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 MsCharlotte2U
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 2
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You forgot the hair down below question..
 Helloitsmeyourlookingfor
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 6
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Posted: 7/28/2009 7:15:24 AM
Its pretty easy to answer. Regardless of why the guy is on POF (longterm, dating, etc.) he will always take the sex from the one he is not interested in long term. The easiest way to go about having sex on this site.... be direct.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 7/28/2009 7:18:01 AM
well after I got to know you a bit I might ask those questions ... just to get to know you more ...but your answers would not be a deal breaker ...as i dont care that much for receiving oral sex ...and I dont want to cum in your mouth so swallowing wont be an issue ...I really dont mind whether you squirt or not ... if its good for you its good for me ...i dont see the point in anal sex however again if its good for you its good for me ... i do prefer that women be trimmed down there as I am but again thats something we can work on if it comes to that point ...and by all means if you have some girlfriends who would like to join us for dinner and dancing ... i might even bring some of my guy friends ..playing match maker can be fun ..we will all have a good time ..and then I will go home with just you

i have always made it a point to let the woman bring up sex first ..just because I know how you gals are about that ...but I have never had to wait long for the subject to come up ... you know I have never asked anything and had a woman be offended by it ...and I can be pretty frank
but women insist on being the first to bring up the subject of sex ...so me lets them ...never had a woman get upset about talking about sex ...when they think it is their idea

but then ...im not on the market ..so this post is just.. what it is
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 7/28/2009 7:28:09 AM
I've got lots of female friends and sometimes we talk about the things guys say on dates and yes, they tell me stuff like you hear and I always end up saying "Wow! He SAID that to you?? Damn!!"I just can't believe the things I've been told some guys say! I don't roll like that. I'll just wait and see how things develop in the bedroom before negotiations start, they may go your way without having to ask such things beforehand.

Left me feeling like I don't really know about half of what 'all hear and that I don't know my own kind at all!
 Blakkardaberry
Joined: 2/7/2009
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Posted: 7/28/2009 7:59:36 AM
Interesting the questions are not unheard of basically just trying to guage the waters before going for a swim, what suprises me is no questions about what would you like what make you get off. By the way if you ask questions like how long and do they like anal you probably get a lie or at best a grunt when sex is in the offing all bets are off for most men on putting themselves out of the running. It would be a waste if you think about it to be with someone who hates anal if your really into it. Might as well save some time and find out the awnswer before you get too involved. Generally I think its good to ask a question otherwise how do you know whats acceptable or what will just plain turn her off, besides you get insight into how that person thinks just by the questions they ask. So ask me anything ,that doen't mean I will awnswer but at least no comment is kinda an awnswer in itself.

 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:11:45 AM
^^^^Good insight.
I guess I just don't have anything in my list of wants that's to far off from standard stuff most people do.
Chance are I'll get what I'm after without asking beforehand just because it's pretty standard stuff. All relative I guess...what's standard for some , might not be for some others.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:27:07 AM

.as i dont care that much for receiving oral sex ...and I dont want to cum in your mouth so swallowing wont be an issue .

just for fun kellygurl why would this be a deal breaker for you you will notice i said that I dont care THAT much for receiving oral sex ... I am not against receiving oral sex and love to give it ...but it takes a back seat to regular sex ...the statement that I dont want to cum in your mouth I stand by ... however I will and have finished in a woman's mouth if she wants me to... but for me it is just so much more intimate finishing during regular vaginal sex
i emailed you because i think you misunderstood the point I was trying to get across
its not that I am against these activities ..I just dont get the importance that guys these days put on them ..I dont have any hangups when with a consenting woman ....I just have a fetish for good old fashion vaginal sex where the heart is involved ..its the passion that i feed on during sex ..not the novelty of the mechanics
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:39:26 AM
This is so untrue!! Really the first questions guys ask are these:

Do you do windows?
Do you make coffee?
Can you get me a beer?
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:39:59 AM
I think the guy asking those 4 questions is taking the fun out of finding out.

My most commonly asked questions...

1) You gonna eat that?
2) I'm going to the store, do you want anything while I'm out?
3) Can you get that?
4) What?
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 14
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:49:26 AM
OP: I've NEVER had any man ask these questions of me. If they did - I'd block his azz in a NY minute!!!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:23:32 AM

I have never asked a women if she swallows...or if she does anal....where's the surprise in asking? Discovering it for yourself is so much more fun!


