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 collegegirl2222
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 1
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Ok his the problem, if a man only last for about 2 to 3 mins during sex, how can we fix this.. Is it a physical problem??? I'm honestly not kidding it doesnt last more then a few mins... Aswell during sex he tells me to stop moving or it will make his cum faster.. Is he just trying to finish things off because his not attacted to me?? Is he having sex with some else? Ive ask him, and he says his stress .... Man what do you think?
 hellgremlin
Joined: 5/23/2009
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What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 5:59:32 PM
There's numbing creams out there that'll help Mr. Quickdick rein in his horses, so to speak. Chances are he's cripplingly embarassed by his performance as is, so breach the subject lightly.

Do you use condoms? If not, they also have a pretty good delaying effect.

'course, both these solutions rely on making the male less sensitive, which means he'll enjoy sex less. Maybe introduce some interesting toys to the bedroom, to both take the pressure off his hair-triggered junk, and give you increased satisfaction?
 REDDRAGON.
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 3
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:04:59 PM

Ok his the problem, if a man only last for about 2 to 3 mins during sex, how can we fix this.. Is it a physical problem??? I'm honestly not kidding it doesnt last more then a few mins... Aswell during sex he tells me to stop moving or it will make his cum faster.. Is he just trying to finish things off because his not attacted to me?? Is he having sex with some else? Ive ask him, and he says his stress .... Man what do you think?


You are suffering from a syndrome that many women come across known as "Two minute Johnny" It really takes a toll on a guy's ego so try not to harpe about it too much.
 corig
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 4
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:10:31 PM
well if i have a pull before sex i last longer! So all the men out there make time to please ur self and u will be able to please ur women longer
 truckinguy1
Joined: 5/22/2004
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What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:20:08 PM
given your age and the assumption that the man is also young, he will have to do some work to control his premature ejaculation. Generally the problem is psychological and not physical. It has to do with self worth issues as a rule. Having said that, there are a couple of physiological solutions; a series of excercises called Kegals will help him control himself. Google this for more information. Also he can practice squeezing his penis below the head with his thumb and forefinger in a circle when he feels ejaculation coming on. Generally this is done while masturbating. Repeated practice will allow him to be able to this with his mind only. Hope this helps.
 carlos64030
Joined: 11/27/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:29:05 PM
Have him focus more on his strong suits... if he has any. If he's good at oral, have him get you off that way beforehand. Tell him to make better use of his hands and mouth. Foreplay is your friend.
 DocElffington
Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:39:00 PM
Tell him to picture a baseball game.

Or better yet.

Picture Roseanne Barr nekkid!
 carlos64030
Joined: 11/27/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:46:42 PM
Ok... since she's reeeeally lookin' for help:
Tell your man to practice stopping and starting his urine stream while taking a leak.
Pee some and then stop. Keep doing that and it'll help him have more control over his muscles and emotions. Ok... I'm not sure about the emotion part.
 gracengracie
Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:01:46 PM
^^^^ exactly, that is why nothing better than and older lover!!!
My 57 y.o. ex- lover.....amazing is the least to call him. Could last forever and could go a 2nd round no sweat.
 hellgremlin
Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:23:33 PM

golden girls reruns will do it. although that estelle getty is very cute


Oh thanks a lot, buddy!

Now I gotta go beat off.
 Husker Freak
Joined: 5/3/2009
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:56:20 PM
I'm the wrong person to be giving advice here. Don't go so fast? Slow down?
 SOFHR
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 12
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:18:43 PM
well, if you are having intercourse at night, it would behoove you to have a nooner or give a quickie BJ a few hours earlier. Yall could do that for each other. That way, intercourse is much better. Part of that sexy foreplay and flirting that everyone likes. Of course with the working world, this can only take place on weekends as workdays are usually filled with BS (Wait, he's just a young guy). If that doesn't work, start dating B.O.B. to help you.
 Harley_Quinn999
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/5/2009 8:56:11 PM
It helps if he masterbates before hand then the second time around it will last longer
He could eat you out and pleasure you while his errection comes back :)

Also a C*o*c*k Ring Helps by making a man last longer , Even if he ejactulates his penis will still be errect for you :)
 collegegirl2222
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 14
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:48:32 AM
thanks everyone for your advice, I tried all sorta of things and nothing seem to work, even having sex a few times that day... For the age factor his in his late 30's, so I'm thinking his not that young... It's really affecting or sex life because I'm not really getting anything out of it... I basically cant make any noise or move during sex or else he blames me for making him cum faster...
 IrishGod
Joined: 8/28/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:30:52 AM
have bunch of sex every time he is wanting it!
If its 3 times a day, do it! After a while, it will
get to the point where he cant cum. Trust me...

