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 Greyfeld
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 13Barmor
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Posted: 5/23/2009 3:28:29 AM
There is no set rule. All relationships are different. You should make this decision based on your emotional connection, not a number of dates. I've had one relationship where I dated a girl for almost 2 months before we slept together. Another relationship, we did the deed after 4 dates covering a timeframe of roughly a week and a half. It all depends on the level of trust between the two involved.
Now this is just my opinion, but a girl who puts out on a first date is a bit of a skank. How much self-respect can a woman really have if she trivializes sex in such a way.
Thats my basic philosophy on the pursuit of sex with someone I date. Kissing however is completly different. There is a rule for this one. I always attempt a kiss on date number 3. Otherwise you run the risk of being put on the "friend list". Once you are friendlisted, you are pretty much stuck there.
 DocElffington
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Posted: 5/23/2009 3:37:52 AM
Here's the rule:
If I'm into her and I can get into her pants. I'm going to as soon as possible.







So........to answer your question. 1st date.
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