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 mis-guided
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 2
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Send them a message if your interested. Whats the harm!

MG
 2fuzy
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 8/19/2009 11:57:17 PM
yes it doesn't mean a thing they are just looking
but if your inclined fly them a kite why not
 MrMiracle
Joined: 7/31/2009
Msg: 6
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Posted: 8/20/2009 12:02:11 AM
well just scanning over your profile i can see that you're very attractive. so there are probably a lot of guys who see that and think that you're out of their league or would not be interested and don't even try. so in short yes that's normal. and if you see a guy who you like then you should message him most likely he'll be very pleasantly surprised.

t.m.
 koncrete
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 8
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Posted: 8/20/2009 2:18:57 AM
If I was 10 years older and lived around your area I would most certainly message you ;)
 GMan85615
Joined: 6/21/2009
Msg: 9
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Posted: 8/20/2009 6:07:56 AM
Yeah, your filters are part of the problem...I would reduce the "relationship" filters since they mean different things to different people.

And here's an example: I just looked at your profile. But I'm not going to write, because we're not potential dates each for the other.

LOTS of thumbnails pop up, and if one catches my eye, I'll click on it. Remember, no-one knows anything until they READ the profile. So if that person is a non-smoker, too young, too old, self-absorbed, desperate, I dunno till after I look at them.

So yeah, go ahead and message. But be aware, even though you're an attractive female, the guys you're finding hot are found hot by many other women as well...so you might find yourself competing too.
 FLmusicdude
Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 11
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Posted: 8/20/2009 7:07:55 AM
Definitely send them a message and find out whats up. Could just be they were too shy or couldn't think of something to say at that time.
 potsmoker2009
Joined: 5/20/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 8/20/2009 7:11:57 AM
cos of your mail settings , you've basically blocked everyone from messaging you.
 XDM_40
Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 8/20/2009 9:54:54 AM
i just tried messaging you, but i didnt meet your requirments. your a very picky lady;)

you should change your age requirements.
 As you wish....
Joined: 12/28/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 8/20/2009 1:38:34 PM
I looked at your profile but didn't message you. You are beautiful but too far from me, so I just move on. :)
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