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 rossal
Joined: 12/5/2005
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Happens to me all the time. Who knows? I don't care why they do it. It is rude, ignorant and DISrespectful.

They wouldn't know class, grace or elegance if it hit them with a train. I am not into babysitting.

:) :)
 Celticmist
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 7/22/2009 6:59:50 AM
Forgive their immaturity and laugh.

They believe if you're an older woman, even if good looking, that you are desperate for a younger man. Something of a urban legend - enticing, but not really true.

They believe if you're an older woman who is overweight, that you would be grateful for any attention - wrong of course, but they have nothing to lose by trying.

They believe if you're an older woman who is overweight and wears glasses , you will worship the ground they walk on, and become highly irate when you inform them that they are wrong, and need to mature.

It's just funny - bathos - in my book and I .
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
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Posted: 7/22/2009 7:09:29 AM
Currently there is a thread about older women being fun (sassy).

Some people in that thread are complaining that some older women are cold to them therefore unfriendly - mean etc.

What this thread particular topic is about is one of the reasons older women learn to shut off contact with unwanted attention in the fastest way possible. We have no choice but the learn from the behaviour of others, what works to get rid of unpleasant behaviour and what doesn't. We also learn the signs that lead to bad behaviour that could come our way.

There will always be younger and older people of both sex trying to take full advantage of others to be as abusive as possible. They see their advance as desireable because they are God's gifts after all. (In truth they probably know they are just being obnioxous, but are hoping to find someone who want to be abused....yes there are people who would be anything for company or attention.)

One of the best things about POF is that we can select the age group we want to have contact with, and block these younger men. After a while it gets really boring if we don't block them. There is enough youngsters in real life trying this on, we don't need it here when it is so easy to stop.
 iherdcats
Joined: 6/15/2006
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Posted: 7/22/2009 9:16:56 AM
The reasons for the behaviours are unique. What motivates them is more about the ego stage they are in, like how could anyone their Mum's age not be totally smitten with them?

Maybe the boy children have spent years being in company of their Mum's and never had the opportunity for any potty mouth conversation without being put in their place. I am thinking it has more to do with their issues over not having a sexual voice with their Mum's....

I just have such a laugh thinking that these children are younger then a pair of boots that I own and still use.

It might work for some, perhaps they are playing the odds, wishing and hoping that the urban legends are true.
However, it just seems that whole immature thing is highly overrated. Similar's attract.
 no_excuses_please
Joined: 6/28/2009
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Posted: 7/22/2009 1:32:57 PM
Ummm..is ignoring them not working for you?
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 7/22/2009 2:38:20 PM

Younger men and cyber chat/sex..what do you expect from boys..Real men,usually older and more experienced have manners and class...


i've had just as many raunchy come-ons from 50 and 60 somethings as i have from the 20 somethings.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 7/22/2009 3:21:25 PM
sunlover, you don't even get to exchanging phone numbers if you don't have sexually-charged online chats on their schedules.

i have no problem doing that with someone i'm interested in, but i'd like to develop a "relationship" - even an online one - FIRST!

 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
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Posted: 7/22/2009 3:22:15 PM
"I've received the "look at my weenie" (or someone's weenie) shots from the "mature" men and not the young ones.
go figure."

I agree but want to add that while older women are fun (sassy)..........putting up with the garbage thrown at us by weenie men, I for one tend to cut them short (pun intended)..........before I have to listen to there "look at my weenie".
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
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Posted: 7/22/2009 3:48:17 PM
"But not all "younger" men are the same."

Some are looking for sugarmommies, cause their real moms are done paying their bills.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 7/22/2009 4:44:05 PM
thanks!

isn't life all about learning something new every day?

 Izarith
Joined: 4/14/2008
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Posted: 7/22/2009 11:50:02 PM
Hello Celticmist,


Forgive their immaturity and laugh.

They believe if you're an older woman, even if good looking, that you are desperate for a younger man. Something of a urban legend - enticing, but not really true.

They believe if you're an older woman who is overweight, that you would be grateful for any attention - wrong of course, but they have nothing to lose by trying.

They believe if you're an older woman who is overweight and wears glasses , you will worship the ground they walk on, and become highly irate when you inform them that they are wrong, and need to mature.

It's just funny - bathos - in my book and I .


I hate to be put into those categories.

I totally understand what you mean and in most cases it is very, very true.

But I personally am a very vulgar man and it is just my nature to slip sex into a conversation. I will say that only when I send a direct message to a woman do I not speak or write in a vulgar manner. And any man who does is being disrespectful and as i would put it uncarismatically vulgar.

That being said I would now like to give a different perspective on this ever increasing phenomena one of which I would have to add myself as a culprit. I have lost total hope with younger women. not because I am not attractive and they don't want me but simply because they are just so absolutely unwomanly. Sure they look great and smell nice and have their youth. But just talking to them is like talking to a assembly line carbon copy consumer corporate wet foocking dream. Talking to women my age makes me want to but a toy gun to my head and wish it was real.

I mean you older women have no idea what a commodity you have become to men all across the foocken planet. What future do I face with young girls today? just that thought makes me want to piss my pants. Even if I find a girl who loves me what then? Does she have family values? does she even what to know how to treat a man right?

The girls of my generation think that because they give you sex they have done all that is needed in a relationship. They think that love is an itch in their pants and when that goes away "well I guess I did not love him".

