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 mcwr
Joined: 3/24/2009
Msg: 2
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"3 Negatives - If I'm meeting a girl in person via this site, then this is the first physical meeting. Why do girls take this time to bring up every BAD thing about themselves? Don't they know this is the first date and may ruin any chance of a second?"

LOL. One time I went to hang out at a pub, and this girl started talking to me. She quikly mentioned that she was "probably too old for" me, and that she has three kids. I thought to myself, why don't you just tell me that you are fat too. I have eye's, you know.
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
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Posted: 7/15/2009 11:00:15 AM

3 Negatives - If I'm meeting a girl in person via this site, then this is the first physical meeting. Why do girls take this time to bring up every BAD thing about themselves? Don't they know this is the first date and may ruin any chance of a second?

Doesn't this cut down on wasted time, to figure out in one date what ordinarily takes several?
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 5
Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/15/2009 11:26:51 AM
This woman kept overselling herself for reasons I should not chase twenty something girls but stick with 40 something, like her.
Of course later on she said that her ex kept the Ferrari but traded her for a 20 something model.

Tells me that she is still married, even though her husband is having an affair so she wants to have one too to get at him. (She was French).

Drop dead gorgeous girl, had been a stripper but it was her questions that scared me. Such as have I done time. Do I deal or do meth. Do I carry a gun. Have I shot someone before. Did I beat up women. Her questions alone said, not for me.
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 7/15/2009 1:06:46 PM
Some dates (in fact these are most of the dates) that I have had:

1. Forgot to take her wedding ring off before the date.
2. Was years older and approximately 70lbs heavier than she was in her pics.
3. Spent the entire 1-2 hours talking about how horrible her ex-husband is. Attempts to redirect to new topics always resulted in "That reminds me of one time, my ex-husband..."
4. Was 30-40lbs heavier than her pics and constantly talked about sex, nasty banned-in-38-US-states kinda sex. We met in a coffee shop filled with people.
 cookie22222
Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 7/15/2009 1:13:02 PM
Do not take date to drive in XXX movies...
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 10
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Posted: 7/15/2009 1:29:56 PM
1. Do NOT look like your picture - I will leave.
2. Talk about your ex(es).
3. Inappropriate table manners (i.e. picking food from your teeth (lol), etc......(Assuming we went out for something to eat, behavior or got drunk.

 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 11
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Posted: 7/15/2009 1:38:24 PM

Dont pee in the bushes


Please don't tell me you actually experienced this on a first date, Shell225?

After reading some of the other responses, it makes one wonder wtf these people were thinking?!!!!
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/15/2009 4:24:22 PM

IdocSteve: Note to self. Do NOT date Sabrosura.

I have been told I look much better than my pictures

It never would have worked out between us.


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Note to Idoc Steve: You aren't my "type", so no worries.

If you weren't so quick to make ASSumptions, and have inkling of what I was referring to you'd know that I meant - MANY members post a picture of someone else, a picture 20 years old, or when they were 20 or more pounds lighter.

Hence, the person is attempting to start a potential relationship on a deception. A deal breaker for most, and definitely for me.
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
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Posted: 7/15/2009 5:43:33 PM
Don't ask me to borrow money so you can stay out on bail.
Don't tell me the surgery is almost complete, but you still have a penis.
Don't bring flowers and then eat them, stems and all
and for a bonus, don't wrap yourself in the table cloth and imitate a tent.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 7/15/2009 8:46:25 PM
[qoute] Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1ST Date .

1- Don't chew gum while talking.

2- Keep it coooool, don't grab your date like it's your first time to encounter a wo/man and very hungry of sex, like you have been incarserated 37 years in jail and no sex , we understand how you feel, but as I say cool it ......

3- Last but not least ,don't Fart loud or silent ,because if it is silent people might think somebody died because of the stink, if it is loud people might think a bomb was exploded..
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 7/15/2009 9:42:48 PM
1. Ask her what her weight is - to determine whether or not she'd fit in your freezer.

2. Tell her you caught Aids once but not to worry, it healed over.

3. Tell her that you can't go out to a pub - all the waitresses have restraining orders on you.
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 7/15/2009 9:52:19 PM

3. Don't lift your shirt and invite me to punch your abs of steel, I might aim lower.

BWAHAHaha! Duly noted!!
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 7/15/2009 9:56:41 PM
1. Talk about John Wayne, Gacy,Jeffrey Dahmer,et al.


John Wayne was my very first love, thank you...


2.Tell her how much you'd love to have her for dinner,. [/ quote]


I've spent $75.00 +tips$15.00 ,to have my hair fixed ,my dress is$ 2.49 on sale
at Salvation army thrift store and my red pumps I got it $.50 at a Garage sale and you think I look like a Prime Rib Steaks for your Dinner ??? SHEESH!!!!


