes them gay so finding a guy who'll letcha play in there is fairly rare.

Re More on Prostate massage. There is a lot of good info and some interesting posts on the LIT site here:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657
It's called MILKING a MAN'SKOCK
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/20/2009 6:36:12 AM
Of all the little things a woman can do for a man this act does take some degree of open-mindedness. I suggest rubber gloves if there are issues of what might be found up there and end up on her finger. A good hand washing fixes that but many women (and men but the I'M NOT GAY issues is another story) do find the poop issues a bit much to get around.


I suggest that there are only 2 kinds of woman that would do this to a man... the first being the one that truly loves you and wants to be inside every part of you and experience everything with you,


For the guy, the results are tremendous and if she is with a guy who makes every effort to make her pleasure his goal when they make love then returning the favor is done with a sense of adventure and carried by the love for her man and wanting to blow his socks off too.

As far as your Pt2, I wouldn't TRUST a hooker to do this to me even if I used them. Sorry. I want somebody who cares about my membranes ... not just how long this is taking and what she's making an hour!!
 whytwater
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Posted: 5/20/2009 8:23:08 AM

WAY too many guys think anything to do with their butt makes them gay so finding a guy who'll letcha play in there is fairly rare.


Thought my way through that brown paper bag quite a while ago, but nobody was waiting, or willing, once I got free.


Who knows what is lurking in the deepest darkest depths of doing the digit deed?


Even not-so-great minds (speaking for self here) can think alike. Have not managed to make this act a reality, other than during some routine physicals in a doctor's office (and they asked whether I would be more comfortable with a male doctor-HA!!), but they're quick, waaayy to quick, one blink and done. Guess those medical pros understand the ramifications of dallying too long. Lol

I have read oodles of posts, articles and more explaining that there is pleasure, much pleasure, even special, extraordinary intense pleasure, to be had from this experience. Sooo, there are two lines at the sex disbursement counter. For one, with the counter sign that says "The usual good stuff", the wait line is out the door and down the block. For the other, with the sign for "Special, Extraordinary Intense Stuff", there seems to be no waiting.
I'm a busy man. Intrepid, in my way. And I'm gonna hit the extraordinary, if unusual, immediate line, whenever the counter is open for business.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/20/2009 4:06:26 PM
Dude, you asked. Not that it was an original post or question. There are about a dozen in here already. But as you can see (above) people are still going "Prostate?? WTF is that?" men AND women and then there are all the ""I'M NOT GAY I'M NOT!I'M NOT!I'M NOT!I'M NOT!I'M NOT!"" posts form the guys who are scared of anybody thinking that because a woman touched or wanted to touch they beeehinnies.

Oh terrible deeds.


Sorry, but even though this sounds like a very stimulating feeling, how does one bring up the issue?
I wish I had never EVER started this thread.


So while there is ignorance in these threads it is my DUTY to inform and share tell ya'll that

""FAWK IT WAS GOOOOD!!! "" and SHE was pleased at the reaction to (no. I'M NOT!)
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/21/2009 2:02:20 AM
The PLEASURE benefits are nuffin to sneeze at either BUTT massaging the prostate on a regular basis seems to have a very healthy effect in itself.

The prostate surrounds the male urethra and is made up of wee sacs with "pores" or channels where the prostatic fluid enters the urethra and is the bulk of the fluid ejected during a male orgasm. As we age and most of us sit on our a$$e$$ way too much, the pores get clogged and the fluid builds up, sits there and kinda stagnates. The result over time is a high probability of cancer setting in. Massage the prostate to open those pores and keep the fluid moving through the gland and you eliminate much of the danger of prostate cancer. Stats showing men with jobs or pass-times where the prostate is massaged or exercised constantly have a very low incidence of prostate cancer.

