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 oldskool67
Joined: 10/11/2007
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I am thinking is this the female version of premature ejacualtion


no, I wouldn't say that however........

if you are with any man that had a clue to what he was doing....he would give you a 2 to 3 minute rest by concentrating elsewhere and then return to give you another one, then another one, then another one (get the point here?).
 Okietokie88
Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 8/23/2009 6:08:28 PM

if you are with any man that had a clue to what he was doing....he would give you a 2 to 3 minute rest by concentrating elsewhere and then return to give you another one, then another one, then another one (get the point here?).


Nice tip, have to use that one some day.Granted I'd first have to meet a woman with a premature orgasm problem JK
 zangie
Joined: 5/30/2007
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Posted: 8/23/2009 6:13:34 PM
I never thought it was a problem...or a negative..just something you have to work around...rest periods help...

( Some guys find it a turn on....)
 Blakkardaberry
Joined: 2/7/2009
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Posted: 8/23/2009 6:28:57 PM


I never thought it was a problem...or a negative..just something you have to work around...rest periods help...

( Some guys find it a turn on....)


correction all guys find this a turn on

Ok back to the subject at hand if you come too fast and can't be touched, there are other ways to keep him occupied while you recover enough for another round.
You could also look into getting a bob so you can learn more about your body and how to savor the moment or drag it out longer . Practice makes perfect as they say. As a male some of us learned early in life how to extend the time it takes to orgasm. We are always being told that if you come quick your not always gonna get a second shot. So I learned some mental tricks and desensitizing things to prolong love making It works out well most of the time .
 privat33r
Joined: 2/8/2009
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Posted: 8/23/2009 7:15:29 PM
What the heck is the problem with that??! so what- you have to cool down for an hour. He didn't just pop in with a pizza while the car ran outside, you didn't kidnap the garbage guy while his buds run up the street and back.

This seems like the coolest "trouble" any guy ever heard about - grab a cold cloth, let you knees stop shaking, try not to look over your shoulder at the silly bemused smile your beau has.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/23/2009 8:58:55 PM

where the guy bangs the chick for like 20 - 35 mins on end ..... and the woman doesn't seem overwhelmed. ....!?

This is normal for us. Then again I have a hard trigger... so I need this in order to orgasm.


Oi - we should all have this problem... We could have ours and then roll over and start snoring leaving our partners unfulfilled and wanting. Talk about emancipation.

Hehe.. yes.. we should all have this problem. Then again I've taken mine and left him *high and dry* a few times. Why? Because I can. *weg*


OP - woman was blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms. Sure, your ultra sensitive right after but shoot! Keep going and enjoy a few more! As a few have said, a lot of women could only WISH they had that problem! I know I do!

I get ultra sensitive after as well... and he's pushed me beyond my tolerances slowly to the point now he doesn't have to stop right away and the experience is wickedly delicious.

*sigh*

I miss him... *big pout*
 *Dr_Hugnkiss*
Joined: 8/6/2009
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Posted: 8/24/2009 7:52:11 AM
I had a partner who had exactly this experience. I learned to adjust what I was doing so that we could compliment each other.

I would verbally play with her, lots, and physically touch her all over, but concentrating less on the regular spots. You will be amazed how many varied ways for a sensitive woman to experience an orgasm?

Once she did orgasm she was hyper sensitive, to the point I couldn't touch her, at all! So multiple orgasms were not possible.

On a plus side she learnt to make herself orgasm without even touching herself and it was a great ego boost for me, to know she would be "spent" every time we got together.

I never thought she might want to desenistise herself, hmmm. Something that was different for her was anal sex, she found that she could last longer, like that.
 *Dr_Hugnkiss*
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Posted: 8/24/2009 11:23:59 AM
I can't see a "problem".

Like all things in life, "timing" is important and "balance" is essential.

If I may be flippant, you could find a bloke who was premature, them problem solved.

The sensitivity, was explained to me, like doing 12 rounds with Mike Tyson, getting ten bells knocked out of you, then your trainer coming up and saying, "Audley Harrison wants to fight you now, but don't worry he'll be gentle", hahaha!



I agree communication/honesty is key.
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