Call her Clarice.


How dare you!!!to call me Clarice !!@#%^&
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 22
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Posted: 7/15/2009 9:59:58 PM
1. Conversation about how people our age shouldn't worry about having sex right away and that we are too old to care.

2. Grabby old fart who thinks he's funny, cute and sexy, and that old fat women are desperate.

3. Heavy aftershave, follow with heavy layer of baby powder or talc and then a big old smear of Locker Room Scent Right Guard.
 free.range.turkey
Joined: 5/20/2009
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/15/2009 10:03:02 PM
1. Cry.
2. Cry.
3. Realize you are both in the middle of nowhere and you need her to give you a ride back to civilization, once she's done crying.
 Wishes Granted
Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 7/15/2009 10:20:35 PM
1. Please Don't lick the entire rimmer off your Bloody Ceasar while keeping total eye contact with me.. uhm... ewwwww
2. Please Don't invite me to a restaurant of Your choice and then tell me when we meet there : "forget this place, lets hop IN MY CAR and I'll take you someplace else.
2. Please Don't meet me at a preplanned place and then wait until the last bus has stopped running to tell me you don't have a car and can I drive you home
 Wishes Granted
Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 7/15/2009 10:44:44 PM

Yes, he did.
And yes they not only made his ass look bulbous? But since his belt was under his arm pits he also had camel toe.

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 bmore_goat
Joined: 4/8/2009
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Posted: 7/16/2009 8:21:57 AM
Awesome thread!

1. Bring a 38 with you and threaten to shoot the next guy that bumps into you at the bar.

2. Hit me up for rent money or ask me can you and your 2 young children stay at my place because you are getting throw out of your place next week.

3. Get drunk and pick a fight with some young gangster hoods in a hole in a wall bar you insist we have a drink in.

(all true 1st date stories)
 coveredinpaint
Joined: 7/13/2009
Msg: 28
Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date
Posted: 7/16/2009 8:33:49 AM
What Not To Do On A 1st Date

1. Tell the girl that she looks like or does things just like your ex.

2. Tell the girl "We are awesome together."

3. Drop f-bombs like you are in a Scorsese movie.
 Gary4PointOh
Joined: 12/7/2005
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:08:17 AM
Most of my first dates are cool, but below are some meorablethings that have happened.

1. Receiving or making a phone call, unless it's a real emergency.

2. Giving off a clingy or dependant vibe about having to consult their family and little network of friends before they do anything in their life. Just keep it to yourself.

3. Too much make-up and/or perfume.
 Wishes Granted
Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2009 12:31:00 PM

Whip out your d**k in the middle of my kitchen when my back is turned, in a non-romantic moment
lmao .. If I was in an established relationship.. that would be as funny as hell., AND .. a great opportunity *bats eyelashes*

If unestablished.. I'd turn around with the knife I had in hand and tell him to put in on the chopping block and I'll stir fry it along with the green pepers and mushrooms I'm preparing.
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/16/2009 1:05:52 PM

mao .. If I was in an established relationship.. that would be as funny as hell., AND .. a great opportunity *bats eyelashes*

If unestablished.. I'd turn around with the knife I had in hand and tell him to put in on the chopping block and I'll stir fry it along with the green pepers and mushrooms I'm preparing.



LMAO!!!!!
 FastReb
Joined: 1/3/2009
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Posted: 7/16/2009 9:22:24 PM
Great thread. Now all I have to do is print off the answers and show them to my date. That way, we'll both be able to laugh our butt off, even if a trip to the comedy club isn't on the agenda.

For me, it would be:

1) Talk negatively about a past ex or relationship. Negativity is definitely not a character trait I'm looking for. It also let's me know ahead of time that I'll be getting run down behind my back if things don't work out between us.

2) Go with me to a casino for a meal and a show, then not only expect me to fund your gambling excursion because you've fed your last nickel into a one-arm bandit and you just know it's about to pay off, but get rather tiffed when I don't.

3) Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom while we're dining but go into the bar to flirt with someone that just caught your eye, and which could be seen in the fortuitously (for me) placed mirror that you forgot about or never saw.
 Wishes Granted
Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 7/17/2009 6:07:05 PM
!) Never tell her that the best sex you ever had was during that eight year stretch in prison!
haha.. The "Utensil" rule of in-prison first dates:
Tonight we spoon, then we fork, or .. you get the knife ..
 SamuraiPixie
Joined: 9/12/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 7/17/2009 6:17:33 PM
1. Don't get rip roaring drunk;
2. Don't get grabby; and,
3. Don't talk about all your other girlfriends, dates, and/or relationships and why SHE was to blame for everything that went wrong, all night.

S.
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