BTW and for your INFO the other MAJOR factor seems to be a low intake of IODINE in the western diet. Japanese motorcycle cops ferinstance (diet of seaweed - LOTSA iodine and constant vibration through their m/c seat) have virtually ZERO prostate cancer. A North American office worker has about a one in three chance of prostate cancer by the time he's 60. The stats are VERY bad here in North America so it is up to you ladies to fix this.


Although I understand why people may want to make light of this, it seems as though the health benefits to our men are immeasurable.


Hey, thanks for acknowledging that. I was 48 when I stumbled on where and HOW the GSPOT works. Some discover it when they are much younger but when I was much younger there was practically NO info on the subject. Over all there is still abysmally little info out there on GSpots let alone prostate massage so don't feel bad for not knowing. Think of the women who think sites like this and the HOW TO threads (LINKS BELOW) to GSPOT and PROSTATE info is offered and discussed. Now there is so there is less excuse for guys not educating themselves about the female form and where her LAUNCH CONTROL - the big RED button is located. Of course one has to come up with a hole ( ) new set of excuses why WOMEN don't know about this or even more interestingly, why some of the most vicious naysayers when it comes to people like me trying to simply share the info with people who haven't found it for themselves yet ARE women.



I actually feel bad not knowing about this until now and intend to talk to as many women about it as I can.


I find it strange that WOMEN don't take the time to learn. I find it strange that women who have never orgasmed in 35 YEARS of marriage get so mad at me for providing this info. Some of the most interesting posts on the TRY THIS thread and notes and emails as a result of that thread are from women who thought they knew it ALL, that NO MAN could possibly know something about their body that they somehow were not aware of themselves. It is FUN to have one's eyes opened to some of the possibilities that we do NOT know inherently. The research however is a reward in itself not to mention the pleasure this new knowledge can impart on a lover. Keep up the research.


I find it strange that I have wondered why men don't take the time to learn about a woman's body and then, when I least expect it, my own eyes get opened.


TWO of THE best links on the NET for this and further "research".

GSPOT THREAD
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892

Milking Thread (prostate)
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657


 sailor-
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Posted: 5/21/2009 4:31:19 AM
verry well said there dave ! as mentioned the health thing about the prostate!men do need a good massage ,perhaps 1 day there will be a clinic to get things um taken care of .till then some women will continue to snicker ,or turn there nose up in discust ahh life is a learning curve ..
 whytwater
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Posted: 5/21/2009 5:33:34 PM

Btw, Dave, I found a "rubber glove" in my nightstand drawer last night---is that weird or what? I'm not kidding.


LMAO!!!! Maybe you haven't noticed, but Dave gets around. Kinda like Santa. He's everywhere, if you believe.
 whytwater
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Posted: 5/21/2009 8:00:25 PM

Hey, I've got a glove.


Yeah, Dave's glove!!!! LMAO!! But, he left it so it's yours to play with. Ownership is such a slippery concept.

Just couldn't let your glove mention go unnoticed. Humor/wit turns me on, and you kinda buried it in the corner, right at the end.
Besides, my heart lies with your approach- chuckles sell twenty times to somber's one.
 DAVE632
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Why all the smurfin? Why all the fuss? Because a HUGE % of the male population is so homophobic ... no maybe that's the wrong term. Many are not phobic as in hating or fearing gays but somehow in their relations being mistaken for being gay or having gay tendencies. I guess THE biggest fear factor going along those lines is the association between gay "stuff" and BUTTS. To me the difference is plain, clear and irrefutable. If you WANT the person playing around your BUTT to have a penis you are gay or at least Bi. If you WANT and are turned on by a person who does NOT have a penis (but has a lovely place to put one - amazing how that all works out isn't it? ) and breasts then you are straight. Questions? Good. Get over it. If it turns you on - DO IT. Explore. If it turns you OFF then leave the area alone. Choices.



What I don't understand is all the smurfin about it. ..... why all the fuss?


So you now KNOW that ALL guys have 9 or 10 inch di¢ks. Cool, huh? MOST women are more than happy that only 5 - 6 or 7 inches protrude!