Let him get sex as much as he can, everyday.
The sex part wont be so over whelming for him.
And one day, as iv said, he will last longer.
So if that one day he dont.. id say (3 weeks)
then dump him. Move on if you dont get off
in that time ONLY if you give it to him as much
as needed!

It can be Insecurity, Over whelmed or he could
just have an issue somewhere like depressed,
or even stress about something. Make him very
relaxed. Make him want it, but dont rush into it
sometimes. Make Foreplay last so dam long,
he goes limp! It sucks but the pop off wont be
there anymore.
 hellgremlin
Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:37:13 AM

It's just lack of self control. Tell him to think about that pic of Andrea Dworkin.


http://www.moonbattery.com/archives/jababthehutt.jpg

This one, you mean?
 hellgremlin
Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:54:15 AM
Pac-Man as a method of delaying climax... oh man, I can see it now.

"Oh baby! Harder!"
"WOKKA-WOKKA-WOKKA-WOKKA"
"Faster!"
"WOKKAWOKKAWOKKAWOKKA!"
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 18
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/6/2009 10:29:58 AM
grab his balls and say ... if you leave me hanging again these will no longer be hanging on you...he his a jerk or has no idea what he is doing
 tallshyman
Joined: 1/1/2008
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:58:24 AM
makers of male enhancement pills say make a man last longer.
 Chrìs
Joined: 12/27/2006
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:58:49 AM
I used to think about video games...the old ones, pac man n missle command


lol funny you should mention this, when i was younger, i was with a girl that didnt like to be looked at while she was performing oral sex. so one day were in my bedroom, she throws a blanket over herself and starts going to, i'm looking around and see the n64 controller beside me, then my eyes wonder over to the tv, i see that the n64 is on, but the tv is off. so i turn on and mute tv and lived out a boyhood fantasy of getting head and playing video games. i dont think ill ever be that happy again. well if i had a sandwhich beside me i think i would have died from pleasure.

anyways that was kind of off topic, but i felt like sharing :P. when i was starting out, i would think about whatever to keep from poping..... though i just came to the idea of her blowing me until i pop, then just pleasing her for whatever amount of time(depends on the woman) and then just heading into sex. though the easiest thing to do was to just make sure i took care of the girl i was with first, then i didnt really worry about how long or short the actual sex was...

but if he is not willing to work on it, and just walks off after he cums then its not really worth your time.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 21
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/6/2009 12:03:17 PM
There are things that he can do and there are things that you can do to help him.

Things that he can do.

Stop masturbating so much. Masturbation is about the final even, not the journey so it can lead to premature ejaculation.
But masturbation can be the solution as well in two ways. One, turn on a porn video and masturbate, when you are about to come, control it. That is Kegels. Also you will get dry orgasms that are awesome, they will build endurance to the point that you can then control the actual one with ejaculation and that one will be awesome. Also, if you are going to have sex, let him masturbate before hand, so by the time you engage in penetration it will be his second one and he will last longer.

Thing that you can help him do.
YOu can masturbate him, but do not come in your vagina. You can give him a bj. Let him come inside your mouth, outside, it doesn't matter. Then make him go down on you. That will him his wanka a rest to build the energy for the second turn.
Third. Do kegels while fvcking. But that requires tremendous concentration and communication with both of you. When he needs to slow down and have a dry orgasm, you both need to stop. The good thing about this is that you can end up with a bunch of dry orgasms, each getting more intense. So by the time you actually come it will be mind blowing.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/14/2009 6:36:19 AM
What can I do to make a man last longer

cut him into smaller bites ...and dont over cook him...and throw some vegetables in the pot
 gmala69
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/15/2009 2:18:50 PM
Try Trojan Extended Pleasures. He needs to put them on atleast 5 minutes before penetration. It is the simplest fix for you without drugs, surgery, etc... It de-sensatizes the penis, so if he usually makes you be very still after sex because any movement drives him crazy then this is the product for you!! Happy screwing!!
 DocElffington
Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 7/15/2009 2:33:23 PM

What can I do to make a man last longer


Pray!!
 GREATEST LOVER
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 26
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/15/2009 2:55:00 PM
op..........its nothing your doing wrong. you have what i call "killer ****" that means your stuff is sooo good, a guy can't prevent cumming after seconds or a few minutes. the only way to prevent this from happening because i can imagine how frustrated you are, is to have him take it out repeatedly when he's about to cum and start over again.
i've had a few women with that "killer ****" they're perfect for quickies in public...lol don't worry op, its not a bad thing, its actually good because you know you have some good ass ****.
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