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 yourpleasure33
Joined: 4/28/2009
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Probably for the same reason, I find it so stimulating to go down on a woman. Seeing the reaction that my tongue brings to a woman is exciting. Love it!!!
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 11:08:18 AM
Pleasing someone to the point of release, can and does, turn on others, and sexually stimulates them.......

Nothing right or wrong about it, but it is only fair that if you do not like to give head, let the poor man know that you will not be doing that often if ever, and think about how you would feel if a man told you that he would never go down on you either.......

The human body is a very sexy thing, and if with another that turns you on, there should be little or no limits to what you would do to please them, enjoy them, and have them enjoy you.

Just my opinion.......
 e*Musing
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 6
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:34:17 PM
For a period of time they get the pleasure of knowing they are in control of his pleasure...and for some strange reason, many people like helping a partner achieve the heights of ectasy.

Blowjobs are an incredibly intimate and erotic way to accomplish this...whether it be between his legs (only he is getting satisfied), T-boned off to the side (gotta love the ability to caress and play with her erogenous zones, or 69 (where we get to be fully involved with reciprocating at the exact same moment).

Whether you consider it pleasuring, being in control, or simply fulfilling his need to be adored, it's good. When isn't it good?

But when through your timing, reactions, reluctance, etc., that you communicate that you're not having fun...I'll lose a hard-on and a bedmate in an instant if I feel she's faking enjoying herself.

 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 7
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:50:42 PM
The same reason that guys get stimulated performing oral sex on a woman. It's arousing psychologically. Not all arousal comes from physical stimulation. Why do people get aroused when just thinking about sex?
 badmember
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 8
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:00:22 PM
it's just another way of expressing one's sexuality and giving pleasure weather you're a man or a woman? you make it sound like giving oral pleasure is a bad thing?.............johnny.
 ImAHotMess
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 9
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:17:26 PM
Sometimes it is more stimulating for me. Hell, it is better than sex sometimes if you know what you are doing. Why do I like it? Hard to explain it 100%, but I just do. I don't need an explanation. Just something about it that makes me say Hmmmmm :)
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 2:20:31 PM
Don't think it's odd at all. Porn is a no-touch situation, and it's stimulating, no? How much *more* so giving head, lol!? More than a few times in my life I've nearly come just giving. . . . Sometimes, can nearly do so across the room (from the right guy. . . )(and no hands on anywhere. . . .). Heck I got turned on watching the penguins in The March of the Penguins making love. In fact, I 'spect I got more fun from it than they did.

Whoever said that the brain is our biggest (and best) sexual organ got *that* right.

 NoQuarterGiven
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:11:23 PM
Why do breasts turn men on? Why does a nice butt turn women on? It's just what makes us men and women. No rhyme or reason, just instinct.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:18:50 PM

So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?

(And don't tell me they don't!)

Not all women do. Tsk tsk.. shouldn't generalize like that.


they like to being submissive.
/thread.

Not all women (or men for that matter) view giving head to be an act of submission. I certainly don't.

As for why I find it stimulating.. I'm not sure. It's definitely a power trip for me. Knowing that what I'm doing it pleasing him... knowing that (in most cases) he will be orgasming because of it... oh yeah... it's a highly arousing thing.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:43:03 PM
Yep, it's all about having the power and control of your partners pleasure!
and personally, I just love penises!!
and it brings me immense pleasure to make love to a penis with my mouth
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:59:03 PM
Anyone pleasing their partner in such an exciting way should feel turned on as far as I'm concerned! There is nothing finer than knowing you are making them feel 'spectacular'! Makes me hot!
 MsMicki
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 7:23:25 PM
Not sure I have the same opinion of "dominating" as gigglemepink!!

I feel "dominant" because I control his pleasure....and his orgasm.....
Not because I know I can hurt him.
 l8bloomer
Joined: 5/15/2009
Msg: 28
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 8:47:39 PM
I think the bigger question might be how many times did it take you to figure out it was arousing? Did you get the right encouragment, was it from mass media? did your girlfriends tell you it was the right thing to do? obviously sometimes things don't go quite right, did you give up after the first time?
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:05:23 AM
A woman that knows what she is doing orally can control about anything she wants to dealing with her man, just as a man that knows how to make love and please his woman will have her attention and desire, much more then she ever realized......

And here I thought women already ruled the world, just let men think that they did...... Giving head is one thing, but knowing how to do it well, and enthusiastically, is totally different, and trust me, most of us know the difference.

Just like getting laid is wonderful, but getting laid by someone that is awesome at it, and you enjoy from head to foot, can and does make all the difference in the world about your attitude and desire for that act and person.