Had I not educated myself I would never have known that over one third of a mans penis is buried inside his body and that the prostate is a walnut sized gland located at the internal root of the penis.


I'm sorry. I shoulda knocked. It's kinda like the tooth fairey thing, OK? I hope you putt () it to good use . Actually even if you're not explore where no man (hopefully) has gone before *theme music* using rubber gloves can be very erotic all by themselves. Silky smooth feeling from both sides of the rubber. OH and make sure neither of you has a rubber alergy - especially if you're planning on going inside.



Btw, Dave, I found a "rubber glove" in my nightstand drawer last night---is that weird or what? I'm not kidding.


Boy O Boy they sure are that. Some of the notes I get makes angry seem mild. They are LIVID!! AT ME. You'd think they be p!ssed at the moron they were married to for that long and never even found their cl!t let alone their G or A Spots. Nope. MOI!!!



Dave, I don't think they aren't really mad at you-------I think they are angry ....


As soulfoodwanted well knows. If you believe. Yes. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can, I think I can
Chooo Chooooo tooot!



Maybe you haven't noticed, but Dave gets around. Kinda like Santa. He's everywhere, if you believe.


You THOUGHT it was just a dream. And with a HI HO SILVER and a ON DANCER ON PRANCER etc back to the Socialist Republic of Canuckistan I did beeetle. Missed your Greek Fest too. DAMN.



I did have a dream that somebody's fingers were twiddling my gspot...........hmmm)


Ladies. Behave. Have gloves will travel. Get on with your RESEARCH. LIVES are at stake. No finger pointing ... just finger burying, OK? OK!!!



your posts sound like you are trying to make yourself out to be more saintly than everyone else.


AMen to that!!


chuckles sell twenty times to somber's one
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/21/2009 10:07:58 PM
AWKWARD? Why IZthat?


This subject IS rather awkward and has an edge to it---glands and anuses and such.


Glands and nads and anuses and ring around the fingie ...

WHAT? Nobody has YET (trust .... ME) to mention gaseous expulsions and the methane emmissions from a trillion tiny organISMS. *sniff sniff*

Ok so this can be time of the month sex BUTT ( ) wurst! ( )

Fact is it can be extremely healthy for the male if done carefully and as a sexual enhancement it can blow yo socks right off. ANY woman who enjoys maximizing her lovers experiences whilst making love is needing to know this stuff and hopefully can get her mind around (or under) some of the "crappier" aspects of the exercise. It really is worth knowing and practicing. Again, there is no ONE thing that everybody is going to enjoy or enjoy ALL the time. ALL this information - the G & A Spots, how to keep the clit sensitive and firing, prostate massage - they are ALL just ways to make our journey that much more enjoyable and show our lovers that we do care and that we have taken the time to learn how to make things BETTER when we climb between the sheets (or hit EMERGENCY STOP in the elevator - wherever) with an evil look and intent to blow his/her mind!!!!
 whytwater
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Posted: 5/21/2009 10:38:29 PM

Because a HUGE % of the male population is so homophobic ... no maybe that's the wrong term. Many are not phobic as in hating or fearing gays but somehow in their relations being mistaken for being gay or having gay tendencies. I guess THE biggest fear factor going along those lines is the association between gay "stuff" and BUTTS. To me the difference is plain, clear and irrefutable.