Can you honestly blame young men for fantasising about older women who would actually take decent care of a guy? Women who in our minds come from a time that the girls our age did not?

I mean men act accordingly to the women of our time so you can't really blame the fact that young men today lack any respect or decency entirely on us. After all it is not a requirement with young Women today.

Just a thought

TA!!
Izzy.
 Izarith
Joined: 4/14/2008
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Posted: 7/23/2009 12:03:31 AM
Hello Daffie,


young guys don't find us hot.....they're just hoping that some of us will be desperate enough to stroke their.....er......ego!


Oh I sincerely, most humbly, beg on both my knees, to differ my dear.

I find older women rock hard, no Viagra needed, incredibly arousing, to say the least.

Yes some of it has to do with the fact that i am younger and an older woman might find that pleasing. But it's only because I wish to please.

And is there something entirely all that wrong with having ones ego elevated a bit. Would not a young stud strapped to your arm not do the same? Perhaps i am merely more compassionate for not holding it against you.

TA!!
Izzy.
 _Paradoximus_Maximus
Joined: 2/24/2009
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Posted: 7/23/2009 5:37:42 AM
Guess you might want to amend your interests list and remove "EVERYTHING".
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 7/23/2009 10:30:36 AM

I don't know about other mature women, but the last thing on earth I want to do is "take decent care of a guy".

I concur.

I have no desire to "date" a fetus.
 Izarith
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 7/23/2009 4:28:15 PM
Hello Jerseygirl2008,


I have no desire to "date" a fetus.


Well I can see where these young girls get their stuff from.....*Faceplam*

Look just have me Babe, you can always put me up for adoption afterwords.

This fetus comes potty trained.

TA!!
Izzy.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 7/23/2009 4:33:52 PM

I have no desire to "date" a fetus.


Oh Jersey! That has to be one of the best comments I have read here in ages! Made me run after my depends girlie!

OT: I can't, simply can't. I am unsure of what they think when they contact me. Could be a multitude of reasons. I have money, I am hard up for sex with someone, anyone, or I have the secret to superb sex!!!!
 SueCat51
Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 7/23/2009 4:36:14 PM
It's a DEALBREAKER! I think there are some whack jobs out there, but I also think there are those that like to stir up the pot. Stick to your guns, if you aren't comfortable, then call on the TERMINATOR!
 Izarith
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 7/23/2009 5:07:06 PM
Hello Moonchild48,


OT: I can't, simply can't. I am unsure of what they think when they contact me. Could be a multitude of reasons. I have money, I am hard up for sex with someone, anyone, or I have the secret to superb sex!!!!


Look to a guy, no matter what age, if a woman is attractive she is just that. Attractive.

Do you ladies think that a mans perspective of what is visually attractive changes with age? Does it for you? NO! Remember...I said visually attractive.

So if a younger guy finds an older woman visually attractive can you blame him for thinking of you rapping your legs around him till you both go limp and laconic?

And yes it's is a well known fact that older women are better in bed. It's not my fault you know what your doing, is it now. And if an older woman is super rich how does a mans age protect you from his aspirations to your wealth?

Very few men mature with age. I am sure many of you older ladies will agree. so don't be so hard on us Fetuses.

TA!!
Izzy.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 7/23/2009 5:56:11 PM
Well Izzy my darlin? This ole gal falls far short of being rich!
I guess I would agree with you that visually attractive is just that. Except, irl the pairing up never works. A well know fact that older women are better in bed? Well, I personally can't comment there as I don't go that way!
 Izarith
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:28:41 PM
Hello moonchild48,


A well know fact that older women are better in bed? Well, I personally can't comment there as I don't go that way!


That's the magic about a well known fact, No comment needed.

TA!!
Izzy.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
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Posted: 7/23/2009 9:24:36 PM
"The older guys do exactly the same thing. Is it alright for them to do it?"

No, it is just the same old boring stuff. When we say we aren't interested, their rejection gene kicks in and the throw stuff back like "been in datingland so long pretending you don't want partner."

Yep, want one of those type.............not.
 Izarith
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 7/23/2009 11:53:07 PM
Hello Pazoozoo,


but the last thing on earth I want to do is "take decent care of a guy".


Yeah what monster on Earth would stoop to such a low thing.....*Facepalm*


It's a well known fantasy of young men. It isn't a fact.


Or maybe it is a fact but your distaste for "take decent care of a guy" also applies in the bed room.

The world may never know.

TA!!
Izzy.
 BlueTeaPot
Joined: 6/25/2011
Msg: 43
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Posted: 7/19/2011 11:27:02 PM
They are just too young and boring...let's face it - we're older and hot!!!!

But seriously folks....I just decline getting into conversations with them....it isnt worth it.
 Rozewater
Joined: 10/4/2010
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Posted: 7/20/2011 2:23:58 AM
They think because you are older you are more experienced and in their warped thinking they believe that more experienced means wanting to talk about it and wanting to do it more.
 Darkbutcomely
Joined: 4/20/2011
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Posted: 7/20/2011 6:06:39 AM

Younger men and cyber chat/sex..what do you expect from boys..Real men,usually older and more experienced have manners and class...


Gawd I wish that were true. I have had someone grandfather say some of the most vile things to me in chat. And request nude pictures. So NO older men do not have more class.
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