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I get some who lie about the little things. But I've grown to expect it. Honestly I've I got a clear cut process and I never waiver (I have found that when I do I usually get disappointed) I contact them through POF or respond through POF, then I provide IM for yahoo and I chat for several days. I can definantly tell within a couple chats on IM or if then we can progress to a phone call, I can tell whether this person is worth taking the time to meet. I have to be honest that less than 1% meet the criteria. But it's not as much about them as it is about me what I'm looking for and what matters to me. Chemistry, experience, knowledge, timing, lack of drama, age, weight (yea sorry this makes a huge difference to me, I have found that I'm not typically physically attracted to someone who is over weight) I think we have to put this system in perspective. Most people (particularly here) do not know what they want and worse wouldn't know what it was if they saw it. I'm pretty sure people just want to be with someone and they are trying anything they can to make it happen. Just food for thought.
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