The fear inside men of the gayness which may emanate from them is oft-discussed, frequently scoffed, certainly belittled, but the greater mischief, imo, is wrought by the many women, maybe even the majority of them, who, with a not-so-cute "ewwwww", back away, through any exit, from a man who expresses interest in being done anally. I have seen it on these threads, though it is somewhat muted by the loud applause of a few women pofers for the sexual awareness of the rare candid male who professes his interest, or known pleasure, in play with his ass. And I have seen or sensed it in real life. With a large, and disapproving, group of potential mates, the male who, in a bolder moment, opens himself and his partner to the possibility of some form of role reversal is too often squelched by "ewwwing" ewes, who want none of that, for him, or themselves (probably skipping ahead to the realization that the pegging of him will most probably lead to his taking of her ass). It's as if, then, that everyone has a veto, the exercise of just one of which will kill not only the act but the fledgling self-realizing thought itself. In other words, through the gospel of Dave or otherwise, when a man steps toward the taboo, and reaches for his partner, the woman not only declines that day, but preempts his subsequently repeating the suggestion to experiment. To be called something akin to gay by a male is bad enough, probably even fighting words; to be considered gay by a woman, especially an intimate partner, is unthinkable for almost any but the most resilient of hetero male egos (most of which are labeled alternately over-large or fragile by women). I wonder whether women realize that they possess this sort of power. I have much respect for the full quivers with which all women seem equipped, and their formidable powers, some of which are magical indeed, and have no wish to be shot by one.
And so, Prophet Dave, while the difference to you may be plain, clear and irrefutable, your message among the masses seems garbled, and the lines too blurred or murky for either most men OR women to make out. jmho
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/22/2009 3:39:43 PM
Have a CANDLE burning nearby and keep your eyes tightly closed and you should be OK.


Like does it come out when he is milking? Is it like a series of small emissions or is it like one big explulsion? I need to feel prepared, LMAO oh gosh


Serially , it is best to check with the "victim" as to the state of his lower GI. If all is regular proceed as directed. If he's complaining of a touch of cholera then I'd back off for a few days. If ya follow.

As IO stated earlier. I have been delving into dark places for I dunno how many decades and have never so much as been sullied by dark matter. Never. Always washed well afterward but ... nope never happened so you'll be fine, I'm sure.



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Posted: 5/22/2009 4:41:26 PM
must say dave your entire prostate messages are well done. if some of the ahem ,adult people here cannot see .the well need for a man to have his prostate ? cleaned out so be it vic
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/23/2009 2:48:36 PM
Are we asking about FLUIDS or gas?? Lets, for the moment assume all is stable at the bottom.


Like does it come out when he is milking? Is it like a series of small emissions or is it like one big explulsion? I need to feel prepared ...


If this is done quickly the with the orgasm cuming soon the build up feeling that men get just prior to orgasm will last until the orgasm. The orgasm itself at that point will be much much more intense and the amount of seminal fluid released will be much more. How much more is very much a matter of who you're working on, age, etc etc

If you stretch the procedure out over say a period of a half hour or so the prostate will begin ooozing and the pre-cum fluids (usually clear to slightly milky and normally with very little taste) will pour out - again in quantities dependent on the guys physiology.

Don't forget that this gland SURROUNDS the urethra so you can effectively massage 180º of the entire gland. Don't JUST do the back. Work on both sides as well as what feels like the area closest to you. You can not reach the other side (unless you have a BLADE but lets not go there) so concentrate on what you can reach and rub, poke, prod, grate, slide, tap .... up and down - side to side - 'round and round. The more you manipulate the more fluid will be forced through the pores and into the urethra and muscle contractions (and there'll be a LOT of those) will shove it out.

The amount of fluid, as stated, will vary widely but for most people it is a surprisingly large amount. Each and every time fluid is forced out will result in an intense feeling of pre - orgasm but that will continue until he actually does orgasm.

SO what you're pushing out is just a lot of pre-cum / seminal fluid and it ooozes. It only shoots when he has his final orgasmic muscle contractions and ya ... that can feel, if accompanied by a good BJ, like his spine is leaving his body too. This is AS CLOSE as you can get to returning the favor if he knows where your GSpot is.

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How does the saying go? Nobody is blinder than one who chooses not to see.

Strange you say it that way, Whyt. Most of the emails and notes I get here and on the TRY THIS or the MILKING thread thank me for posting some of the most concise and easy to follow set of instructions out there. I'm sorry you find me so garbled.