WHAT!!!! those things are things that I think you damn well better ask before you try to find out for your self
actually there are threads about both and a overwhelming majority of women said ask first take my word for it ..surprise them with roses not ...with a mouth full of you or by slipping in the back door uninvited ... doing so could be hazardous to your health
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:43:06 AM

OP didn't say when she was in a relationship, she when she starts talking to a guy. That pretty much sounds like an almost complete stranger that she has discussions about sex. Once in a relationship, if you are into something kinky or whatever and want to do something, communication is important. But geez, sounds more like she talks about sex before she even goes out a date with these guys. Perhaps I am misreading what she wrote, but that is the way the black and white sounded to me.


yes i think you are right ...but like i said in my first post ...I never bring up sex first ..but have found that if you are a gentleman the women really want to know and will bring up sex most times even before you meet them

there is a right and a wrong way to ask these type questions ... and it doesnt really have to be after you are a couple ... i think it is really important to as these things especially with online dating ..but again I have never had a problem offending a woman by asking anything ..me thinks women are smart enough to know if a guy is trying to get to know her or if he is a classless jerk
i think the op is talking about the classless jerks ..but why not discuss every possibility ...im bored
 bgrumling
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:53:06 AM
as a guy
1) There is nothing that feels better then oral sex for ,for me. i love giving and recieveing more than anything.
2)the orgsam that way is more intense and feels so much better when you cum in a womans mouth.
3) the whole aunt ruby and cousin flo thing bothers me. so when they come to town i wanna make love to my woman, so i wanna put it in another hole.
4) i dont care if a woman squirts or not. thats a novelity thats why a guy asks that and because we are so insecure bout givin women orgasams its a way to show it.
5) if a woman has been with an animal like the furry 4 legged kind i wont touch her, way too many diseases period.
6) hair downstairs thats a personal preference. me i like hair down there because of the mental stand point. i have a daughter thats nine. a woman without hair downstairs, that would be like a lil girl. i have to have carpet to munch on.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:07:54 AM
Do guys really ask those things? I've always found that women just tell me without having to ask (except the squirt question. I've never asked and no woman has ever mentioned it).
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 21
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:26:49 AM
This is assuming that the topic of the discussion is sex and that these questions are not just comming out of the blue, because that would not be proper at all.
1. just want to know what's on the menu before ordering.
2. just trying to be polite, if you don't swallow, we'll pull out and bathe those titties!
3. just want to know before hand so we're not left wondering if we just got peed on.
4. same answer as number one.
Animals??? Do you really get that one all that often? That may be TMI.
 sockknitter
Joined: 2/26/2008
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Posted: 7/28/2009 2:59:34 PM
I am glad I have seemed to corresponded with a higher quality of men here than other women have seemed to. Not once have I ever been asked any of those questions. So thank you to those gentlemen I have talked to here in the last couple of years!!!

~Sox
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 7/28/2009 3:05:33 PM

There's always viagra, cialis, enzyte, levitra, etc.



yes, I know dear, but it's just so romantic, sitting around for 30 minutes waiting for it to take effect, so..................much fun.


Huh? Why are just sitting around waiting for it to take effect?
There are lots of things ya'll can be doing while waiting!

As for the questions.......Not really first contact conversation for me.....
but those things will be discussed within a few conversations , as I want to know if there is any hangups before I start dating someone.
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/28/2009 3:32:58 PM
Sometimes, when you answer the questions, the guy thinks you are loose, now.
I never bother to ask a guy those questions for fear of this answer: "Let me show you!" LOL
 BigDaddyVI
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/28/2009 5:54:52 PM
"What's the biggest****you've ever had?"
 RadioMark
Joined: 9/26/2006
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Posted: 7/28/2009 7:05:51 PM
I hate to think how these men are finding you. Those are all questions I'd NEVER even dream of asking early on, and to me, they'd be irrelevant at that point anyway. Unless someone wanted me to poop on them. I'd like to know that up front so I can run the other way.
 majyk1
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 30
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Posted: 7/29/2009 1:40:31 AM
Oh crap you mean the men are supposed to be asking those questions first and not me?? So thats what im doing wrong. hahaha
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
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Posted: 7/29/2009 7:53:41 AM

Does you Dad own a brewery


Well?
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 7/29/2009 10:44:31 AM
No I'm usually the one asking the questions. I believe if they are not into what your into then why take the next step? I have only been asked if I like to have sex. I always ask my questions and only because in the past when I do choose to date a guy I always get the ones that have hang ups with stuff. I ask do u like to give and receive oral, can u get off, do u like to have sex, do u know what foreplay is and do u like to kiss. See I want it all! I would rather be single if I can't have it all!
 CharmedinKtown
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 7/29/2009 3:19:10 PM
1) oral - yes mutually
2) swallow - if you do, I do
3) squirt - find out for yourself
4) anal - sure but you first big boy.
 bgrumling
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:22:20 PM
as far as i know i have never asked these questions till we were actually in bed. most of the women i have dated have voulenteered this information before i have went to bed with them. but it has been weeks after we dated and the first time we went to bed. but also you women in some areas are jest as bad.
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