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 taltos101
Joined: 4/4/2009
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Ok. I definitely need to move to Ireland :P For me sex is an extension of the relationship and much more enjoyable with someone who knows you at an intimate level. I will admit in my teens and college years, just having sex was a priority. Of course nothing compares to being with a woman you love who is on the same level of sexual maturity....growrrrr!

Cheers!

Patrick
 thumperitis
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 5
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Posted: 6/6/2009 10:03:47 PM
I believe there is a difference between sex and making love. I had believed that all men felt sex was just sex and women felt a deeper meaning...."making love". Now I believe, people, whether it may be a man or a woman, have different beliefs and it may depend on the stage or chapter of their lifes. My truth....Sex is great when you are single. But making love is more meaningful with someone you love. Just one womans experience and point of view?
 hungry_joe
Joined: 6/24/2006
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 6/7/2009 5:54:27 PM
Causal sex becomes shallow and meaningless after awhile. I cannot speak for anyone else, but I'd like to have the rest, that should come with sex. You know a person to share your thoughts, abmitions, dreams with. A person to great you when you come home from work. A helpmate, and a playmate. It makes life fuller and sex better.
 taltos101
Joined: 4/4/2009
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 6/8/2009 1:41:01 AM
This statistic is utter shite, because there is no context. Ask anyone a simple question of, "Do you like sex?". What kind of statistic do you really expect? Seriously, I don't know anyone who has no desire for it. They may reserve themself on some level, however, the reality is we are all hardwired for procreation.
 vanililly
Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 8
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Posted: 6/20/2009 9:38:29 AM
You've misheard.

The statistic is "9 out of 10 WOMEN just want REALLY GOOD sex ... with the same fantastic monogamous male long term partner.. night after night"

I am one of those 9.
 DigitalDreams
Joined: 8/13/2007
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 6/23/2009 10:52:02 PM
I've been without a relationship for about 4 years now (by choice), and I'm only 27. I enjoy "sex" very much, but I think it is over-rated compared to a bond a man and a woman can share. "Sex" I believe is the benefit of a committed relationship. Unfortunately can also be abused as an addiction, however can be controlled as such.
 SimplyKendra
Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/27/2009 12:51:56 AM
Dear lord, I hope not!!

Personally, I want something above and beyond that. Any concious being is capable of mindlessly screwing something, but the promise of love is what we all seek in truth..otherwise we wouldn't be here we would be on some other fling website or something.
 taltos101
Joined: 4/4/2009
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 6/28/2009 9:31:32 PM
VaniLilly...the original post didn't site the source used as a basis for the question. If you know the url of the statistic, could you please post. Adding "really good sex" does define at least some context.

Cheers!
 taltos101
Joined: 4/4/2009
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Posted: 6/28/2009 9:40:07 PM
I agree with both you and sloaneranger62. There is meaningless sex (just pure animal inhibition) and meaningful sex (an extension of the relationship...no pun intended). I think most people here are looking for the later, though there will always be that small percentage that seeks the former (tongue firmly in cheek).

Cheers!
 14u2c4u
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 7/5/2009 11:15:53 AM
Sex is a natural element of the human body. But like anything it can be hazardous (diseases) at times. Life is merely nothing but choices. For every action is a reaction so unless your in a committed,monogamous relationship your taking a chance and thats a choice you make. Unfortunately you may have to live with that choice to your own demise.
 ger28
Joined: 6/30/2009
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Posted: 7/6/2009 7:14:46 PM
must comment i know how you feel and that its not just the people you know its the medi,tv and everything around us that says that its supposingly not normal.......to be honset what is normal now?do they know or do they follow sheep
 MzHunnyPot
Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 20
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Posted: 7/11/2009 7:05:16 AM
That's where the use of condoms needs to be enforced, although it's not 100% effective against diseases, it's better than nothing. Just remember, when you have sex with someone, you're also having sex with the others they've been with, and so on.....
(and I really do enjoy sex)
 New_Orleans
Joined: 6/8/2008
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 7/14/2009 11:18:20 AM
I like your answer...if there is no connection...then it is pretty devoid of any meaning on an emotional level. However....sometimes the physical aspect is just like filling an empty stomach...simply, filling the void. Then, it is only a temporary fix.
 Irishcarebear
Joined: 4/30/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 6/25/2011 3:50:58 PM
I agree with you, but I am finding it very difficult to find a guy on this site who is looking for something deep and meaningful. They all seem to be just looking for sex no matter what age they are.
 Irishcarebear
Joined: 4/30/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 6/25/2011 3:54:00 PM
same here a good honest relaitionship would be great to find
 EMunchy2010
Joined: 8/23/2010
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/2/2011 8:30:33 AM
I think the ration between PPL who JUST want sex is lower, much lower. I don't believe NOONE cares about sex and if you don't, you must be from outer-space. I believe there's seven out of ten people would care more about a serious relationship and/or leading into a long-term relationship but still consider casual sex or want a meaningful sex life with their partner.

That's just numbers and more more women are looking for casual sex rather than men so it's really hard to keep up.

IMO, women are really looking but at the same time NOT looking ... because of seriousness of the game.
 wildandfreee
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/24/2011 8:13:28 PM
thenewlife - your post is awesome and dont even want to go through other posts
 mercyworks
Joined: 5/22/2010
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 9/15/2011 8:03:24 PM
I for one believe that of the majority of the people on this site but there is always that one person who really wants a relationship.
 HappyRocker
Joined: 8/13/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 9/16/2011 5:00:10 AM
I want it ALLLLLlllllll ... I want it shallow, I want it deep ... errrrr I take that back, I don't want it deep like you're thinking. I'll settle for shallow.
 susanh1955
Joined: 4/29/2010
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 12/31/2011 2:35:44 PM
i think 9 out of 10 MEN just want sex...i think women need something more...and then sex!!!
 johnniefrank60
Joined: 8/20/2011
Msg: 44
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Posted: 2/9/2012 5:34:13 AM
Sex is the driving force of the world. For someone like me who gets nothing at home, been married for 35 years and sex is not an option for her, finding friends with benefits has been a god send. I am very happy and in love with my wife but need what she can not give.I am sure there are many men and women out here that have the same problem so yes I believe a site like this gives us a place to find what we need. Thank god for free sites.
 Autumnlover58
Joined: 7/7/2010
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/11/2012 8:36:50 AM
BitsNTackle has hit the nail on the head!! Couldn't have said it better.
 ChancesRMD
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 56
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Posted: 3/10/2012 3:21:23 PM
It may be more like 9 out of 10 people want the dream relationship, but are willing to settle for just sex.

Otherwise, people would rarely be having sex.
 ControlledFolly
Joined: 2/17/2011
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Posted: 3/13/2012 6:02:48 AM
This is one of those areas that is too easy to generalise but all of us have our own interpretation.

No where is the gender divide more obvious than sex and the motives for it. Speaking personally i am able to seperate sex for emotion, but that doesnt mean i prefer sex just for the sake of it.

Finding meaningless sex is so easy its not funny, and thats fine up to a point, but there always comes a time when the emotions have a need to be fulfiilled too. Over all i think men are much better than women at seperating the two.

Also i guess hormones play their role very differently too although i am no scientist just observant.
 allgrl
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 61
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 6/21/2012 8:58:57 AM
Put on your profile, if you a fishing for sex, move on.
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