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 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 3
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Do women like sex just as much as men? Answering that will most likely lead you to think “Well, it depends on the girl and the guy”. Well the same is true for your question. Some guys like to cuddle and others not. Your first bf was not one to love to be cuddled to enjoyed cuddling you. And your ofther bf seemed more of a cuddler than your first.

So the bottom line is that some guys like it and others not so much. The way you understanf if they are or not is either by holding them or watching for their reaction or even easier… ASKING them if they like it or not!
 A-Pot-Of-Goodness
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 4
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Do you like to be cuddled??
Posted: 6/26/2009 8:09:34 PM
I'm a cuddle whore. My ex-girlfriends usually had contests to see how long I could sit beside them and not touch them. I never lasted long.

Although there are some guys that don't cuddle as much, or like it as much. It really changed from person to person, but I believe at some level everyone wants affection.
 livetolaf443
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 8
Do you like to be cuddled??
Posted: 6/26/2009 10:31:40 PM
BEST PART OF A RELATIONSHIP....
sex lasts for minutes lol max 20-30
cuddling can last for hours :)
 Jay.FromNYC
Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 9
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Do you like to be cuddled??
Posted: 6/26/2009 10:55:56 PM
We don't usually say it. We just do it. I pretty much go for the bear hug smash effect. [jk]
 rainman12
Joined: 10/18/2007
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Do you like to be cuddled??
Posted: 6/26/2009 11:06:21 PM
Hell yes. But like someone above said, it will vary from guy to guy. I list cuddling in my interests. I'm a teddy bear, what can I say?
 IrishGod
Joined: 8/28/2006
Msg: 11
Do you like to be cuddled??
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:52:32 AM
If you havnt been seeing this new guy for a while,
so you reach in, get close and be all cuddle, he might think
you're getting into him too fast, or hes not into you like that.

Some guys want the chase of the hunt, so putting it all out there
up front it might be weird sometimes. Just saying as reference.
Iv been there, done that. But you never know.

Some men dont do the affection thing. But if you find a guy that
is into you, he will be up for it anytime to be close to you in any
moment.
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