What becomes very difficult is when you really care about someone, love them, desire them, etc., and they are not very good in bed, or not as enthusiastic about it, as you are, and teaching them just does not bring them around because it just is not in their makeup to be that way, and you sit there wondering what to do.

If one has above normal desires, needs, and abilities in bed, but their partner does not, it can be a significant dilemma for all involved, especially when you care so much for them and all their other good qualities.

Just my opinion.........
 mascot1
Joined: 5/3/2008
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:52:26 AM
It's About Winning!!!! hahaha, plus ya the giving pleasure to some one you care about, yadda yadda.
 HSJS
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 39
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 10:16:24 AM

If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?

(And don't tell me they don't!)


OP you seem a bit cynical about fellatio. Maybe you do not have a concept of what eroticism is or means. Many sexual people are very aroused, not only by receiving pleasure, but also by giving pleasure. Many times giving pleasure can evoke a torrent of sexual excitation, as much as receiving pleasure can.

Remember the Christmas admonition, and apply it to the giving of sexual plasure; “It is better to give than it is to receive."
 packleader
Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 42
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:10:52 PM
I have known women that get off with nothing but a lollypop in their mouth...thats how much that they are into it.I have given this considerable thought and have come to the realization that women are not as unlike as we would put forward.We all share the fact that we are sexual beings and male and female alike want the best sexual experiance for our respective partners. "IT IS PLEASING TO PLEASE".........Turn the tables and the man in most cases wants to please his woman in the same fashion....I know I do.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:05:26 AM
I have been told its because of the power they have,they can get the man to do anything they want
 ohio07
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 45
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:09:08 AM
Dammitt (45) I thought my GF was the only woman who felt like/does this! I can vouch for your statement and have had this totally awesome experience. And as for guys not going for the next round... I certainly haven't had any trouble getting going after I climax through oral. Once I get started, I tend to get going. And going... And going... Sometimes the dry O's are even more intense than when I'm shooting buckets. I shake like a leaf, moan like crazy, and my voice gets just a little higher. And it totally turns her on. Knowing she can get me there.

You actually feel good when you get your lover off. Your satisfied that they are satisfied and that in itself is enough. And you don't even need them to reciprocate, although they always do.

Recently I even learned that I could have extended O's during sex, and that's after I already got great head to start. If she moves a muscle after I cum, I shoot off again, and again, and again. She just loves it. It's like she's controlling my O and extending it, it's a complete turn on, and I'm beyond ecstasy....

And man does she get wet. Jee-zus! All I have to do is feel her after she's blown me, and she's dripping wet... So this get's me going and I need to have her for another round. Definitely one person's pleasure can create the other's. Especially if you are in a legitimate caring and loving relationship. This kinda stuff beats all of the meaningless casual sex I ever had.

You just don't get to this level of trust and intamicy in a one nighter. It's entirely differen't when you can learn to push somebody else's buttons and take them over the edge; and do things they've never done or tried before. Being able to trust somebody enough to surrender to them totally, and be in the moment, makes for some DAMN HOTT and very pleasureable sexual experiences!!! How can you ever tire of THAT!?!
 wayfarer4you
Joined: 3/24/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/12/2009 4:46:06 PM
it just could be that this is the one time in there life that ,they are in total control ?and maybe just maybe they enjoy it ??? why ask why ,just do it !!!!
 husky35
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 52
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/19/2009 11:32:30 AM
hey babe,

if you lived closer to me, and you had already sucked me and
got me off, i would not sleep that night untill you was pleased babe,
i get excited just knowing i'm pleasing the woman i'm with.
as much as you like sucking , i love eating.
so bring it on sexy. lol

Husky
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 53
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/8/2010 3:12:21 PM
Nope. It's an act of control.
 breeheel
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 58
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/8/2010 5:18:46 PM
Because they like hearing me whimper with pleasure, feel me grown in their mouth, hear me beg them not to stop, feel the passion in my hips as i try and hold back orgasm, feel my whole body shake as i feel me completely satiated after I cum, ask her to save a taste for me if Ive cum in her mouth, kiss her hungrily and taste my own cum as she kisses me, And most of all ;) reciprocate
 HoldingHands27
Joined: 12/16/2009
Msg: 59
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/8/2010 7:32:01 PM
The 'reciprosity-factor' must be considered....anticipating the cunni- in return...
I like to give Twice what I get..!!
...even if I prefer to _start_ the process..!!
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 62
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/8/2010 9:10:30 PM

If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?

The same reason I always have an erection when I'm going down on a woman, I love being on such intimate terrms with her and experiencing her arousal.
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