Prophet Dave, while the difference to you may be plain, clear and irrefutable, your message among the masses seems garbled, and the lines too blurred or murky for either most men OR women to make out. jmho
 whytwater
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Posted: 5/23/2009 3:52:36 PM

I'm sorry you find me so garbled.


Seems it is my message that is garbled. Yours is quite clear to me, and applauded, but I do not often see it understood or applied by others, and it was their receptors to which I was referring in my last post.
The handful of women to whom I have suggested prostate massage, or more, have unanimously "eewwwed", as ewes are wont to do, and one or two candidly question my masculinity and sexual preference. It is precisely that sort of reaction that most powerfully suppresses any urges or interest in anal play involving his ass that he may have, and he will forever after, probably, speak no more forever of it.
That some women in this thread, and some others, have appeared to warm to what you say is encouraging. I hope they follow through, then spread the word.
Sorry for the misunderstanding, my friend. There was sincerity, not sarcasm, in my use of the "Prophet" epithet.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/23/2009 9:28:01 PM
Ahhh, undedrstood. Thanks for the clarification. What we read sometimes into an innocent post, huh?

The prostate massage is but one of many threads and topics that get the ewes eewing. I've had some GREAT PM and posts from the MILKING (prostate) thread as well as the TRY THIS thread. I've also received some really nasty ones and it's left little wonder in my mind WHY so many people are alone and miserable.

One of the things that drives me to spend a little too much time in here and the TRY THIS thread over on LIT is the level of awakening so many women in their late 30's, 40's and UP seem to experience when their first looong term relationship dies. They come out of their shell, read posts by old farts like us who have stumbled on some of the wonders that they haven't - yet - and it opens their eyes, their imaginations and by the sounds of the enthusiastic cheers, some otherwise UNexploried orifices too.


I know this doesn't have anything to do with prostate but I've also received PMs from women who were contemplating suicide before they read some of the posts on SQUIRTING. They had no idea it wasn't urine. Their partners thought it was urine and despite thoroughly ENJOYING sex and being relaxed with a new lover they had peed - yet again and been left in the dust by a guy who also didn't have a clue. Circumstances were such that they couldn't seek medical attention or get surgery so thinking their lives were ruined they were SO down on themselves that suicide seemed a viable option. Having read my posts and others they suddenly realized this was NOT urine, they weren't weird and all they had to do was find a guy who knew (or would listen) to the truth.

It is an awesome feeling to save a life (or just sanity or peace of mind) or two just from the words one writes. It is equally gratifying to impart a bit of info and have the kind of feedback I've had. I was LUCKY, stumbled on this late enough in life that I regret there was NO MR.G when I was in my 20's 0r 30's yet soon enough that my Sue enjoyed the benefits for almost 2 years before she died. I KNOW the pleasure she received and how she craved those feelings EVERY night - knowing it wasn't just her orgasming over and over but how much I got off on being able to do that to / for her. Add the info on the Prostate Massage to the general info pool out there and I kknow there are many many couples who have ramped UP their sex lives BECAUSE of what WE post in here and in other informative threads. When you think of all those couples who for the first time in their relationships are going, "Hey, wanna try this (or that) tonight." And knowing the response many times is, "NO Hon. Lets not wait for tonight. Let's do that NOW!!!



Seems it is my message that is garbled. Yours is quite clear to me, and applauded, but I do not often see it understood or applied by others, and it was their receptors to which I was referring in my last post.
The handful of women to whom I have suggested prostate massage, or more, have unanimously "eewwwed", as ewes are wont to do, and one or two candidly question my masculinity and sexual preference. .....Sorry for the misunderstanding, my friend. There was sincerity, not sarcasm, in my use of the "Prophet" epithet.


Sorry I assumed. It didn't "sound" like you but in here if it isn't poison pen it IS usually sarcasm. Not that I would ever stoop to sarcasm in here. No NO NO!!!



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